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FAMILY LIFE

BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA


MERIT BADGE SERIES

FAMILY LIFE

“Enhancing our youths’ competitive edge through merit badges”


Family Life

Note to the Counselor


Some of the issues surrounding requirement 6 for the family
meeting could be considered of a personal nature. Use discretion
when reviewing this requirement with the Scout.

1. Prepare an outline on what a family is and discuss this with your merit badge
counselor. Tell why families are important to individuals and to society.
Discuss how the actions of one member can affect other members.
2. List several reasons why you are important to your family and discuss this
with your parents or guardians and with your merit badge counselor.
3. Prepare a list of your regular home duties or chores (at least five) and do them
for 90 days. Keep a record of how often you do each of them. Discuss with
your counselor the effect your chores had on your family.
4. With the approval of your parents or guardians and your merit badge counselor,
decide on and carry out a project that you would do around the home that
would benefit your family. Submit a report to your merit badge counselor
outlining how the project benefited your family.
5. Plan and carry out a project that involves the participation of your family.
After completing the project, discuss the following with your merit
badge counselor:
(a) The objective or goal of the project
(b) How individual members of your family participated
(c) The results of the project
6. Do the following:
(a) Discuss with your merit badge counselor how to plan and carry out a
family meeting.
(b) After this discussion, plan and carry out a family meeting to include the
following subjects:
(1) Avoiding substance abuse, including tobacco, alcohol, and drugs,
all of which negatively affect your health and well-being

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(2) Understanding the growing-up process and how the body changes,
and making responsible decisions dealing with sex*
(3) How your chores in requirement 3 contributed to your role in the family
(4) Personal and family finances
(5) A crisis situation within your family
(6) The effect of technology on your family
(7) Good etiquette and manners
Discussion of each of these subjects will very likely carry over to more than
one family meeting.
7. Discuss with your counselor your understanding of what makes an effective
parent and why, and your thoughts on the parent's role and responsibilities in
the family.
*This conversation may take place with only one or both of your parents or guardians.

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.Family Life Resources

Family Life Resources


Scouting Literature Covey, Sean. The 7 Habits of Highly
Boy Scout Journal; American Cultures, Effective Teens. Touchstone, 2014.
American Heritage, Citizenship in ———. The 7 Habits of Highly
the Community, Citizenship in the Effective Teens Workbook.
Nation, Citizenship in the World, Franklin Covey, 1999.
Communication, Cooking, Crime
Davis, Ken. How to Live With Your
Prevention, Disabilities Awareness,
Parents Without Losing Your Mind.
Genealogy, and Personal Management
Zondervan Publishing Co., 1988.
merit badge pamphlets
Foster, Chad. Teenagers: Preparing
Visit the Boy Scouts of America’s for the Real World. South-Western
official retail website at http:// Educational Publishing, 1998.
www.scoutstuff.org for a complete Fox, Annie. Can You Relate? Real-World
listing of all merit badge pamphlets Advice for Teens on Guys, Girls,
and other helpful Scouting materials Growing Up, and Getting Along.
and supplies. Free Spirit Publishing, 2005.
Gurian, Michael. From Boys to Men:
Books All About Adolescence and You.
Price Stern Sloan, 1999.
Block, Joel D., et al. Stepliving for Teens:
Getting Along With Stepparents and Hightower, Elaine, and Betsy Riley.
Siblings. Price Stern Sloan, 2001. Our Family Meeting Book: Fun
and Easy Ways to Manage Time,
Brain, Marshall. The Teenager’s Guide
Build Communication, and Share
to the Real World. BYG Publishing
Responsibility Week by Week. Free
Inc., 1997.
Spirit Publishing, 2002.
Carlson, Richard. Don’t Sweat the
Jukes, Mavis. The Guy Book: An
Small Stuff for Teens. Hyperion
Owner’s Manual. Crown Books for
Press, 2000.
Young Readers, 2002.
Coleman, Ronda. Around the Family
Maisel, Eric. 20 Communication Tips
Table: 365 Mealtime Conversations
for Families: A 30-Minute Guide
for Parents and Children. Gryphon
to a Better Family Relationship.
House Inc., 2001.
New World Library, 2000.

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Family Life Resources.

McGraw, Jay. Closing the Gap: A Family, Career, and Community


Strategy for Bringing Parents and Leaders of America
Teens Together. Fireside, 2001. 1910 Association Drive
———. Life Strategies for Teens. Reston, VA 20191-1584
Fireside, 2000. Telephone: 703-476-4900
Otfinoski, Steve. The Kid’s Guide Website: http://www.fcclainc.org
to Money: Earning It, Saving It, Prepare Tomorrow’s Parents
Spending It, Growing It, Sharing It. 454 NE Third St.
Scholastic, 1996. Boca Raton, FL 33432
Packer, Alex J. Bringing Up Parents: Telephone: 561-620-0256
The Teenager’s Handbook. Website:
Free Spirit Publishing, 1992. http://www.preparetomorrowsparents.org

———. The How Rude!™ Handbook


of Family Manners for Teens. Acknowledgments
Free Spirit Publishing, 2004. The Boy Scouts of America thanks
———. How Rude!™ The Teenagers’ writer Marilyn Swierk for her involve-
Guide to Good Manners, Proper ment with this new edition of the
Behavior, and Not Grossing People Family Life merit badge pamphlet.
Out. Free Spirit Publishing, 2014. Ms. Swierk is certified in Family and
Consumer Sciences and in Family Life
Organizations and Websites Education and is a consultant and
American Association of Family and speaker in the realm of family life
Consumer Sciences and education.
400 N. Columbus St., Suite 202 The Boy Scouts of America is grate-
Alexandria, VA 22314 ful to the men and women serving on
Toll-free telephone: 800-424-8080 the Merit Badge Maintenance Task Force
Website: http://www.aafcs.org for the improvements made in updating
American Red Cross this pamphlet.
2025 E St. NW
Washington, DC 20006
Telephone: 202-303-4498
Website: http://www.redcross.org

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