37 Tony Robbins Part 1
37 Tony Robbins Part 1
Tim Ferriss: Hello, Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls. This is a very
exhausted Tim Ferriss, and welcome to the Tim Ferriss show. So
glad to have you. I am one tired son of a bitch right now, and I
couldn't be happier about it because I have been flying around the
country doing various experiments, and I had the opportunity to go
to Palm Beach, Florida to sit at the home of Tony Robbins and ask
him just about everything I've ever wanted to ask him. And this is
a very special interview for me. This is the interview, the
conversation, I've wanted to have for 15 years. And now that I'm
back in SF gathering myself, drinking some, what appears to be
Laughing Coyote Tea.
I have no idea what's in it. It could be all sorts of drugs. And I'm
thrilled to be putting this out there for you because Tony is a
fascinating character. For those of you who don't know him, he
has consulted or advised leaders including Nelson Mandela,
Mikhail Gorbachev, Margaret Thatcher, and Mother Teresa. He's
consulted members of two royal families, US Congress, US Army,
US Marines, three US presidents, including Clinton. And other
celebrity clients would include names you know like Serena
Williams, Andre Agassi, Greg Norman, of course the golf legend,
Leonardo DiCaprio, and Oprah Winfrey, who calls him
Superhuman. The stat that always just sends my head spinning is
that Tony has developed and produced five award-winning
infomercials.
Why is there so much financial illiteracy, and how do you stack the
deck so that you can win?" Because there's a lot of hi-jinx, and
there's a lot of nonsense out there. How do you actually invest?
What do you do with your money? And it's a huge topic, but he has
interviewed, and in fact, coached some of the most unbelievable
minds in the world of finance and investing. I couldn't believe the
list, including people like Paul Tudor Jones, Ray Dalio, who is of
course a wiz in the world of hedge funds. And the list is
unbelievable.
But I guarantee you even if you don't care about investing or you
think you don't care about investing -- and by the way, if you've
decided not to think about investing, that is a decision in investing.
I guarantee that if you listen to this entire conversation, which I
plan to listen to over and over again -- it has a lot of information --
that you will take away at least one or two things from Tony that
lead you to say, "Holy shit. I've never looked at that aspect of my
life that way." And it will turn things upside down, and you will
walk away with a completely different lens through which you can
look at how you're living, how you're handling your business, and I
think you will find tremendous value from this single interview.
So I will leave it at that. I don't want to oversell it. I will say that
for me, Tony can be an intimidating guy just in sheer size. He's a
big dude; and he can actually palm my entire face, and we have a
photograph of that that I'll share when I get in the interview. He's
also a very seasoned pro, and I have a lot of respect for him. So it
takes me five or ten minutes -- I'd say -- Yeah, let's just say ten
minutes -- to find my feet in this interview. When we hit our
stride, then all sorts of gems come out.
Tony Robbins: I'm glad to be home. That's a rare thing, much less to have you
here -- thankful to have you here as well.
Tim Ferriss: And we have many different topics. I have many different
questions I'd love to delve into. Of course, I -- perhaps
unbeknownst to a lot of my fans -- have a long history with Tony
Robbins but not in person. This is the first, and for those of you
who don't know some of the background, when I first graduated
from school and moved to Silicon Valley to chase the billions that
seemed just -- they were being handed out in '99.
Tim Ferriss: In 1999, they were in a way. And I was driving a hand-me-down
beat up green Minivan from my mom. The seats got stolen from
inside -- at least the back, so all of my co-workers started harassing
me and calling it the "Molester-Mobile." And the job, the
company, didn't seem to be a long term fit for me, and when I was
on a road trip at one point, I bought Personal Power. It may have
been Personal Power 2. And I started listening to it to and from
work on my commute, which is terrible for those who don't know
the Bay Area. If you're on 101 between San Jose and SF, it's
horrible. And ultimately, that was one of the catalysts for me
starting my first company.
Tony Robbins: Wow! I'm really touched that -- knowing all that you've done, that
really touches me completely because you've been an inspiring
character to me -- Not for Four Hour Work Week because I'm
looking for the 4-hour sleep work at this stage. I'd like to be able
to pull that one off. But really, I think the way you attack subjects
-- and that's what you do. You don't look at them. You go after a
mastery of them. And the way you experiment, and the way you
constantly dig underneath to find the organizing principles, I feel a
kinship with you -- we're in different stages of life and things like
that, but I have enormous respect for you.
Tim Ferriss: Thank you for sure. And I have, of course, a bunch of self-
interested questions that I think will also be interesting to other
folks hopefully. But what's always impressed me about your entire
career and the results that you’ve achieved is how far you’ve been
able to take it in terms of working with -- say the top 1% of
performers in the world. And I read in your new book, which
everyone should take a look at. We'll be delving into it a lot more
as we progress in the interview. But there was a quote from Mr.
