Adolescence
Adolescence
Adolescence
Irene M. Josselyn
e-Book 2015 International Psychotherapy Institute
Adolescence Defined
confusion for the reader unless it is specifically defined in the context of the
love objects. During latency this integration pattern widens, with progressive
is not, as implied by the term “latency,” a dormant period, but rather a span of
time during which, optimally, the child’s psychological gestalt is becoming
enlarged and basically melded to provide a firm foundation for the next span
of growth, adolescence.
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what will become the architecture of the adult personality and character, as
well as the crystallized potentiality for neuroses or psychoses. The analogy of
unless the bricks and mortar that are the fundamental components of that
solution of prelatency conflicts will result in the latency phase being poorly
balanced; in addition, that lack of balance will distort what occurs as the
independent of the past but rather, for good or bad, a superstructure upon
that past.
As many have pointed out, adolescence had not been studied with any
intensity until approximately the last 30 years. Even with the evolution of
thinking regarding psychological development from birth on, for a long time
youth of that day would do to the future. For the most part it was presumed
that if adolescence was ignored the idiosyncrasies would end. There was little
two diametrically different points of view. There are those who describe
typical adolescence as a period of turmoil and confusion. This has implied to
others a degree of pathology that they do not believe exists. The latter group
believe that normal adolescence is not full of turmoil; they argue that those
who indicate otherwise base their conclusions upon their study of manifestly
disturbed individuals and therefore attribute to all the troubles of relatively
few.[2]
transient episodes of clinging to the old; at the same time the strongest force
in the normal individual is to thrust forward. There are also brief false steps
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toward the next phase.
have “grown up.” He will have grown from childhood to adulthood, having
reevaluated many facets of himself and the outer world during adolescence.
the path from childhood to adulthood is well trodden and clearly marked. In
contrast, in Western culture the child is only familiar with vague directions.
His position is comparable to that of the pioneers who explored the West;
they knew the way led west, but the miles between their familiar homes and
the anticipated riches at the end of their trek were uncharted except for the
vague guidelines of the sun and the stars. Children of Western culture know
well realize that he is different from what he was as a child. Frequently the
change is only apparent after a period of absence. A boy of this type goes
away to college, and when vacations reunite the family he seems strange to
his parents. He is, as the family vaguely describes it, more grown up. He also is
aware of, and frequently uncomfortable about, the change, but he tolerates
don’t know, I just feel this way,” or a curt, “Can’t you let me alone?” School
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achievement may be less than in the past, or it may manifest the same
sporadic shifts as the mood swings, with successes and failures occurring
adolescent”; family and teachers are assured that “it will pass.” This group is
perhaps most secretive about its thoughts. For a variety of reasons the
individual prefers to find his own solutions to the internal problems with
difficulties. This evaluation by another may be correct, but usually the normal
their overt actions. It is this group that makes the news and arouses the
apprehension of adult society. Its members seek to handle their own
their mentors. On the other hand, most of them are soon disillusioned by
these pseudoadults, will talk with them but will not, except for a shorter or
tried on for size the ideas the adult has expressed and finally, often after long
There are adolescents that may or may not be a part of the third group
disturbance, only careful study over time will tell. They at least have a
frustration tolerance that is too low for the frustrations they are experiencing.
A certain number of them, either with help or by their own mastery of their
inner turmoil, will leave this type of behavior behind them as they begin to
resolve their phase-typical conflicts, and they will seek wiser ways to bring
about constructive social, political, or personal change as adults. Others will
syndrome they present." The first group described above may have among its
members those who are preschizophrenic or actually schizophrenic, the
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hysterical characters, incipient hysterics, or a manic-depressive constellation
that will become manifest in adulthood. The third group may include those
which group he appears to represent now, may develop later a mental illness
aware that the young person he is studying does not consistently fall into any
of the above groups; rather he is shifting from one to the other and is at times
immature, at other times strikingly mature, and, by adult standards, rational.
