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m Part 1.......introduction!
*Hello new friend,how are you doing this beautiful and wondering moment.....?
*Am james wesley by name and i do believe you will be wondering how we get to know
each other or if we both have mutual friends on Facebook.....Right?
*Nice meeting you and if i may ask,how long have you been using Facebook and do you
enjoyed chatting with friends here on Facebook....?Because an new here on Facebook
and am not used to Facebook stuff.
*Thanks and it's my pleasure meeting you here on Facebook and i do hope to find joy
chatting with you new friend!
*So what religion are you new friend and do you believe in God?Am a Christian,i was
born and raise in Catholic and i do believe in God cause he's my number in
everything i do!
*Where are you original from and where do you now live?Am original from Milan Italy
but i live in the state here in avalon Nj,I was sent to school in Richmond,Va
where I also attended my university at the Richmond University United state.
*Are you married and do you have kids?Am a widowed,i lost my wife 5 years ago,she
died of cancer of the lungs and i have a daughter name cherry.She's 15 years old
and she's all i have in this world.
*some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find
the good once,we will know how to value them and i really want you to know that any
man that will cheat on you,does not worth having you honey,you are just so
beautiful to be treated that way.
*God is is control of us all we need to do is slow down and listen. Sometimes I get
going a little too fast and need to be reminded that He is the One we praise and
give the glory.
*So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?Unfortunately my both parents are dead and I am the only
kid my parents gave birth to, so you see my dear cherry is the apple of my eyes and
the only close family I have at the moment.
*So how many kids do you have and do you live alone?I own a house here in Avalon Nj
but it just lonely since my wife death and Cherry my daughter is in boarding school
here in Chicago IL due to the nature of my job,so i live all alone!
*Am Petroleum drilling engineer and i own a firm(Miles drilling and instillation
company)in the oil industry,i have crew working with me and they are 45 in
number,am the boss of my firm!
*I live my life daily in the basis that Christ directs me and he has been my
strength all these years. I go to church twice a week as we have a chapel in the
rig and when am in the states I do go to church regularly.
*I work in the middle of the sea as drilling engineer,I extract oil from ground
there in sea or ocean, and if you don't mind do you about oil rig?
* I had my first contract here at the SHELL PETROLEUM COMPANY in the year 2002. I
work offshore,as a drilling engineer.
*I have been to so many places.I travel a lot due to the nature of my job and
that's why my daughter Cherry is in boarding school cause no one home to take good
care of her as mother when ever am out for a contract.
*Where were you born? Have you ever traveled out of your country?
*I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work
trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Italy, Spain, Malaysia,
England. while on vacation trip I have been to; Ajax of Netherlands, Switzerland,
Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Dublin of Ireland, Bermuda, Paris of France, Rio De
Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai, and I would love my next vacation trip to be with
that special someone and I know am a very busy person but I hope at least we can
create time for us to chat and get to know each other.
*Well right now am here in Chicago IL cause have not been working on any contract
for the past 7 month now,have been bidding for a contract there in Canada for the
past 7 month now and have been praying to God almighty about this new contract
because invested so much time and effort in this contract and i also prayed
everything work out fine cause other companies are also bidding for this same
project!
*I got a call that all company that is bidding for the project might be called upon
any moment from now ,and that is why i stayed in the office here in Chicago for so
long and i prayed to hear some good soon!
*So what's your occupation?Describe your current occupation, do you like what you
do? What is your dream job?
So how has your present marital life affected you so far?Being lonely has really
affected me a lot because as humans we all need someeone to lean on in hard times
and someone to talk to and share those cheerful moments with... And my daughter
also has not been happy because she miss her mom.
*Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online? How old are you?I do
not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not know where
love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps older than
you. I'm 54 years old.
*With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate here on Facebook?As for me I believe and also have the courage that
I will find the woman whom I which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe
in soul mates. I have friends that have found theirs and live very happily with
them, and I have decided a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less
than my soul mate.
*Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?To me it depends on my soul
mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her house of living its ok with me, but
if she wants to relocate to my house its ok with me also, or if she wants us both
to relocate to a new location, that again will be ok with me.
*Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?I am a very compressive
person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don�t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, But of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new to you discover.
*What are your goals or dreams in life?My goals and dreams in life are to be with
the woman of my life whom I will call my wife, who I will love and we will both
live together and have a loving family forever
*Well you seems nice and I want us to keep good communication and see what comes
out, beside I needed only one woman not many and been lonely has emotionally
affected me beside am not getting any younger and life is too short to live.....
Part 2....Question!
*What are Your Hobbies?I enjoy, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach,
fishing, camping, scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the
outdoors moutain biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography,
cooking and also spending some time out with my friends and also with my daughter!
*How do you normally spend your leisure time?I love listening to music, Cuddling up
reading a magazine or watching TV, Cooking.... I love walking in the Park
*How much do you enjoy walking in the park?I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of
the nature, viewing the beautiful green trees.
*How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?I do not go out often that
much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out alone seems not enjoyable
to me, so the few time that I go out must be with the kid and I will be looking
forward to go out with you Someone someday
*How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?
Loneliness has taking over me since the death of my wife and have not been with any
woman or date since i death!
*Do do you believe in meeting that special one someday?I do believe in meeting my
soul mate and i also prayed to God in heaven to direct me to that special one
before getting here on Facebook.
*What�s Your Favorite color?My favorite colors are both white and red, because the
white stands for a pure heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both
of them together you have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure
heart for love.
*Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?I had never smoked in my life
neither used drugs, and never pretend too, its not for me. If I drink alcohol, Well
I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are drinking something
light its okay...
*So tell me what is your favorite food? I make a huge pot of steel-cut oatmeal on
Sunday evening and spoon out a cup every morning--I reheat it in the microwave and
then add a tablespoon of local honey, frozen organic blueberries, and almond milk.
Very satisfying and extremely good for you!
*Do you have a favorite restaurant or food? I don�t really have a favorite
restaurant but when i was in uk i love Macdonald's so much cos that is the place i
do go and eat, well i don't eat much cos i am not a picky eater....i love Mexican
food i love chicken and beef also.
*What�s your favorite drink?My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne
more likely.
*How do you celebrate the holidays (Christmas)? I always get excited about
Christmas,But if I had to pick something I guess it would be to have someone to
share the day and year with cos i haven't been with anyone since the death of my
late wife,i have based my attention on taking care of my daughter who is still
trying to get off the shock of her mom's death. I think I miss that the most about
Christmas not having someone who loves Christmas and makes it fun.
*Do you have a favorite season?My favorite season is Spring, I like the cool
mornings and warm days, the grass turning green and the flowers blooming, i love
summer so much but i dont like winter that much..
*What is your favourite book? Maggie Cassidy: A Love Story Maggie Cassidy is the
love interest of a teenage boy growing up in Lowell, MA. The base is a basic
adolescent love story in a New England mill town..and i also love reading my bible
too.
*Do you like sports? And what are your favorite sports?I have a passion for sports
and my favorite sport is football.
*Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?NBA is my favorite
Sport, I'm a Big Fan of Lakers Of Los Angeles.