Benioff of Salesforce who credits you with -- effectively if there
were no Tony Robbins, there would be no salesforce.com.
Tony Robbins: That's a pretty big claim to make. I think he might have told me he
exaggerated. But he kind of walked me through because it started
very much like you, him on the freeway in Silicon Valley every
day listening.
Tim Ferriss: And you get these -- you're able to reach such a high caliber of
individual. When you meet with such people, whether they're
presidents, athletes like Serena Williams, Agassi, actors like Hugh
Jackman, whoever it might be, Benioff's quote was, "Tony said to
me that the quality of my life was the quality of my questions." So
what I would be curious to know is when you meet with these top
performers, where do you start? What are the questions that you
ask them?
Tony Robbins: Well, I ask questions before I meet them. The question I want to
ask before I meet them is, "Who are they? What are they made of?
What are they after? What's preventing them from getting it?
Where are their wounds? What is their deepest pride?" Not in a
negative way, like what are they proud of. I try to find as much as
I can in advance so that I can be really effective and efficient when
I meet them. When you meet somebody -- yourself myself, the
most valuable thing we have is our time. So I try to be beyond
respectful of that, but also I load my brain with all the distinctions I
can so that when I enter in to an interaction with someone and
we're engaged, I have a disproportionate amount of information,
ideas, insights, wisdom available to me.
Because what you want -- I'm sure you've experienced this; I have
in my life -- gotten what you want. And then you're like, "Is that
what it is?" It's like, "What the hell?" Because what really makes
us fulfilled as human beings is what we need. And there's only so
many needs, so I dig under what the needs are. I look at, 'What's
their model of the world? How do they approach meeting those
needs?" And every model has limitations and challenges, mine,
yours, anybody's. And so that tells me before I even meet them
where the real challenge is, and then I listen for what the surface
challenge is. And my goal is solve the surface challenge, but also
give them more than they bargained for, solve the deeper
challenge.
Tim Ferriss: And when you -- when you interact with people -- for instance,
Paul Tudor Jones, legendary investor and trader, or Agassi or
anyone who is at the peak of their game and suddenly enters a
slump, what are the commonalities, if any, that you've spotted in
the best of the best who then cease for a period of time being the
best of the best? What triggers that type of downslope?
Tony Robbins: Well, everybody has got different triggers. There's some common
patterns. One pattern is doing so well that you go beyond your
vision, and it's the astronaut syndrome. What do you do when
you're 31 years old, you've flew to the top of the mountain, you
literally looked back at the Earth and saw the picture we've all seen
photographed, come back, shake the President's hand, have the
ticker tape parade. Okay, now what do you do with the rest of
your life? And so most of those astronauts, if you know their
histories, they went through some really tough times.
And if you don’t have that, life feels very dead for those people.
And so President of the United States, I remember Bill Clinton
saying to me -- I was with him in Aspen -- I was there at a
Because he's talking about, "I'd run a third time if I could" and I
was teasing him about it. But he found a compelling future, and
Bill Clinton today has something even greater in his life that he's
going for. So the slump shows when people outrun their vision, or
the slump can show when they meet their vision but it's not
fulfilling. Or the slump shows when people just end up developing
some patterns they're unaware of that cost them. And it can be
such a small thing with an athlete than can occur. And sometimes
it shows like a Tiger Woods when something happens in their
emotional life.
And while they try to say, "I'm an athlete here, and I'm a human
being over there" they don't separate. And so what I got to do in
those situations regardless of what triggered it is I've got to come
in and get them to re-anchor in their nervous system what made
them so effective. And you understand myelin, the idea that the
more you do something, the more you wire yourself. It's like
myelin, the white portion of the brain -- it's almost like using -- if I
do something over and over again, I literally wire myself with this
myelin.
And I said, "Andre" -- He's telling me about how he's doing this. I
said, "Think about the time you hit a tennis ball perfectly." I said,
"Don't think about it. Go to it." I got him in state, got him kind of
in that place where the myelin is being fired off. And then I said to
him, "Okay, you feel that? You feel that?" I go, "Were you
thinking about your wrist?" He says, "No." I said, "Then how the
hell would you think you'd ever get back to that peak performance
focusing on your wrist?"
So I've got to get them back into the pattern that made it work.
And then oftentimes I've got to help them resolve some other issue
that's distracting them, that is something else in their life that's
pulling them apart from peak performance.
Tim Ferriss: His story is an amazing one. Open, the autobiography is one of the
best --
Tim Ferriss: It's such a fantastic book. So looking at the longevity of your
career, the scope and scale of the Tony Robbins empire, so to
speak, your endurance has really impressed me. And so I'm
wondering after these decades, what are some of your daily
routines? For instance, what do you typically eat for breakfast if
it's up to you?