This would suggest that the diagnosis “normal” is most valid when a
the menstrual cycle in women. The young adolescent of either sex, about the
easily elated, more readily depressed, and more quickly angered over minor
reacts intensely to what is beautiful and to what is ugly, the former typically
he finds a positive element in the person or object that he has hated, he may
reverse his attitude and abandon his hostility and temporarily only feel love.
to handle his love and his anger, or his inability to accept imperfections, very
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is reacting in this way do not understand and respond to each of his opposing
feelings as if each erased the other. If others cannot harmonize his feelings,
how can he? This is readily observed in an adolescent who has a basically
sound relationship with his parents. At times he feels hostility toward them
and can’t understand why they are not the people he would love. Then later
he loves them and can’t understand why they don’t believe that love.
among boys. In our present culture the all-American boy, by adult standards,
necessarily how they really feel within themselves. One boy—who seemed in
remoteness from his parents, “Gee, don’t they realize I love them. I can’t show
it.” If one accepted only his overt behavior of indifference to his parents, it
This sensitivity in the adolescent is often the secret that they carefully
shelter from the invasion of others. As disturbing as today’s drug culture is to
all adults, one thing can be learned from certain participants. Their
drugs.
his future life. This sensitivity to his internal feelings explains in part why he
works so hard to find a way to bring conflicting sensations into some sort of
working order. Since such a process cannot be mastered by intellectualization
always intermingled with his techniques for trying to attain a new self-image.
In his confusion society does not offer him a great deal of help; modern
civilization offers very little sharply defined structure as a framework for the
adolescent. Most of the advanced cultures of today are oriented to the
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adolescent is confused by the teachings of democracy that stress the rights of
the individual. While the adult recognizes there is a difference between
forest because they are able to grasp only one tree at a time.
question have stressed the identity crisis as the chief characteristic. Prior to
adolescence the child had found his identity, but it was his identity as a child.
During normal latency he lived and enriched that identity. With the advent of
well as from the external world, a new identity must be sought. Self-identity is
identity are the ego ideal and the superego. Together they assure a certain
tell them apart; during adolescence the demarcation between the two is
frequently apparent and the source of confusion for the adolescent (as well as
others).
is the kind of me I can love.” The superego, when artificially separated from
this, defines, “This is the kind of person who will not be punished, but will be
loved by others.” The reason for the typical interrelatedness of these two in a
psychologically healthy individual is apparent. There is not much love for the
self if punishment, including loss of love, by others is not avoided.
During adolescence the childhood ego ideal, which was based upon
being a self-loving and lovable child, is partly abandoned. The lovable self
must attain an identity as an adult, not only in a social, economic, and
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respect for the self as an adult, not as a child.
his peers; his earlier ego ideal had become enriched by including the
requirement of being a good player in that game. His self-image thus had
is ashamed if he does not protest a parental demand as his peer group does,
companions and if he does not join them in violating a school dress code. He
probably would not mind not wearing ragged blue jeans, and even would not
object to wearing a necktie to school, except that to do so would be to
abandon the self-confidence that has resulted from social acceptance by that
On the other hand, often the code of his peer group violates an aspect of
not always an easy task for the adolescent to differentiate them. A simple
of the superego remains intact in adult life. On the whole, however, in our
current culture the normal adult’s attitude is based upon the concept of self-
determination.
and those that are a remnant of a childhood role. While parents are often
aware of the necessity for this shift and give verbal sanction to the change, the
childhood superego has become so much a part of the individual that its
origin in parental standards has become vague. While the parents’ assurance
applies, does aid the adolescent in his attempt to attain a more mature
superego, it does not automatically bring about the shift.
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family, had (except for one episode of serious illness), an unbroken record of
class attendance through high school. This record was highly praised by the
discussing at the time. In spite of her parents’ enthusiasm for this educational
approach, she could not fail to attend daily every class in which she was
enrolled; she indicated she would feel too guilty if she didn’t. As a result she
could not find the time to pursue her independent study. Finally she solved
doing so he frequently first projects that superego, using its original source as
the object against which to rebel—namely, his parents or those he sees as
may reveal some behavior that he has tried to keep hidden from his parents,
insisting they would not let him do it if they knew. A discussion with the
parents may indicate that they would not condemn the act; rather they had
times frightening. The superego provides security, assuring him that his
superego often may be abandoned temporarily and the early standards held
more rigidly than previously. At such times there is a possibility of the
young. Yet statistical studies of college students during the 1960’s did not
represents an actuality. Maybe the mores arc not changing as much as the
young people indicate they are. On the other hand, it is equally possible that
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the mores have changed. If so, to what extent does the acceptance of the
change provide an opportunity for a wish to be expressed unconsciously
secretively and guiltily? Perhaps when the present generation are in their
fifties we will know whether statistics or impressions were correct during
adults and to the adolescent himself at times, it usually does not take a
in the major aspects of the value system remaining intact. Those aspects that
murder!