*What is the weirdest thing about you? weirdest thiong about me: you have no idea!
my personality "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
*Is religion something you want in your life?I love the Lord and hope that whomever
I have in my life will be someone who knows and loves him too.
*How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself
down?I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool
music that will calm me down.
*What turns you off?Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument
turns me off.
*If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?I am who I
am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me.
*What motivates you? I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made
it.
*What attracts you to a man? Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get
closer to a lady is the person inside, I do considers that more important because
beauty fades with time but the person inside appreciates with time. Love comes for
the heart and not the outside beauty.
*Can you tell me what kind of a person you want to grow old with? For me; someone
that is serious, confident, purposeful, persistent, smart, responsible, honest,
modest, kind, flexible, elegant, sociable, communicative, sensitive, gentle,
cheerful, romantic, considered, responsible,someone that still believes in true
love, soulmates, love notes, walks, holding hands, and talking to each other..
*Do you want this relationship to be more than a one-night stand or what?I want to
find someone who wants to get to know me and love me for me and yes I want a long
term relationship, hopefully someday i will ask That special person to marry me and
we would live the rest of our life together as friends, partners,lovers and soul
mates.
*What are your likes and dislikes? I like Faithfulness,honesty and Trustworthiness
and I dislikes dramas, cheating, lies, unfaithfulness and racist.
*What is the most annoying thing that someone could do to you? make promises and
not keep them
*Do you drive?I have a Red Truck Car and that's what i drive to office.
*Who is your mentor?My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and
understanding dad, who loves and take good care of his family, he always speaks the
truth and he is a self discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has
for his loved ones, but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he
was really the best dad in the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head
that wears the crown, so for you to be successful in life you have to face some
challenges.
*Describe the perfect vacation you have had?Flying to Paris, then taking a train
through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month
on a Greek Island together with my daughter. I had the time of my life, and these
are my fondest memories. I will love to do this again with that special one.
*What are the five most important things in your life?Mine is God, Family, health,
Living to help others without asking for anything in return. Finally meeting that
special one in person!
*Do you mind us meeting in person?I will love to meet you in person cause i really
like you,and i want you to know that,you have every thing that can make a man
complete..
*If we were together would you cook? Or is that woman's work?I can cook because i
do love to cook for my family.. and i always want me and my woman to do every thing
together.
*What would you cook for a date at home?Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete
because I will be making her favorite meal...Even if I do not know how to, before
then I must get instructions from good quality chefs and also read cooking books,
to meet up to perfection the day I will cook the meal.
*Tell me one special place you would like to take me to when I come to you?We would
go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us....Tahiti is the largest
island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the archipelago of the
Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean.
*What kind of music do you like? I like all kinds of music? I can listen to almost
anything from blues to oldies top jazz,r and b ,hiphops,i just love listening to
good music.
*What are your favorite movies?The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl
Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic, Superman so many of them but this few I have just listed
are my top list.
*Do you have a favorite mucisian in particular?hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice who
inspires me in terms of music for that he is my number one mucisian
*Is there somewhere you want to go that you have never been before?I would love to
go to knoxville in tn someday,Be able to share a train trip with that special
someone through the mountains and valleys,that would be so beautiful to see all the
flowers growing and the beautiful ocean waters.
*Is there something special you remember in your relationships that was good and
made you happy? Well mine was with my late wife,our relationship was the best ever
but i guess fate has it's way of playing it's role.
*Do you think you can be trusted by your man?Do you believe in trust?
%Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations
will occur. If we can surround ourselves with people we trust, then we can create a
safe present and an even better future.
%Trust means making an exchange with someone when you do not have full knowledge
about them, their intent and the things they are offering to you.
%Trust means giving something now with an expectation that it will be repaid,
possibly in some unspecified way at some unspecified time in the future.
% You earn a person's trust by consistently proving yourself to them. You show
them that you will not use them or take advantage of them. You will not abuse
their love or their generosity. You will think of them before acting.
%There is no way to assure a person that you are trustworthy outside of your
actions. Broken trust can take years, even decades to repair. It's a very
sensitive, and even awkward, time for the two people involved.
#I do believe there is on true relationship without trust my dear!
%Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much
you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.
%Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you
hold on to.
%For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.
Love is kind. It does not envy.
*Am telling you all this beacsue i really do trust you even if we have met in
person and I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and
also lay down my life for the woman I love.
*What would be your ideal first date with that special someone? Dinner,candle
lights,beach,occean, moonlight walk.
*What do you like to do with that special someone when it is raining? I like
snuggling on the couch or holding hands watching the rain or when it is just
raining a little sitting on the porch in the swing watching and talking. We can
also be playing kissing sharing jokes and telling storie.
*What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?Love, Trust And Understanding.
*What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things
with each others.
*Describe some of the most important things in your life?My daughter happiness and
me having a complete family is the most important thing I pray for in my life.
*Do You like to re-marry again?I can remarry again when she love me and love my
Daughter so much that she care about the family been together as one big family
with so much.
*If you see somebody who needs help, would you be of any support?Yes I would help
in anyway, because it's good to help those that are in need, and God loves a
cheerful giver.I love helping friends and family and i guess that's why am bless!
#I do believe Money and material things is not all it take to live a happy
life,they are all vanity because we came with nothing and die with nothing,to me
all that matter is LOVE,TRUST AND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING between each other!
#When i was still young,Dad always tell me to to love and respect other if i want
to be love,always help and be nice to other if i want same thing and never hurt
other if i don't want to be hurt because what ever you sole,you shall rip and
that's nature....miss Dad so much and he's always my mentor!
*What is Your best Moment in Life?My best moment was the day I went to the hospital
when my wife was giving birth and I heard the voice of my daughter crying and then
I knew I'm a father with so much joy in my heart.
*Your worse moment in life?Jan 16th. 2011 When I donated my Kidney to my Wife...
But she couldn't make it through alive.
*Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.
* Friendship - Men place a high value on friendship. In fact, they care more about
friendship than they do about sex. This should not come as such a surprise. Men
value close friendships more than women do and will do most anything to keep a
friendship that they deem worthwhile and meaningful. So being a true friend to your
man is the first step in winning his heart.
*Independence - Men love women who love them, but they also rate as high on their
list a woman who has other loves. These loves can be her children, her family, her
career, her hobby; anything that she has a passion for and spends time working at
to improve. Men love it when their woman is completely wrapped up in something that
she can be proud of doing.
*Separate Time - Men, like women, need time away from each other once I a while.
Men love women who don't mind it when they are going to spend time with friends or
coworkers going out for a drink, watching a sporting event, or just hanging out.
Men need some time to themselves. Take advantage of that and spend that time doing
things you want to do with others or alone.
* Confidence - Men love women who have self confidence and high self-esteem.
Knowing who you are and what you want can be so appealing to a man that it will
make him love you even more than he thought he did. Speak up for what you want and
take a stand on issues that are important to you. You'll be glad you did when you
see his reaction.
*Good Judgment - Men love women who can make intelligent decisions and know when
something needs to be done. Playing dumb will turn a man off so show him that you
can take care of business and still be there for him as well.