Tony Robbins: Yeah, I have salad and fish. It's like standard; I'm boring as hell.
Because I just know it's fuel. Now before I met my wife -- we've
been together more than 15 years, I was completely anal. I was --
like I hadn't had chocolate, I hadn't had ice cream in like 15 years.
It was just crazy. And then she came into my life, and I thought,
"God, this woman is incredible. She's a phlebotomist. She does
the blood. She's an acupuncturist. She's a nutritionist." We're
having these green drinks. We have this lunch, and afterwards, she
She goes, "Living you bastard." So she loosened my ass up, which
was great because I loved her. So she calls it zigging and zagging.
We zig zig zig, and then she zags or we zag. And when I was first
with her, I was like -- we were travelling through Europe, Rome
and Italy and various parts of the South of France. And I was like,
"You seem to be zagging every day." And she goes, "Well, I'm on
vacation." And then later on, we were travelling. I said, "You
know what the problem is?
Tony Robbins: Waking up because it's just like boom, every cell in the body
wakes up. And it's also just like training my nervous system to
rock. There is no -- I don't give a shit how you feel. This is how
you perform. This is what you do. Even when I'm taking
vacation, I do it. I don't know. Now I like it. It's a -- I like that
simple discipline that reminds me the level of strength and
intensity that's available at any moment. Even if I'm relaxing, I
can bring that up at will; it's myelin. And I also have a cryotherapy
unit in all my homes. Have you tried cryotherapy?
Tim Ferriss: Maybe you could help. I can put the two words together and
probably guess.
Tony Robbins: Oh my God. With all that you do, you're going to love this. I'm
glad I'm teaching Tim Ferriss for the first time.
Tim Ferriss: I've done ice bath, not the first one.
Tony Robbins: But I'm going to give you an idea. People won't sit through a
three-hour movie that somebody spent $300 million on, and I got
like Usher or Oprah going on, "Tony, I love you. But two hours is
the most I can do." And twelve hours later, Oprah is standing on
her chair going, "This is the most incredible experience in my life"
on camera. And Usher is like, "Dude, I'm in for all three days."
But for me, one of those days alone -- I wear odometer Fitbit, and
it's 26.5 miles on average. We start at 8:30 in the morning. I
finish at 1:30 or 2:00.
There's one one-hour break. People can vote with their feet. No
one leaves. There's on average 20 minutes of just crazy ass
standing ovations, music, stuff that happens at the end because
people are just -- it's like a rock concert; it's so much fun. But the
wear and tear of doing basically marathon after marathon on the
weekend back to back is pretty intense. And so over the years, the
inflammation in my body, the demands, I've had to do everything I
can to reduce it. Nothing has come close to cryotherapy.
Tony Robbins: I have a unit here. I'll do it for you. But what it does is -- and I do
it about three times a week usually, and when I come back from an
event, I do it a couple days in a row -- and what it does is it takes
all the inflammation out of your body. And you know what
inflammation to every aspect of the body in the breakdown. But it
also -- it sends and merges signals to your brain, so you're resetting
your neurological system because your brain is going, "You're
going to freeze to death." It sound horrific. It really isn't. You'll
Tony Robbins: The conductivity. Exactly right. So what happens is your nervous
system gets these signals. So it's like everything in your body
connects because it's like an emergency. Every part -- it's a reset
of your nervous system. You get an explosion of endorphins in
your body, which is really cool. So you get this natural high. You
feel this physiological transformation, and you get the reduction of
inflammation. What it was used for originally is for people with
arthritis.
And now, there's not a day she's in pain. Now most people can't
afford to go buy a unit, but there are local places now that are
popping up all over the United States where athletes go, where
people go for rejuvenation. And it's amazing for the skin. But it is
one of the greatest things. I got it for her, so I got it for me. And
now I'm addicted. So I've got one -- and three minutes-
Tim Ferriss: What type of unit? Do you know the actual model and brand that
you use?
Tony Robbins: Yeah, there's two of them that are the best out there. Was it Java?
Junka -- J-U-N-K-A I think it is. I'll get it for you when we go
downstairs.
Tim Ferriss: And I'll put it in the show notes for those of you who want-
Tony Robbins: Yeah, for everybody that wants to do it. But like if you're in LA,
there's a place on -- I'll give it to you to put in your notes. A
couple of the locations there, there's some great guys. I'm getting
another unit; this is a brand new home, and I'm building an
additional guesthouse and an additional site. This one, it just goes
up to your neck. But I’m getting one that encloses a full room, and
Tim Ferriss: I don't believe that entirely. I'll keep digging. But you have the
either -- the sort of contrast there being the hot-cold, the
cryotherapy -- you have salad and fish. How far after -- if you
were to kind of spec out the first hour of your day-
Tony Robbins: Well, the first -- every day, I do the water. I take in the
environment, and then the first thing I do before I do anything else
in my day is I do what I call priming. And priming to me is
different than meditating. I'm never really a meditator per se -- I
know the value of it. But the idea for me of sitting still and having
no thoughts just didn't really work out for me. It was just a pain in
the ass, and I just thought that's not natural. And it's like that's why
it works. But when I'm in nature, I feel that form of meditation.