that would involve a minimal expenditure for living expenses. Each individual
of the group had earned the money for the limited budget they projected. His
that he returned the traveler’s checks to his parents. When the parents’
attempt to persuade and cajole him to accept the checks failed, they became
angry, pointing out they would worry about him and their summer would be
ruined. This created intolerable guilt in him; he almost abandoned the trip
because of the discomfort resulting from the conflict between his ego ideal
and his superego. Fortunately he solved the conflict by telling his friends
about his “neurotic parents,” and by plotting with his friends for a splurge
are often unable to help him wisely in his psychological clumsiness. Part of
what the adolescent seeks are an ego ideal and superego that will incorporate
an occupational role he respects for himself and the training for and
achievement of a work identity that will, through acceptance of obligations,
achieve approval, not punishment, and a place in society for him. High school
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daughter are planning to go to college, the parents should not be concerned if
the young person frequently shifts his or her vocational goals, or appears to
have none; he or she will find that in college. Regardless of the practical
aspects of ability, a beginning college student who has not mapped out his
occupational future is still confused about one aspect of his adult ego ideal
and superego; he has not as yet determined who, vocationally and as a part of
were necessary in his situation as a child, and selectively retain those of value
for all ages. While his selection is facilitated through the wise, not rigid,
counseling of others, the selection must be his if he is to experience a true
self-identity, not just one that is an image in a mirror, the image of someone
else.
Adolescence as Rebirth
The ego ideal and superego do not develop independent of other steps
in psychological growth. They are both the result of, and the stimulus for, that
were not a part of human psychology, clinical evidence suggests that at least
the human species does not abandon the past to start anew, but rather
repeats the old in order, if possible, to find a new answer. During adolescence
the individual seeking a new identity recapitulates the phases of development
typical repetition compulsion, he does so with new tools and with new goals.
To the extent that he mastered any earlier phase, the recapitulation during
adolescence will be more easily handled, other things being equal, than if his
from the past or as the beginning of attainment of the goals for the future. It is
a rebirth in which neither the first birth can be ignored nor the future of the
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typically begins at the time of the spurt in growth and the body changes
associated with prepuberty and puberty. This physical change results in the
piece of glass is a mirror because when we look into it we see a body that is
ours. Imagine what the experience of seeing his reflection would be for a
thirteen-year-old boy, who had not seen himself in a mirror for a year, during
which time he had grown several inches and his body contour had changed.
Actually, in a less dramatic way, the adolescent’s body, because of the typical
body changes, is less familiar to him than in the past. As one boy who had
farsighted; my feet are so far away when I stand up, but I can still see them.”
adolescents of today; during the period of rapid growth the young person is
sufficiently involved in physical activity to coordinate more effectively on the
undermined.
resembles what occurred in the past as the infant began to become aware of
his body. The infant lacked the development that enabled him to handle his
body as he would later. In contrast to the adolescent, the infant did not know
from where he came; he could not recall his fetal state before he had hands,
does know his physical past; he is often proud of the changes he sees in
himself. But he does not necessarily feel at home in this new encasement.
very conscious of his body, both its beauty and its malfunctioning. He is aware
make him an inadequate adult in the framework of his own sex. An example
effeminate. The girl may be concerned because her breasts are not developing
rapidly enough, and she fears she will have a masculine body while she is
value his breast development; the girl may value her “boyish” figure because
it denies her biological femininity. But concern about body development does
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not always indicate pathology.
world, he may revert to the same comfort source that he found gratifying
during infancy. He may overeat in spite of gaining too much weight, or he may
eat foods that he knows the doctors believe cause acne. Food represents to
him comforting that in infancy was provided by others but that he can now
indicated above, if transiently insecure he may handle his longing for the
support found during infancy by eating. He may also be obese or deny the
during early adolescence. She was quite insecure during this period, an
insecurity that appeared related to her confusion about her goals and to
a reducing diet. The latter was very effective, and in about two months she
remain intact. It became clear, however, that her compulsive eating returned
at the time boys in her class changed their response to her. Previously she
had been an asexual friend to them; after she lost weight they sought her as a
“girl friend.” She finally recognized that she had been frightened by this
change in the boys’ attitude. Her sexual conflict, which had aspects of a
conflict deeper than her original insecurity, only then became clear.
become more independent and strives to find his own self in a new form, he
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may overextend himself, or fear that he has.
in his own ability to make decisions and seeks advice from parents or parent
frequently sought is whether to ask a certain girl for a date, what courses to
take the next semester or, by the girl, what dress to wear, or whether her
lipstick is really a good color for her. The normal adolescent, when he seeks
such advice, may become angry with the advice that is given. From the
asked because of anxiety, the fact that advice is given relieves some of the
anxiety; then a new discontent arises. The adolescent does not want to be
for himself as an individual. The only way he can achieve that, in his mind, is
to refuse the advice given. He therefore says the advice is stupid and does the
that important.