I consider myself a person who enjoys life and everything it has to throw at me...i
am loyal and caring and i respect those who respect me back...i don't have time for
petty and selfish behavior or those who believe that the only way to get ahead in
life is to downplay their intelligence as if its a virtue...Am an easy going and
down to earth type of a man.am very serious in meeting someone here,.i love to
swim,movie,beach walking,spend time at home if i have my soul mate around to love
and cherish...
Someone who can put a smile on my face when I feel like crying or hold me and
comfort me or just be there when I need them the most even if it means putting what
you want to do aside to be there then.
*Someone that I can sit in silence with and be content.I want her touch and kiss to
consume me.To be a gentle,loving, passionate & exciting lover.I love to be held and
talked to before,during and after.Know that sometimes pleasing each other is more
important that pleasing yourself.
*The definition of a best friend in the dictionary is: someone with whom one shares
the strongest possible kind of friendship.A definition of love is: caring about
someone so deeply that your life would be very different with out them; that there
would always be a little piece of yourself missing or incomplete when they are not
with you or if they pass away or leave you; and you would do anything to protect
them or to make them happy.
*************************************What qualities would you like in this
relationship or person?
*I'm looking for a bright, energetic, fun loving partner who appreciates God and
her life! Someone I can click with...a natural connection. A strong family
relationship is important to me. A sense of humor is a big plus!! I'm am looking
for a woman who is loving and has a lot of energy...
*I have a smile for everyone. I'm considered outgoing and the life of the party. I
love to make others laugh and enjoy making people happy. I have a natural curiosity
that keeps things interesting for me! I workout and stay in great shape. I love to
hold hands and cuddle...being Close is natural for me.
*I'm a fun loving person that loves to travel the world and explore. I'm outgoing,
fun to be with, and I love to make others laugh. I find joy and value in all
people, especially children and older people. I treat everyone equally and greet
everyone with a smile.
*I enjoy my work and I am very good at it, but I take the time to play and exercise
as well... I prefer to be around people who can challenge me and people that I can
inspire as well.
*I'm committed to a lifelong process of knowing the Lord better, through inward
devotion and outward ministry. I'm involved in choir, a men's small group, and
several other things at church, and really enjoyed a mission trip to New Orleans
with the church youth group last summer.
*I spent a few years as a missionary and have studied Greek, theology, and Bible
translation. The goal, though, is "doing" rather than only studying! Some favorite
Scriptures are Romans 8, Philippians, and 1 Timothy.
*I read science fiction, fantasy, psychology, philosophy, and other topics. Among
Christian authors I particularly like John Piper and Peter Kreeft. For exercise I
enjoy hiking, occasional rock-climbing, and I just earned my first-degree black
belt in an Okinawan martial art called Ryute.
*I enjoy watching sports (especially baseball), but I don't follow any sports
closely. I actually enjoy fixing things around my house. I love music from Baroque
to Jazz to Contemporary Christian.
*As a man, I cannot speak for women. But I would like to comment. I think that a
better question is 'what can I do to be more attractive to women'. (If you really
want to be able to predict who will be considered more attractive by some group of
women, then you can stop reading now).
*If you want to be more attractive to women, I think the first thing you have to
realize is that you only make small changes in yourself. You can't make yourself
taller, shorter or change your basic personality. Don't waste time worrying about
things you can't change.
*Another important point is that people pay more attention to attitude and
personality than to appearance. You should try to be well groomed and keep in
shape, of course. But if you are going to make a good impression, you are going to
have to do it by projecting your personality, not by looking good.
*Paying attention to someone and being a good listener will help make the other
person interested in you, but if that is all you do, you will be taken for granted.
To keep this from happening, you need to demonstrate some independence. Show that
you have a life of your own. While you should keep the focus on her, when she talks
about something in her life, you can briefly mention something in your life that is
similar. If you do a variety of things in your life, it should be easy to appear
independent. On the other hand, if you act like you are never too busy to drop
everything to see her, and that as far as you are concerned there are no other
women in the world, you willbe seen as dependent. Dependency is
unattractive........................So what do you think..?
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*I am a very honest man who would like to meet that special someone to share life's
adventures with. I'm searching for a caring, honest, understanding and fun to be
with person. Love anintelligent conversation. I have a great sense of humor and a
great personality. I am also veryromantic, sensual and passionate. I have many
interests including long romantic walks, holding hands and sneaking in a kiss or
two - anywhere from the park to the beach, I love cooking together and enjoying a
candle lit dinner, I enjoy watching sports either on TV or at a stadium (my
favorite teams are the NY Yankees and the NY Giants) although I like other teams as
well.Other interests are dancing, bowling, camping, fishing, boating, and many
more. I enjoy cuddling while watching a movie or just having a dinner with that
special one!
*Have you been honest since we statr talking to each other?I know its hard to be
completely honest but i try to be who i am and do what i know to be best. no one
really can change who i am or my personalty because i believe in myself and my life
is based on truth and its all about who i am because i know the kind of person i
am and the way i treat others. I do care a lot about others who care about me
because i know it that i am a very caring person and my heart is so blessed and
lovely. Well i will really like to know more about you and your motives and
intentions getting to know my kind of person because my intentions is to get to
know you.
*In life I feel we need to be forgiving and accepting both of ourselves and of
others. We are all unique and special in God's eyes and if we focus on doing good
things for others we receive good things from life in ways we may not even know.
*************************************************************************Qualities
of a good relationship************************************************************
*Good communication. Never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On occasion
surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together and telling each
other I love you.
*There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship. There has to be love in
order for a relationship to work.
*A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner... they
should be your best friend.
*A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned
for each other and they respect one another.
*Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what one
thinks, whether it be good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion. Being
able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being able
to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a couple's
lifestyle.
*Being friends first, last and always. If you have friendship as the basis of your
relationship, you can get through the hard times. The second ingredient is
commitment. With those two things, you can't lose.
*A good relationship is two people that are not afraid to tell the other anything
that may come up in the relationship. Best friends. Honesty, devotion, love, and
sense of humor.
*A good relationship exists when either individual has the freedom to leave but
neither wants to.
*I honestly think that a good relationship is one where there are no secrets. You
are completely open with each other. But the biggest key is that the other person
knows the worst possible thing about you and they love you even more for it. On top
of that you have to have faith and trust. So that when your man goes out with an
old female friend you can completely trust him and know that no matter what
happens, he will always come home to you. I know it may not seem like much but as
long as you have that and love, you are in a wonderful relationship. ??
*I define a good relationship by the way you treat each other. You could hold them
and run your fingers down the side of their face. Feel comfortable you know. And
you can also define it with fighting. Fighting is not my favorite thing to do with
my girlfriend. But it needs to be done. It's not a real relationship until you do
fight. I would have to say good communication! Equality, LOVE, not just lust, and
most of all, friendship is needed.
*For me, a good relationship is being able to open up to each other even about the
simple things in life. A relationship between two people cannot grow without trust.
Loving a person is not enough, because if you've got doubts building up inside then
you your relationship won't work. A good relationship is also based on friendship
because it is so much easier to love someone you truly know than someone you've met
5 minutes ago.