When I stand on stage and someone stands up, in my brain, it's
done.
I don't even know what it is, but person is suicidal -- I've never lost
a suicidal in 37 years. Knock on wood, doesn't mean I won't
someday. But I never have out of thousands, and we followed up
with them. So it's like there's something that comes through me,
and it's quite meditative. It's like I experience it as a witness. And
afterwards, it's one of the most beautiful gifts in my life. So I
know that meditation. But for me, priming is if you want to have a
prime life, you've got to be in a prime state.
And from that altered state, I usually listen to some music. And I
go for -- I usually promise myself ten minutes, and I usually go 30-
Tim Ferriss: And you do that in this room that we're sitting in?
You know -- you live your life that way. Fitness is because it
becomes just part of who you are. So what I do during that time is
I do three simple times, and I do it minimum of ten minutes. Three
minutes of just me feeling back inside my body and outside my
head, feeling the Earth and my body and the experience, and then
feeling totally grateful for three things. And I make sure that one
of them is very very simple, the wind on my face, the reflection of
the clouds that I just saw there.
But I don't just think gratitude. It's like I let gratitude fill my soul
because when you're grateful, we all know there's no anger. It's
possibly anger and grateful simultaneously. When you're grateful,
there is no fear. You can't be fearful and grateful simultaneously.
So I think it is one of the most important power emotions of life,
and to me, there’s nothing worse than an angry rich man or
woman, somebody who's got everything. And they're pissed off. I
want to slap them-
Tony Robbins: It is because they develop a life that's based on expectation instead
of appreciation.
Tony Robbins: And I tell people, "You want to change your life fast? Then trade
your expectation for appreciation, and you'll have a whole new
life." So every day, I anchor that in, and I do it very deeply and
emotionally. Then the second three minutes that I do is a total
focus on feeling presence of God, if you will, however you want to
language that for yourself, but this inner presence coming in and
feeling it heals everything in my body, in my mind, my emotions,
my relationships, my finances.
And I have some big things that I'll do, and sometimes I'll do
things that are smaller. But I see them, feel them, experience them.
So it's a really simplistic process, ten minutes. But I come out of it
in my power. It doesn't matter if I had two-hour sleep. I'm now
ready. And I do this even when I have no sleep. That's how
committed I am. And as I've always said, there's no excuse not to
do ten minutes. If you don't have ten minutes, you don't have a
life. That's how I got myself to do it. And now that I've done it,
20 to 30 minutes is almost always what it is because it actually
feels extraordinary.
Tim Ferriss: And where can people learn more about the breathing pattern? Or
could you describe it briefly?
Tony Robbins: I'm putting a link online because I just started to share this just
recently. And I'll get it for you. I don't know what it is off the top
of my head, but I'll get it shortly -- I think this week.
Tim Ferriss: Okay, awesome. And I will also put that in the show notes guys.
So that's just fourhourworkweek.com/podcast. You'll be able to
find this episode. On the -- I have to ask -- what type of music do
you listen to during that-?
Tony Robbins: I have a variety. But for that meditation, I have one in particular,
which is a one-ness meditation that a friend of mine made it who's
from India that I find really profound. There's no singing in it or
anything like that. It's just the sound of a vibration that's going on,
and I just love it. But that's what I'm doing currently. In the past
over the years, I've used all kinds of different peace music. But I
don't use modern music or pop music or rock -- I mean, I do that to
work out, rap -- I don't know -- it just feels weird to be doing rap
while you're meditating.
Tim Ferriss: Well, I like the term priming also because I think most people who
struggle with meditation or even attempt to use meditation are
using it for that purpose. They're doing it in the morning. And
when you said, "If you don't have ten minutes, you don't have a
life," it reminded me of something that Russell Simmons said to
me, which was, "If you don't have 30 minutes to meditate, you
need three hours." And I don't always do 30 minutes, and I do
meditate in the morning. And it's been a very consistent pattern
throughout all the people that I've interviewed so far on the
podcast.
Tim Ferriss: And of course, we'll get to Ray Dalio, but also very avid meditator-
Tim Ferriss: Amazing. So when people hear the name Tony Robbins, I think
many different people have different assumptions or images in
their head. What are the biggest conceptions or the biggest
misconception about you?
