How Can I Overcome My Fear of Public Speaking?
How Can I Overcome My Fear of Public Speaking?
How Can I Overcome My Fear of Public Speaking?
•Don't fear a moment of silence. If you lose track of what you're saying
or start to feel nervous and your mind goes blank, it may seem like
you've been silent for an eternity. In reality, it's probably only a few
seconds. Even if it's longer, it's likely your audience won't mind a pause
to consider what you've been saying. Just take a few slow, deep
breaths.
•Recognize your success. After your speech or presentation, give
yourself a pat on the back. It may not have been perfect, but chances
are you're far more critical of yourself than your audience is. See if any
of your specific worries actually occurred. Everyone makes mistakes.
Look at any mistakes you made as an opportunity to improve your
skills.
If you can't overcome your fear with practice alone, consider seeking
professional help. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a skills-based approach
that can be a successful treatment for reducing fear of public speaking.
As another option, your doctor may prescribe a calming medication that
you take before public speaking. If your doctor prescribes a medication,
try it before your speaking engagement to see how it affects you.
Nervousness or anxiety in certain situations is normal, and public
speaking is no exception. Known as performance anxiety, other examples
include stage fright, test anxiety and writer's block. But people with severe
performance anxiety that includes significant anxiety in other social
situations may have social anxiety disorder (also called social phobia).
Social anxiety disorder may require cognitive behavioral therapy,
medications or a combination of the two.