*I think it is where you can trust and respect each other; when you can have
passion and romance whenever and wherever you wish.
*A good relationship is when the two of you can actually feel better about your
relationship after an argument; it's when you can really respect each other's
differences and openly discuss feelings at all times.
*You have good relationship where there is compromise, honesty, sensitivity, and a
feel for the needs and wants of the other person and yourself.
*When the couple listens and doesn't interrupt when they're trying to work out a
fight. They care for each other deeply. They share similar interests.
*A good relationship is when both parties can freely express themselves with one
another and to have that open connection to be able to say anything to each other.
To have trust and faith in one another. Basically a honest, trusting, loving and
open relationship.
*When you can feel comfortable about everything together. Always being able to
talk, joke. Taking your commitment seriously with one another and never taking each
other for granted.
*A good relationship must a give and take basis, in order for you to understand
each other. Never fail to listen and understand the situation your in to. Be open
minded and be ready to any obstacle that will come in you're way.
*It's something divine. Where the understanding between the two partners is mutual.
No talking required, but it's something you can just feel, something special. Where
you can just believe in each other, really believe. How there is a difference
between saying it and actually feeling it.
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*Accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do).Discuss current
events in a heated debate.Have you see the error of mine/your ways from
aforementioned heated debate ... then make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of
all that passion.Carve our names into a tree/table.Go for a walk at dusk
together.Be one with you. I love you my love kisses. Good Night!Spend all night
thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.Hold you and gaze into your eyes and
realize how much I love you ... and tell you so.Gently run my hand across your
cheek and look into your eyes.Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.Spend
my life making you happy.Spend my life making our family happy.Feel your
heartbeat.Give you a back rub just because.ALWAYS being honest with each other.Go
hiking/camping together.Have our first fight, make up to you just to make fun and
smile, and feel a "stronger bond" because we have very successfully weathered the
storm together.Marry you and forever i do will be out goals in life.Silly laugh at
ourselves together.Share a plate of spaghetti with meat balls and lots of Parmesan
cheese.Give you a stuffed animal just because.Go on a fun family vacation and bring
back the kind of memories movies are made of.Treat you like my Queen.
Go on a road trip across the country.Count thunder together during a
thunderstorm.Envelop you in my soul and arms.
*Cook your favorite meal/meals.Know you better than you know yourself.Go to a
Renaissance Fair.Plant a tree in our yard together.Look over at you during a family
party and have you know without me saying a word that I love you.Snuggle in front
of a fireplace Share a knowing look across the room - of the wonderful night of
love we shared Spend half the night laughing and talking, knowing we have to get up
early the next day Go on a romantic cruise Travel to Italy & Rome for our honeymoon
Hold hands while driving Hold each other while sleeping Hold each other and kiss
and stare into each others eyes after making beautiful, passionate love
Go fishing together - in the Bahamas or Costa Rica Feed you fruit - strawberries,
grapes, cherries - from my lips to yours Care for you if you are too ill to care
for yourself Love you endlessly, until the end of time
*I want to be able to say "I love you" in more than a dozen ways - in 12+ different
countries.Hold you when you are at your saddest and comfort you when you need it
the most. Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding. Wipe away the days'
stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss. Grow old with you.I Cherished your
friendship and i will forever love and adore you!
*This feeling of love that I hold within my heart for you runs deeper than any
ocean or sea; I just wish you could see how much you mean to me. If only you could
hold me, then maybe you would feel my love for you that burns with a flame high
enough to last. If only you could hear my heart beat, then maybe you would
understand the language of love with which it speaks. If only you could kiss me
then maybe you would taste my love for you that's so sweet, and if only you could
look into my eyes, the window to my soul, then you would know that this is no lie!
*So, if what you feel for me is real and what you say is true, then with all my
heart do I trust thee. If you want me as your love as much as I want you as my love
then so be it. I give you this heart of mine and ask nothing less or nothing more
but just that you don't go breaking my heart. My love and trust is all I have to
give to you, sealed with honesty throughout and as time goes by, may it grow
stronger to fulfill your heart's desire.
*If only I could have come up with the right words to describe the depth of this
beautiful feeling that I have for you, I will whisper them to you the first day we
meet. The best thing that I can do is to show you in writing.
*There are things in life that are inevitable; I am powerless to control them. The
Sun will rise and set, the tide will come in and go out, the seasons will change,
the birds will fly South for the winter and return in the spring, and the
caterpiller will transform itself into a beautiful butterfly. Somehow, I feel
reassured by this because many other things in life are so transient - so
momentary. tess, from the moment we met, I knew that our friendship would develop
into something lasting and precious, just as I am sure that the caterpiller will
one day become a beautiful butterfly.angel, I believe that our love is blessed by
God. It is a union of two spirits destined for everlasting happiness. Thus, you
have truly become the star of my life which brings me light in this dark world, and
warmth when I need it. You offer me the promise of renewal, the joy of living, the
peace of mind that comes from sharing and caring, and that shoulder to lean on in
times of stress. You are my Swallow from Capistrano - my precious butterfly, and I
will cherish you and you are always in my heart!.
*From the very first moment I saw you I knew that we were destined to be
together. . Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your laughter fills me with joy,
and your mere presence will warm any room. I have no doubt you are the woman Heaven
has made especially for me.Thank you for coming into my life . Most importantly,
thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your husband. No matter how
slowly or at what distance our courtship developed, I know standing before God and
our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I
could have ever made.Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow
stronger. Although I know it�s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing
that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any
distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us,
and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more
every day.
*I feel alive whenever i talk to you . You bring to me a happiness that no one else
ever could. You bring to me a love I have never known before. I could not imagine
what my life would be like without you. You have touched my heart in ways no one
could ever comprehend. I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
Every day I wake up thanking God for you. . You have been my guiding light when I
was lost. You have been my comforter through my trials and sorrow. You have been
my rock.
*Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but when you�re there, I feel safe. Your
voice soothes me. I could sit here and try to tell you just how I feel, but I can't
find the words other than I am ecstatic we met.
*Understanding. The first quality, this word has a broad meaning, to understand
means to be thoroughly familiar with the character and propensities of one person.
Being understanding is not so hard to do, some relationships has this problem
always. Lack of understanding makes both of you become possessive with each other.
*Respect your partner. To respect your partner means you know how to honor, esteem,
high regard, considerate and give her/him you best attention. You partner should
always feel that he/she is being respected, he or she should feel that you honor
his/her decision whatever that may be, to support him/her and not being the
superior in your relationship is already a respect with your partner.
*Listen to your partner. To listen is to pay attention, when your partner has to
say something make sure to listen to him/her. I believe this is the most important
thing that you should have as a person, if you know how to listen, you will
understand what your partner has to say and if you understand everything else will
fall so smooth in your relationship. As the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from
Venus" said "Listening creates healing." If you have done something wrong with your
partner, listen to what he/she wanted to say to keep your relationship intact and
okay always.