Tony Robbins: Oh my God. There's so many -- When you've been in the culture
at any level for any period of time, people put their projections out
to what you are. And then also, I didn't help myself. I did
infomercials for a period of time. But I didn't want to do
infomercials. It was just I had these insights and skillsets. But if I
was a great singer -- which I'm clearly not -- there was a
distribution channel.
Tony Robbins: Then you're seen as that. And also I talk fast. I'm a passionate son
of a bitch. And so I'm not talking fast because I'm trying to sell
something. I'm talking fast because my brain functions at that
speed. That's just how my brain goes. Slowing it down is just so
boring to me. The faster I go, the stronger my brain becomes, the
quicker I come to solutions. So when I'm most excited and want to
serve people, it speeds up. So that helps when you've got a room
of people where you can move and modulate that energy. But
when you're seeing somebody on TV, and they look like they're a
crazy son of a bitch, and they're 6'7, and they've got hands bigger
than your head, you start going, "Who is this guy?"
That's what most people do. They make it much worse than it is
because they're afraid of failing, so they come up with a reason
why -- a story why it's there. And I don't tolerate that shit. I'm not
the guy that says, "There's no weeds. There's no weeds." I'm the
guy who goes, "Let me show you where the God damn weeds are,
and let's pull these son of a bitches out right now and stop
bullshitting. Let's do it. You and I, I'll do it with you." That's my
approach. I think most people think it's a pump up approach
because the media sees 10,000 people in a room, and they're
jumping up and down. And what is this piece? That's because I
believe that learning -- I believe what I do for people and its
essence is Ecube them.
Tim Ferriss: Just to reiterate something you said about inspiration being
necessary but not sufficient, I think that like you having the label
of sort of motivation or motivational speaker applied to what I try
to do is very frustrating because one of the things that
differentiates-
Tony Robbins: I know. It's like what else you going to call it.
Tim Ferriss: It's like I'm not going to read the books, so I may as well find a
label that I can understand. And I was going to say you had an
infomercial, but at least you weren't selling the four-hour work
week on those infomercials. You'd have twice the level of hell that
you already get.
Tim Ferriss: But the difference in your material because -- I really wanted to
better myself when I was hitting some very rough spots in my first
year out of school. And the difference between say Personal
Power and a lot of your other material including the new book on
money and finance and investing, which you guys at some point,
I'll try to share some of it with you. But I have -- I would say --
probably 20 to 30 printed pages of notes in Evernote just on -- I
still have about 50 pages left, but it's a big book. We'll get to that.
I felt like giving you a pat on the back. It's like, "Oh, another 600
page book. I know how these go."
And so if you look at -- say the Four Hour Work Week is one
instance. The reason that I have these comfort challenges at the
end of each chapter is because I know I'm going to have big asks
later, and I want to condition people to take action. And I think
that your materials, it's some of the best in the world I've ever seen.
Tony Robbins: Thank you for that. I want to say something about what you said
because it's very important. I mean, you are one of the few people
I've heard actually notice it, and I've noticed it in your work. And I
didn't know it was influenced by me in any way, and I'm
complimented by that. But I think you probably just got there on
your own just by thinking. The dog bit Johnny. Johnny bit the
dog. Same exact words, different syntax, totally different
experience, especially if you're Johnny.
And people don't realize that sometimes when they think, "I'm 30
pounds overweight and I'll never get this. I've tried everything.
Every relationship sucks. How do I end up with men or women
like this? This is my third business, and I’m still not there. I don't
see how it's going to happen." They don't realize that victory is
there. And the reason is it feels like a million miles away, and
they're doing the right things but at the wrong time. Or they're
doing the wrong things -- they're doing the right things at the
wrong sequence. So timing is so invaluable. Some of that, you
and I know we can't control. Some of that is freaking luck.
And I remember I went to go see him one day for one of our
sessions, and he was late. And I'm waiting, and I'm no problem.
I'm busy. And the nurse says he's going to be a while. She says,
"Doctor says why don't you come in and watch?" And I said,
"Wow, I'd love that." So I get all scrubbed up, the whole thing --
he's got rock and roll music in there. And this guy is like an artist
and a scientist mixed together in the most powerful blend with a
giant heart. And I go in there, and the music is blaring. And he
goes, "Hey Tony. How you-?" He goes, "Watch this." He cuts --
he lifts this woman's face off
Tony Robbins: And I felt a little state change, and I was like -- I stayed around for
a few minutes just to make it look like I can handle this shit. And I
said, "I got a few calls that I’ve got to make" and got the hell out of
there. So I go into -- he says, "Just use my office. Make my calls."
So I'm recovering in his office.
Tony Robbins: Holy shit. I'm not a squeamish guy, but I just wasn't prepared. So
I'm sitting in his office, and he's entered a stage of life where -- this
is a guy that [Inaudible] paid $2 million to fly him over 15-20
years ago to do two of his family's faces. This was the guy that
anybody in Hollywood who had the money -- in those days, there
was nobody but him, the best on Earth because he'd
mathematically figured out how to trigger beauty by what you and
would call subnormalities, like shorthand for you, NLP term, those
little visual trigger devices that affect kinesthetic change in human
beings.