*Forgive. We are only human and we make mistakes, and sometimes making this
mistakes irritably hurts the another. Sometimes, you do not notice it but you
accidentally or unintentionally hurt your partner. I'm a very sensitive kind of
person and what I really want to always have is the attention and understanding
from my partner, I admit I have the highest pride ever. Nevertheless, I have
learned that if you truly love someone you have to understand his point as well. We
always think that if we hate that someone, we should always be the "right"person in
the issue, but that's a wrong kind of thinking. "Forgiveness is the key. If someone
hurts then one needn't hurt back. As Gandhi said, An eye for an eye will make the
whole world blind." Let's live to this thinking not just for the sake of our
relationship but let's also apply this to everything.
*Loyalty. Being loyal is having the feeling or attitude of devoted attachment and
affection. This is very important, though I have enumerated a lot of vital words
here. This is the most common of all of those vital words that I have said, to
stick with that someone you think you have shared half of your life is a great
feeling. Come to think of it, we cannot stop everybody if they have something to
say about you and your partner, some people are just really insecure that's why
they keep on commenting on your move as a couple. Loyalty is a big word, it is not
just a simple word because when you say that you are "Loyal" you have to keep it,
and you have to show it. It is a very nice feeling if you know that the person that
you love doesn't want to find another person as great as you are. It is very nice
to know that, at the end of the day, you will sleep at night saying "Good Night and
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Its hurt to love someone and not be love in return, but what is more painful is to
love someone and never finds the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wronged people before we meet in the right ones,
so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for
that gift Love is when you take away the feelings the passion of the romance in a
relationship and found out you still care for that person..
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find
out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes another opens, but often times we look so longer
to the closed door, that we don't see the one which has been open for us..
The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word and then
walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had
It is true that we don't know what we have gotten till we lose it, but its also
true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they love you back, don't
expect love in return, just do it for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't
be content it grew in yours.The hard things you will love to hear that you would
never hear from the person whom you want to hear them from..but don't be so deaf as
not to hear it from the one who says it from the heart.Never say goodbye if you
still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can't go on.... never say
you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.Love come to those who still
hope, although they have been disappointed......to those who still believe,
although they have been betrayed.....to those who still need to love. although they
have been hurt before....and to those who still have the courage and faith to build
trust again.
It take only a minutes to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone,,, and a
day to love someone, but it takes a life time to forget someone.....don't go for
look it can deceive, don't go for wealth even that fades away, go for someone who
makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark days in bright.....
you know i am that someone who want to make you smile if you can give me the
chances.. I really do like you and i want you to give me a space in your heart and
life
Hope this finds you well.......My goddess!
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*Dear,I may not be too sure of the number of men you've dated in the past,I don't
know how many you've turned down due to some reasons best known to you,but what I
know for sure is,for two to form one there has to be a mutual bond between both,I
think that's where the TRUE CHEMISTRY LIES.Some sort of Compatibility between the
two people involved.
*I would love to treat you right,like a real man is suppose to treat his woman,have
you pampered and wrapped in my arms.Sing you to bed and wake you up every morning
with a warm kiss on your forehead,a cup of tea or coffee in my other hand and say
to you,"Good Morning my Empress".I would love to do that and even more to you.
*I am the caregiver type,a man who loves to assist and stretch out a helping and
supporting hand.I am not selfish neither am i self centered.I am not that kind of
guy who sits all day and watch his wife do the cleaning of the
home,cooking,gardening and the rest of it all.
*I am not that kind of guy who sits at the dining table with a hungry stomach
nagging,yelling and shouting out loud for his food to be served and brought to him
like a King.I am that kind of guy who helps in the Kitchen,I will enjoy slicing the
vegetables while my partner stir the soup and make a good taste out of it.As a
matter of fact,i enjoy cooking.My favorite is,Rice,Salad and fried
Chicken.Hmmmm,Yummy-Yummy,lol.
*I am that guy who opens the door for his partner(Lady first)with a sweet smile on
my face and then follow her right behind.I love to be romantic on bed,I don't just
rush into having SEX,Love making is very important in every successful relationship
and there is a big difference between just SEX and LOVE MAKING.Most couples aren't
aware of this.I would prefer and choose love making over sex.I am a very active man
but slow and steady does it for me.I am very passionate and extremly
romantic.First,I start by kissing your legs,licking your fingers,touching you in
sensational spots,caressing your body and kissing your neck.I don't get bored
kissing my partner,I may do without Sex,but please don't deprive me the sweet
pleasure of kissing you all day,smile's.Its just my own simple way of appreciating
your beauty and you as my Partner.
*I love to make love in a room with the lights off and the candles on,a slow soul
or R&B music playing at the background.making love on top of a bed full with rose
flowers,Hummmmm,I'm a very romantic guy.You will see for yourself.
*I am that kind of guy who will gladly message your body just to keep it fit after
a stressful day at work.I am open to new ideas,I am a guy who takes his partner out
to a Chinese restaurant(table for two)merry with her,hit our glasses and say cheers
to one another.I am man who takes his partner out to the beach,road walk,holding
hands together and counting the stars in the sky,site viewing,concerts and
cinema.To me,everyday can be a birthday for us,everyday can be our
anniversary,don't be surprise when I tell you,we are going on a vacation,there
mustn't be a special reason to celebrate our love,appreciating you as my partner
would be a nice habit...Oh yes,who say we can't have our honey moon over number of
times and as much as we want,of course we can,every month,every year,every week,can
be our Honey Moon.It's just my own simple and little way of saying 'Baby,Ur the
BEST.
*Trust me,I am open to all and even more of all these packages,what exactly do you
really want your man to posses,I mean,your likes and dislikes.I don't wanna lose
you,I can adapt to any level if the needs to should ever come up.
*In all of these,don't get me wrong my Dear.I am just being me,that simple guy who
loves to look smart and happy at all times not withstanding the circumstances
surrounding me.I love to be happy.I don't lead a sad life as I am a happy man and
love to hang out with the most beautiful people on earth,people with lots of love
and care to offer,people that share,people that assists,people that provides
solutions to problems,givers and not takers,people with helping
hands,conquerors,leaders. Together we stand tall,strong and firm.This is me for you
and how about you?
*I am looking for a God-fearing woman best friend, a companion and a life partner.
I have a sincere desire to share life with someone to travel and create memories
together, to share life interests and to experience new challenges together.
Preferably, I would like to meet a woman who is established in good sense of humor
and has a good sense of humor, in relatively good at heart, is attractive,caring
and trust worthy.
*Trust & honesty are very important to me.I like being told the whole truth,even if
it hurts.No exaggerations,stretching or own versions.It�s a gift that i give it
freely and I expect the same in return.Without it there is no relationship or
friendship.What am I looking for.
*Someone that will respect me and my daughter, want to hold my hand at the end of a
long day, someone to be there for me as I am for her, sharing our lives, to talk
with, to laugh with and to love. Someone that wants to be a part of the things I
do & vise-versa, however, also need to respect, trust and be supportive of each
others individuality as well.
*I want to feel safe, trusted, loved even with all my faults. Loving someone so
much that I ache inside from missing her when she isn�t beside me. I want to be
able to share openly about anything with that person and know that she won�t judge
or criticize me.
*Someone who will be there to listen to me, no matter the time, and share/talk
about her life with me.Someone that I know that I can turn to when I�m alone,
lonely, hurting, confused or sad.
*Someone who can put a smile on my face when I feel like crying or hold me and
comfort me or just be there when I need them the most even if it means putting what
you want to do aside to be there then.
*Someone that I can sit in silence with and be content.I want her touch and kiss to
consume me.To be a gentle,loving, passionate & exciting lover.I love to be held and
talked to before,during and after.Know that sometimes pleasing each other is more
important that pleasing yourself.
*The definition of a best friend in the dictionary is: someone with whom one shares
the strongest possible kind of friendship.A definition of love is: caring about
someone so deeply that your life would be very different with out them; that there
would always be a little piece of yourself missing or incomplete when they are not
with you or if they pass away or leave you; and you would do anything to protect
them or to make them happy.
*I'm looking for a bright, energetic, fun loving partner who appreciates God and
her life! Someone I can click with...a natural connection. A strong family
relationship is important to me. A sense of humor is a big plus!! I'm am looking
for a woman who is loving and has a lot of energy...
*I have a smile for everyone. I'm considered outgoing and the life of the party. I
love to make others laugh and enjoy making people happy. I have a natural curiosity
that keeps things interesting for me! I workout and stay in great shape. I love to
hold hands and cuddle...being Close is natural for me.
*I'm a fun loving person that loves to travel the world and explore. I'm outgoing,
fun to be with, and I love to make others laugh. I find joy and value in all
people, especially children and older people. I treat everyone equally and greet
everyone with a smile.
*I enjoy my work and I am very good at it, but I take the time to play and exercise
as well... I prefer to be around people who can challenge me and people that I can
inspire as well.
*I'm committed to a lifelong process of knowing the Lord better, through inward
devotion and outward ministry. I'm involved in choir, a men's small group, and
several other things at church, and really enjoyed a mission trip to New Orleans
with the church youth group last summer.
*I spent a few years as a missionary and have studied Greek, theology, and Bible
translation. The goal, though, is "doing" rather than only studying! Some favorite
Scriptures are Romans 8, Philippians, and 1 Timothy.
*I read science fiction, fantasy, psychology, philosophy, and other topics. Among
Christian authors I particularly like John Piper and Peter Kreeft. For exercise I
enjoy hiking, occasional rock-climbing, and I just earned my first-degree black
belt in an Okinawan martial art called Ryute.
*I enjoy watching sports (especially baseball), but I don't follow any sports
closely. I actually enjoy fixing things around my house. I love music from Baroque
to Jazz to Contemporary Christian.
*As a man, I cannot speak for women. But I would like to comment. I think that a
better question is 'what can I do to be more attractive to women'. (If you really
want to be able to predict who will be considered more attractive by some group of
women, then you can stop reading now).
*If you want to be more attractive to women, I think the first thing you have to
realize is that you only make small changes in yourself. You can't make yourself
taller, shorter or change your basic personality. Don't waste time worrying about
things you can't change.
*Another important point is that people pay more attention to attitude and
personality than to appearance. You should try to be well groomed and keep in
shape, of course. But if you are going to make a good impression, you are going to
have to do it by projecting your personality, not by looking good.
*Paying attention to someone and being a good listener will help make the other
person interested in you, but if that is all you do, you will be taken for granted.
To keep this from happening, you need to demonstrate some independence. Show that
you have a life of your own. While you should keep the focus on her, when she talks
about something in her life, you can briefly mention something in your life that is
similar. If you do a variety of things in your life, it should be easy to appear
independent. On the other hand, if you act like you are never too busy to drop
everything to see her, and that as far as you are concerned there are no other
women in the world, you willbe seen as dependent. Dependency is
unattractive........................So what do you think..?
my Sweet Wife,
What more can a man say to the woman who opened her heart to him, allowing him to
feel the warmth of her love across the great distance that separates them? You
truly have no idea what I feel for you.. I try to put this feeling into words, but
fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both
butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about.
I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right
now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my
heart.. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my
existence just so soon.
I have no other words to describe the way you make me feel. No words, no actions
could even come close. "I more than love you". I want our love to be strong love,
surviving everything, even death. I believe that even after life i will we will
still love eachother, I want to be your loving husband for life and death.. That is
the love that I feel for you.
Baby, I know we haven't been talking that long, but I want you to know that I
love you from the bottom of my heart. From the moment I first chat and heard your
voice, I knew that I wanted you in my life, whether as a friend of something a
little more. Baby, I prayed for a long time to find someone like you. Someone
willing to light for me, someone to make me smile and someone who I know truly
loves me. You're in my thoughts, my dreams, and every breath I take..
I have spent my life waiting ... not living, nor loving, but waiting. Waiting for
the one that would inspire me to be all I can be, to live up to every expectation,
to reach every goal, to know that I may fail sometime but I will never be alone or
waiting again. You brought to my cold empty heart the reason to live and to love
with a passion only you could bring. Your words of acceptance and love have soothed
the aching in my empty heart and now I am at peace with myself and the world around
me. I know that one day I will come to you never to wait anymore. I love you with
every ounce of my being ... "Your name is the first name I call and the last name I
will ever whisper forever.
I need you by my side. You complete me. You mean the world to me. You are the
best thing that has ever happened to me. You are the one I've always wished for. I
never thought that I would ever meet someone as special as you. I love each and
every moment I share with you.
I love you so much, Sweetie. You are the best thing that ever happened to me. You
are like the best poetry ever composed, the best song ever played, the best picture
ever painted. I never thought that someone like me could get so lucky! A day
without you in my life is like a day without sunshine, a day without food, or a day
without air. I need you when I�m cold to keep me warm; I need you in the rain to
keep me dry; I need you in my life to keep me happy. You make me feel wonderful.
You give me strength when I just can't carry on and I truly treasure that. Every
moment spent together is another one of my dreams coming true.
I love you more than my life, more than my world. I love you more and more each
time i talk to you and that is the most wonderful feeling any man can ever hope to
experience. I want you to know that since the minute we met I've fallen deeply in
love with you. There are no words to express the gratitude I feel in my heart since
you came into my life, and how you make every minute so special. You are my life,
my heart, my soul. You are my best friend, my one true love, my one and only.
You are the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. Each moment that
you and I spend together is so magical that I catch myself smiling for no reason at
all. I thought that I would never find a love that is as strong as ours, but now
that we've found each other I know that you are the person I want to spend the rest
of my life with,the person I want to grow old with..
Baby, you complete me. You make my life so amazing and I don't know how else to
repay you but to love you just as much as you love me. The world is a better place
to be because of you. You make me feel handsome. Thank you for giving me so much
more than I ever could have wanted.. I am so thankful for what we have, and for
everything we will have. You are the only woman I ever want to share my life with.
I could never imagine what it would be like if we were to lose each other. I don't
even want to think about it. All I want to think of is you.
You are the love of my life.. I love you, and I always will until the day I die.
Hopefully, when that day comes, I will still have you by my side and yours will be
the last face that I see. When we�re older with a family and home of our own, we�ll
look back at the ways we argued about things that were so insignificant and we�ll
laugh and know that our love was strong enough to overcome every argument. I just
want you to know that I'm thankful that you came into my life and I will love you
till the end of my days. My love for you will never fade, I�m so crazy about you,
baby.