And so I'm sitting in his desk, and he's got this manuscript. So I'm
curious of the manuscript he's working on, and he wants to finally
teach other surgeons. Because he's old; he doesn't want it just
himself anymore. He wants his material not to die, and he's got a
150 pictures of the most beautiful women in the world in the last
If it's the same size pupil, there's attraction. If it's just two
millimeters more, she has an average face. If it's more than two
millimeters more, her face is what he calls butt ass ugly -- that was
a technical term he used at that point. But so when I told women
to start measuring their eye -- so he makes this little change and
makes that puckered feeling that men don't even know why -- It's
instinctive. It's just a triggering device that's instinctual. So he
knows the seven -- he knows the two millimeters -- I was like,
"you take somebody 84 -- 50 and looking pretty damn hot --
maybe not to a 20 year old, but a 30 or 40 year old certainly, mind
boggling." So it's like golf.
Tim Ferriss: So you've mentioned a few things. The first is that -- hand bigger
than someone's head or face. I think that for everyone listening, at
some point, I would like to see if you can palm my face, and I'll
put that out on social media because I'm pretty sure that you can.
And I'm sure everybody would love to see. There are probably a
lot of people who don't like me very much and would like to palm
my face. So Tony will step in for you later. I'd love for you to
mention a little bit about the new book. And just sort of very basic
overview, and then I have a bunch of specific questions because
this is the first book in 20 years?
Tim Ferriss: There are so many books on money, and I think that -- perhaps
undeservedly so -- I feel like I understand a lot as it relates to
investing and money. And I’ve read David Swensen. I've read
about his allocations. I've read the annual letters of Warren Buffet.
I read the letters to shareholders from people like Howard Marx or
other hedge fund managers. I know some of those guys. So I saw
a couple of names pop up that I recognized. And I was -- and you
said in the very beginning of the book -- and this is -- I've tried to
do stuff like this in the past, but I realize how hard it is.
Tim Ferriss: "Oh boy. This is really talking a big game." And the interviews at
the end of the book alone are worth magnitudes of order more than
the book itself. I mean, you've got Bogle -- you've got Ray Dalio
who runs the -- I believe it's still the largest-
Tony Robbins: Largest hedge fund in the world, largest mutual fund with Bogle --
largest hedge fund with Ray Dalio -- Carl Icahn, who Time
Magazine put him on the cover as Master of the Universe. This
guy sends out one Tweet and Apple goes up 17 billion in an hour.
It's up 50%. He was out doing it again today. I don't know if you
saw. Carl is quite a character. Yeah, no -- two things. One,
commenting on what you said, that's the challenge that I love.
And I take this chiropractor or this dentist, army of three and show
them how to double their business in six months. So I love that
challenge of how do you hit both, and it's not easy to do. And thus
far, I think we've pulled it off primarily because it's not me doing
the teaching. It's me going to the best on Earth and getting them.
[Inaudible] same thing. People say, "Why did you write a book
after 20 years? What the hell have you been doing?" Well, about
every four days, I'm on an airplane. I see a quarter of a million
people a year in fifteen countries. That's what the hell I'm doing.
And I love -- I live for that environment, the rawness, the aliveness
-- every moment, something is changing. You never know who is
going to stand up. You don't know what the challenge is going to
be. I mean, that feels alive. And also, it's just real and it's now.
And if it's not working, freaking change it. Who cares? When I go
to write as I did 20 years ago, I'm sitting still. That first alone
makes me crazy. And number two, you took away my hands, my
music, my voice, my face, my intensity, and now I’ve just written
words, which I'm clearly not as skilled at. But when I concentrate
on it, I am. But I also go with -- this is immortal.
I can't improve this. Once you write this shit, it's done. So I'm
avoiding it like the plague, and then also most people don't read
frankly. They read blogs -- It's like most people -- I can see a
generation -- Look at this book, it's 600 and -- what? -- pages. But
it's these seven steps. You can do a chapter day, and in 30 days,
you've got a different financial life. And if you're crazy like me,
you'll do it in a weekend. But what's interesting is they'll say,
"Why don't you put this in a blog? Why don't you put this in an
infographic?"
And I was 23-34, so I said, "Yes, but I must get black belt fastest
time in human history. And you must come travel with me. We
will do this every day" like you're an insane ass.
Tony Robbins: Completely insane. So he came, and I finished stepping off stage
at midnight or 1 a.m., and then I have to go train from 1:00 to 4:00.