I belive you feel the same way for me, I really just want to see you happy, to
make sweet love to you all night till you get satisfied. True love is about the
other person, it�s not about yourself. I am willing to give you my soul if that
what make you always happy. I Love You
You make me feel loved, you make me feel safe, but more importantly, you make me
feel wanted. Something that I hadn't felt in a very long time. We both knew our
friendship would grow right from the very first day we spoke. But, neither one of
us could begin to imagine the love we both feel, not exploding or thundering into
our hearts, but just slowly growing into a beautiful relationship that only you and
I can understand.. We don't even need to be together, we are never apart. You are
my soul mate, my best friend, my inspiration, my love.
I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is
strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you
have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our
lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms,
only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I
want to be your everything. You are everything to me.
You are everything I want in this life. You see and bring out the best in me. You
are the one I want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams.
Thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for
me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life.what can
i do to repay you, I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my
life.....
When I am with you, the world and its troubles are nothing to me but a blur. When
I have a bad day I know you are there for me. Just the same for you if you are
having a bad day; I'll do anything to make you smile, to kiss your soft, sweet lips
- to look into those beautiful eyes that sparkle with happiness. In those eyes I
see a fire of passion and safeness. I was about to give up all hope on love until I
laid eyes on your profile.
Everyday I wake up thanking God for you. You have made all my dreams come true,I
promise to always love you and always hold you in my heart. I will always be here
for you when you need me and I will love you no matter what life brings us. You are
my soul mate, and I vow to love you until the day that eternity is gone. I love you
baby, You and I together, we can make magic We're a perfect match.
Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling. Your love gives me the
feeling, that the best is still ahead. I will never give up on you, and that's what
keeps me going. You are simply irresistible.....
I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to
be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow.
However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust
is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that
comes from within yourself.
All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What
they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect
them from the very thing they are searching for... Yes, there is a risk in trusting
someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past
experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk.
All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful even when they seem so at
the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Like Nothing is
worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad
'may' come to you.
Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings.
A Chat for example is a risk... But why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by
building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from
pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the
beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.
For out of everyone there is still a special person meant for you. But you just
can't find him/her if you hide away all your life. Making sure you call the person
you care about or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you. Just care for that
person with all your might.
Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what one
thinks, whether it be good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion. Being
able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being able
to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a couple's
lifestyle.
Being friends first, last and always. If you have friendship as the basis of your
relationship, you can get through the hard times. The second ingredient is
commitment. With those two things, you can't lose.
Friendship is also one of the important key in any relationship. I feel that if you
can't be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you
have to have trust and respect. You have to like the person you're friends with to
get along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them is just an
extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick
house, love must also have a foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must
have a strong foundation (friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of
time Validating your partner's feelings. It's so important to be heard in a
relationship even if you do not agree with what is being said.
I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance.
When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return
will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to
hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they
can build a successful relationship from this Quality time spent together, pillow
talk, one on one, being open about everything Always showing you love each other
all the time by celebrating on different occasions like the first time you met each
other, I think the most important key to a successful relationship is when you
truly enjoy each other's company..
There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship and there has to be love in
order for a relationship to work because when you can feel comfortable about
everything together. Always being able to talk, joke. Taking your commitment
seriously with one another and never taking each other for granted.
I know all this because I've lived in it. My late wife and I had everything. Money,
companionship, friends, a good home, great jobs. We were basically friends. Friends
are just that friends... husbands or wives should be in love and life partners...
that doesn't happen without feeling passion for the other person Communication...
Talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What makes you happy and
what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't do what makes you
happy and vice versa.
The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's
with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's
with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive.
Eventually, it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers
you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.
However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust
is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that
comes from within yourself.
All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What
they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect
them from the very thing they are searching for... Yes, there is a risk in trusting
someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past
experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk.
All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful even when they seem so at
the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Like Nothing is
worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad
'may' come to you.
Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings.
A Chat for example is a risk... But why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by
building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from
pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the
beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.
For out of everyone there is still a special person meant for you. But you just
can't find him/her if you hide away all your life. Making sure you call the person
you care about or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you. Just care for that
person with all your might.
Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what one
thinks, whether it be good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion. Being
able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being able
to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a couple's
lifestyle.
Being friends first, last and always. If you have friendship as the basis of your
relationship, you can get through the hard times. The second ingredient is
commitment. With those two things, you can't lose.
Friendship is also one of the important key in any relationship. I feel that if you
can't be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you
have to have trust and respect. You have to like the person you're friends with to
get along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them is just an
extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick
house, love must also have a foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must
have a strong foundation (friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of
time Validating your partner's feelings. It's so important to be heard in a
relationship even if you do not agree with what is being said.
I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance.
When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return
will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to
hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they
can build a successful relationship from this Quality time spent together, pillow
talk, one on one, being open about everything Always showing you love each other
all the time by celebrating on different occasions like the first time you met each
other, I think the most important key to a successful relationship is when you
truly enjoy each other's company..
There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship and there has to be love in
order for a relationship to work because when you can feel comfortable about
everything together. Always being able to talk, joke. Taking your commitment
seriously with one another and never taking each other for granted.
I know all this because I've lived in it. My late wife and I had everything. Money,
companionship, friends, a good home, great jobs. We were basically friends. Friends
are just that friends... husbands or wives shou
ld be in love and life partners... that doesn't happen without feeling passion for
the other person Communication... Talking and open honest communication about how
you feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner
then they can't do what makes you happy and vice versa.
The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's
with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's
with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive.
Eventually, it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers
you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.
All my worries are gone, All my struggles are done! My future is great with you.
And from now, that I can envisage. I love my life with you...
l8hjeeermknjHello dear, how are you I'm Maj. Gen. William Miller, I am the
commanding general of United States Army North (Fifth Army) and senior commander of
Fort Sam Houston now part of Joint Base San Antonio, but i aghghhhm currently
serving as the Commanding General, Combined Security Transition here in
afghanistan, regard to the UN peace keeping mission.
I'm open-minded, sensitive, truthful, passionate, with a great sense of humor ... i
m good in cooking,swimming,dancing and singing responsible and serious when I have
to be. I love music, traveling, meeting people and all is beautiful ! I am looking
for that special someone, I could love with all my heart, body and soul. I love to
find experiences and to share them with someone that is serious in looking for the
right woman to give her peace and comfort., am a little bit new to the system here.
I also try to load a picture here but i could not. If you don't mind we can share
some pictures when we start to have contacts. I will also tell you more about me
when we meet. ......I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight
dinners.I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of
the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. c
However,k
I'm on duty for 25 years and I now have one month to end my mission here and then I
will retire. I am a romantic person, very affectionate and caring father, as
distance can not be an obstacle to true love.
I am not always online due to the nature of my job, as I am always busy with my
men over here......Be a person full of love and life, stay simple and be happy...
When
things go wrong don't go blue, Just pray and say I will get through,
Always remember God Loves You!
I lost my parents when i was at the age of 10, i am the only child i can't live on
without them because i am still a kid, i went to live with my dad's brother, who
treated me like a slave he never loved me, i was unable to live with them so i
left, i traveled to New York train daily life, i stay in the street for 2 years,
before my dad bestfriend took me to Florida, there i became someone again i was
happy, so he introduce me into the military then i became a military person now,
but he is no more.. My life i don't have anyone to be called friend or family, the
only family i got are my kids.
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frstanley miller: 1, What's your religion...?
I'm Pentecostal .and I am very involved with my
church ,I sing on the praise and worship at our contemporary service. I love to
listen to praise and worship music ,my favorite artdeist is Robin Mark ...
fffrgfAlso one of our pastor is in South Kasoa in Ghana. he's taking care of an
Orphanage Home. and i just got a latter from him saying he want our Company to fly
down to where he's , and get his car's fixed for him, because we where the one
who help him to export it..
2, Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs...?
No i don,t do none of that.
3,How many years have you lived alone...?
I have being single since the past 4 years now...
4,Do you enjoy being alone?
its not easy to be single, precise with our kids, the love of having a family is
the greatest gift from God
stanley miller:
35, Can you please tell me more about your self...?
I'm 5'8 tall,I have salt and paper hair,blue eyes, and
I'm Gentlemen, family oriented, love to please the chosen women, respectful,
honest, reliable, cheerful,sensitive and loyal...
36,Where were you born and raise up in....?
i was born and raise up in Australia and i have live
in Germany about 10 months, but here in Austin i have been here for almost all my
life
37,Can we share photos...?
Oh Yes ,
38,What are your body-type preferences for your mate....?
Average-height weight proportionate...
39,How big is your family and are your parent there...?
Both my parent are gone and I have one brother who is 10 years
younger then me and lives about 9 hours away from me...
40,How many times have you been married...?
Once and that's my ex-wife.
41,Are pets an important part of your life?
I don't own pets but I don't mind them either.
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I love how we got that open relationship.
Telling each other exactly how we feel,
Telling me to always be real.
I love how you can make me smile from so many miles away,
Holding on to every word you say.
You bring so much joy in my heart,
And you did right from the start.
Sometimes I wonder is this a dream, is this true?
You came to me at a time I was blue.
Damn, babe, can you be any more perfect?
Ever since that night, you changed my life,
I'm dying to be your husband.
I love how we are not afraid to try new things,
Accepting whatever life brings.
I love how we have so much in common.
I love how you see beyond what other people see,
The real me.
You notice the little things,
We understand each other on a different level.
Babe, you and I are so random.
But besides the point,
I'm so grateful to be a part of your life.
Loving me like no other has before,
And I could never ask for anything more.
To make a long story short,
I love everything about you and our relationship...
I love you with all my heart...
As I lie in my bed,
Your name's running through my head.
All I can think of is you
And all that you do.
The way you look at me.
I feel as if I'm in a dream.
The blue sky
Reminds me of your eyes
Which gives me butterflies.
You have brightened my life
With that beautiful smile.
No longer are my days a trial.
Your touch is like heaven,
Upon my young skin.
If only you knew
That what I say is true
I would do anything just to be with you.
Hand to hand, palm to palm
Just hold me in your arms,
I love you with all my heart
'Till the very day it falls apart.
I may be old,
But my heart is strong.
I know what love is
It's my name and his.
You make all the problems float away
No matter how was my day.
I love our heart to heart chats
When our beats connect,
And when my head starts to fade back
From when the blue sky
Turns sacred black.
I will always love you,
Remember that.
You can push me away,
but I'll always come back.
you can deny your desire and say it can't be,
but I won't let the walls come between you and me.
You're afraid of your dark side,
the harm you could cause.
I have never feared your hands
or their sharp, pointy claws.
I love them,
I love you,
I love all that you are.
protest all you like,
but you will not get far.
You can never change my mind.
My heart will stay true.
I'll do everything I can to get closer to you.
I will wait for you forever,
so get used to that fact.
I will always love you,
"Remember That."
I promise to always lift you up
When you are feeling down
I promise to wipe your tears
When you feel you need to cry
I promise to keep you smiling
To show off that beautiful smile you have
I promise to be your strength
Whenever you fall weak
I promise to be your voice,
When you can't find the words
I promise to be your eyes
When you cannot see
I promise to be your ears
When you cannot hear
I promise to always tell you what's real
When you want to hear the truth
I promise to be your dream catcher
To chase away you're every fear
I promise to be your smile
When you're frowning
I promise to always cheer you up
When you are down and blue
I promise to give you faith
When you are feeling insecure
I promise to keep you sturdy
When you are feeling unsafe
I promise to listen
When you need to talk
I promise to tell you no lies
Just what is true
I promise to always lend you my shoulder
For when you need to cry
I promise to always hold you
When you need someone
I promise to always care for you
Wherever you are I promise to always be there
I promise to never hurt you and never break your heart
I can't promise you the world
I can't promise you the sky
I can't promise you that we will never fight
I can't promise you that I will never cry
And baby I promise that I will always love you more than anything with all my
heart, no matter what happens or what we go through, baby I'll love you until the
end of time!
Ill be your guardian angel
I thought of you today, but that's nothing new
I thought about you yesterday and the day before that too
for every day, good or bad, you'll always be in my head
I hope you've understood everything I've said
this isn't just a joke or a silly lie
I'd never do anything to make you wanna cry
I'm sorry if I do something to make you really mad
it only comes back and makes me really sad
I really do love you and everything you are
I hope this relationship gets really far
I'll never get you out; I simply don't know how
in fact I'm thinking of you right about now
you're everything I need and everything to me
you know exactly who you are and what you want to be
you always make me smile just by being there
I hope you know how much I really do care
every time I think of you my stomach seems to twist
This is why I love you, I've made a huge list
the list goes on forever and never will it end
neither will our relationship; you'll always be my friend
not just a simple friend but a special friend, at that
I want to spend my whole life with you
Hello honey, i want you to listen, i have been given a pay off from Afghanistan of
a job well done, by the Afghanistan government which i told you before now, i will
be leaving, but i have to get job done, and i still have 2 weeks to be here, before
coming home, the money is One million dollars, i can't keep the money with me, due
to the situation we facing here it's not face and it's all i have work for, i can't
send it to my account because it's dormant, no one to face now but you, i trust you
and i know with you the money will be safe, i want to use it to make a better life
for our family, there is a company here which deliver door to door delivery
i have register the box to the delivery company and i am the second person who
registered today , i paid for an express delivery and the diplomat will be coming
to you in 2 days time, i need you to know that i trust you and i believe in you so
well and trust you not to let me down
i have paid for every charges but you got to pay for the custom clearance of 750
dollars so the diplomat can enter into your country i was told by the company, the
company refuse me to pay here because they dont allow their agent to carry
customers goods and that custom clearance along, which they said you over there
have to do it
the diplomat will need that money honey to pay the custom and i need you to do it
not to keep him wait i can simple go mentalled, go crazy if i loose that box
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