And then I'd sleep from 4:00 to 7:30, three and a half hours, four
hours -- sometimes 8:00 if I could squeeze it -- get up and do my
next day. I do that for nine months. I did get a black belt,
legitimately in the shortest time in history. But I hated it, and I'd
never want to do it again. But I'll never forget -- I was doing these
moves, and it's like it's 4:00 in the morning, and I'm doing the
same freaking move. And I'm doing it over and over and over
again.
Tony Robbins: Yeah, Matt Damon did the audio on it, and it won all kinds of
awards. But what's happened -- if you didn't see it, I really
recommend you see it. But I do want to prepare you, at the end,
you're either extremely pissed off or you're really depressed
depending upon your personality. I was pissed off because they
It takes 500 milliseconds for you to click on your E-trade and say I
want to buy this stock of Apple. And you've got guys who spend a
quarter of a billion dollars to straighten lines between Chicago and
New York so they could save 1.4 milliseconds. And they're going
to trade hundreds, maybe thousands, of times. They know you're
going after Apple. They know what to do to make money, little
micro profits. One of the HFT groups was going to go public last
year, so they went into their filings. Do you know how many
losing days they had in four years?
Tony Robbins: One. One losing day in four years. It's front running. So the
system is rigged. But even though it's rigged, you can still win.
That's why I wrote this book. I wanted you to know that you can
still win and here's how to win. And here's the people showing
you how to win. So I want to right that wrong. I wanted people to
have an advocate, but also I'm pretty passionate about taking care
of people that society has forgotten. And I decided initially, I
wanted to raise my game. They cut $8.7 billion from food stamps
last summer.
Most people don't even notice it. It's the equivalent of every
family who's being supported going without food for one week out
of the month for twelve straight months. And I've been supporting
-- my family was fed when I was 11 years old. I had no food,
family -- this man came by and delivered a turkey and food. It was
just the delivery guy. It changed my life. It made me believe
strangers care, so I cared about strangers. So I've been paying it
forward, and I've fed 42 million in 37 years.
Tony Robbins: And he's telling me this like holy cow. I started to learn things, so
it changes the scale of your thinking. So I'm babbling here because
what I want people to know is two things. Yes, I think this truly --
if you give yourself the gift of this book, it's a category breaker.
But it will show you step by step how to go wherever you want to
be. If you're highly advanced, you're going to learn of the 55 plus -
- say 50, but it was really 55 plus -- Nobel laureates, self-made
billionaires, hedge fund guys, biggest in the world -- I put the
twelve biggest in the book.
They just didn't think there was anybody that translate it. And
when they saw that I could, and I could pitch and catch with them -
- because I do 18 hours of prep before I sit down with Ray Dalio --
they want to share things that they've never shared before. And
later on, maybe we can talk about what I learned from Ray Dalio
Tim Ferriss: Oh, I do want to talk about Ray. And fascinating guy, I’m so
fascinated with the entire world. I mean, whether it's -- and there's
so many different breeds. This is something I wanted to talk about
-- but you have say the Paul Tudor Jones -- for those who probably
haven't seen a very old film -- I think it's available like bootleg
VHS -- called the Trader is an amazing old documentary. You can
find it, but you can see his style versus the high-frequency guys or
a Renaissance, all PhDs right? Outside of Wall Street. And then
you have the Ray Dalio types.
Tony Robbins: But there's all things in common if you look. They all have
different strategies, but some are -- let's shake the tree of the
corporate guys and make sure we get more value out of it. That's
Carl. And some guys are like Templeton -- I got to interview
multiple times before he died. It's like wait for the bloodletting-
Tim Ferriss: No, blood in the streets. That's when you invest.
Tony Robbins: Blood in the streets. But it's like when maximum pessimism hits,
that's when you make all your money. That's what he did. And
then there's the guys like Bogle, which is, "It's the index baby."
And these days, even Warren Buffet, it's the index baby. So they
all do approaches, but what's in common, I think is -- I'll tell you
four things I saw that stood out. And one is overly simplistic, and
that's why people don't pay attention to it.
These guys pay attention to it. They don't lose it. Half of the key
to awakening is not losing, and they are obsessed -- every single
one of those is obsessed with not losing money. I mean, a level of
obsession that's mind boggling. And it isn't just these investors,
[00:59:39] for example. People see Richard, and he's such an
outgoing playful crazy guy. He's kind of good in some areas, but
when it comes to athletics and taking on challenges, he's out in the
world. But his first question to every business is, "What's the
downside? And how do I protect it?"
Like when he did his peace with Virgin -- I mean that's a big risk
to start an airline. He went to Boeing and negotiated a deal that
they could send the planes back if it didn't work and he wasn't
liable. That's the level these guys think at. So they look to see
how do I not lose money first. Because the average person has no
clue. If I lose 50% in 2008, well guess what? You got to make
100% to get even, not 50% because your principal has gone down
so much. It's like people don't understand -- you lose 60%. It's
These are obsessed. Second thing they all have in common, every
single one of them is obsessed with asymmetrical risk and reward,
which is a big word. It simply means they're looking to use the
least amount of risk to get the max amount of upside, and that's
what they live for. So I'll give you an example. Paul Tudor, when
I first went to do the turnaround when Paul was having some
challenging times -- he'd broken his leg. Think about this. He did
better than anybody in the history of the world during the biggest
stock drop in history literally.
And then he went to the mountain, went to moon. Now what? And
so lost a bit of the edge and got involved in other things and so
forth. And now he's got a broken leg. He's not going to the office,
and I got to come in. So I had to go watch that film. That's the
first thing I did.
Tony Robbins: I wanted to go see everything about him, study his physiology, the
way he used to move -- because this is a guy who's not moving at
all -- what his face was like, how he breathed, tone of his voice.
What were the physical strategies? What were the psychological
strategies? What were the financial strategies? I got to go to
[inaudible]. The world we had access to back then was
unbelievable -- see what was he like then to put the plan together
to do this turn around. And when I started making those shifts in
him -- and you could see the shift happen immediately -- it got
really exciting. I got hooked on what was going to happen.
And I did this same process basically -- I think about doing these
things once. I did the same process during these interviews. I
didn't just look up the trading strategies. I looked up the
psychology that set it up. But here's what I found with Paul Tudor
in the very beginning to get him back on track. When he was at his
best, he made sure every single trade had -- what he called -- a five
to one. That means if he was going to risk a dollar, he wasn't about
to risk it unless he was certain he was going to make five. Now
you're not always right.
So guess what? If I risk a dollar, make five and I'm wrong, I can
risk another dollar and still make four. I can be wrong four times
out of five and still break even. Their secret is not that they're not
wrong. It's that they set themselves up where they risk small
Tony Robbins: That's right. About 1.10. If I could get 10%, wow my dollar. 20%
would be unbelievable. How often can you be wrong?
Tony Robbins: Not at all. You're in the hole. You're starting from the hole and
got to get back up. So their asymmetrical rewards-. Like I was
with Kyle Bass and Kyle Bass risked -- check this out -- in the
middle of subprime crisis, he made $2 billion out of $30 million
because for every six cents he risked, he had an upside of a dollar.
Six cents for a hundred. Well you can be wrong fifteen times, and
you're still looking at it in that area. I mean, he's brilliant to figure
that out. He's a genius to figure it out.
But that risk reward is why it is. He showed his kids -- I said,
"How do I teach this to the average investor?" And he said, "You
can teach them what I taught my kids?" And I said, "How'd you do
that?" He goes, "We bought nickels." I said, "What do you mean
you bought nickels?" He said, "Well, I did research -- I had this
question." That's another thing that all these guys do, they ask a
better question. We talked about they get better answers. Better
quality question, better quality answer. What's wrong with me?
You'll come up with stuff.
Tony Robbins: Perfect plan. But he said just the actual material value is 6.8 or
whatever it was -- six something -- 6.5 we'll call it for round
numbers. So he said, "If I buy a nickel, it's never going less than a
nickel unless you believe the US government is gone. So I've got
Let me tell you why. Look at pennies. When they changed from
pure copper to tin and all things they changed, what happened to
the old pennies? There's a scarcity of them. And now a penny
from those days is worth two cents. So it's 100% more valuable.
So at some point, the government cannot continue to do something
that cost twice as much. Some point, they'll make a change in the
materials. And then all these nickels are worth an unbelievable
amount. So I just showed my kids here's a risk -- you need to
worth different from anybody else.
Don't think I have to take huge risks for huge rewards. Say how do
I get no risk and get huge rewards? And because you ask a
question continuously and you believe an answer, you get it." He
said, "Look if I convert my entire wealth in nickels right now, I'd
do it." I say, "You're insane." He goes, "I am insane. But it's the
best possible fundamental investment." He started telling me how
to do it. He bought 40 million nickels. He has 40 million nickels;
it fills up a room bigger than this.
Tony Robbins: He had his kids drag them in, laughing having fun. It's like their
little treasure room.
Tony Robbins: With real nickels. So that's asymmetrical reward. I'll give you one
more, and I'll shut the hell up.
Tony Robbins: But I want -- you're telling me there are differences. I want you to
know there are differences. We could spend hours and hours on
the differences. But what I think is useful is what's aligned
because then it gives something universal that can be applied.
And the last one that I found almost all of them were real givers,
not just givers on the surface like money givers. That's really
wonderful, but really passionate about giving. And it showed up
once they saw what I was doing was legitimate. It was really real.
Then they're opening up three hours of their time. I mean, these
guys will never get it.
Tim Ferriss: Oh yeah. I mean, their hours are worth a lot. That's saying the
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