If the advice is given it assures him that in times of real stress he can still
independent. The mature adult does not wish to be independent to the extent
that he will not utilize the expertise of others. It is not surprising then that the
at times and seeks in a real or token way people to whom he can turn who are
more experienced and who will offer a helping hand if it is needed.
willing to listen to the adult because he does want external help in sorting out
his confusion; the long-time goals are aspects of his life that he is mulling over
but about which he does not have to make an immediate decision as he would
issues the normal adolescent listens and often stores away what he hears to
think it over in his own secret way, even though on the surface he may seem
to resent the advice and imply that he will do the opposite. Adults who say to
the adolescent asking for advice, “Don’t ask me because you will do as you
please anyway,” may lock a door that should be left open, irrespective of
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Another manifestation of adolescence as a rebirth is the negativism
two year old, negativism plays a significant role in the maturation of the
adolescent. The two year old, as he becomes aware of the strength inherent in
putty; “no” indicates a strength of a solid form. The infant, as lie becomes
aware of his separateness from others, assures himself of a new-found
a child is not the adult identity that he now is seeking, utilizes again the
the maxi skirt became the vogue. It is the new style accepted by the
extremists but questioned by the greater majority of adults that often, if the
protest of the latter is strong enough, provides an immovable object against
beyond high school and apparently deaf to all advice concerning the
will he cling to the identity his negativism provided him with? The answer
within the framework of the mores of the social structure, find more readily a
permitted pathway of expression with the opposite sex. For many reasons
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Western culture does not sanction such a pathway; instead, it complicates the
early discharge of sexual tensions by fostering the ideal that mature sexuality
represents a fusion of a biological urge and the emotional desire to love and
be loved.
preadolescent experience with love as the roots from which the ultimate
of the child prior to adolescence indicate that the fusion, in an immature form,
begins prior to the onset of adolescence. The intensified sexual feelings of the
young adolescent are not yet directed solely toward an heterosexual goal.
They readily become a part of any emotionally invested experience. They
contribute to the intensity with which the young person responds to both
In a desirable family milieu the child’s primary love objects are his
parents; the clearest pathway for expression of fused sexual response and
love is thus the familiar one of love for the parents. Because of the increased
and a child in his own eyes and those of his parents. He thus must deny and
repress the reactivated oedipal wish. He frequently denies it in his emphatic
the parent of the opposite sex. Repression of the wish is not as easily
intensification of positive feelings for the parent of the same sex. This offers a
dual conflict again. To relate in this fashion to a parent of the same sex again
represents a threat of returning to childhood. It also frightens the adolescent
the same sex and resents any implication of a strong emotional tie. The
adolescent vacillates between this and a “man-to-man” or a “woman-to-
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Parents contribute to the intensity of the reactivated oedipal conflict.
The mother finds her son in his good moments a delightful male, and she
utilizes her flirtatious manners that may have become ineffectual with her
long-time mate. She avoids the conflict inherent in such a response to her son
by being “motherly.” When, for example, she kisses him and he protests, her
answer is, “Why won’t you let your mother kiss you?” He probably doesn’t
in a manner that he cannot express it to his male friends, finds with him a
gratifying relationship. The reverse situation exists with a girl; her father
finds her budding femininity stimulating, and he, under the guise of being
“after all her father,” responds warmly to her. She, if needing to deny her
affection for her father, is often quite resistant to his overtures. When she is
not fighting any expression of her affection for her mother, she again provides
the mother with a closeness that the mother does not know with friends.
identity becomes too overpowering and external support is needed. The girl
likewise gains confidence in her femininity from her father’s response. At the
During the adolescent phase many solutions may be tried to resolve the
oedipal tie, solutions that if they were to become a permanent part of the
example, a boy, instead of turning toward his mother, may transiently seek a
girl who will mother him; he may seek a girl who represents only a sexual
object; he may deny any interest in any girl; or he may choose a girl who does
renounce his masculinity, rejecting any identification with his father or any
brief. While this brevity may be evaluated by the adult world as evidence of
fickleness and a lack of investment in any relationship, it may be indicative of
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One of the disquieting manifestations of this attempt to solve the
sex is the harbinger of an ultimate homosexual adult life pattern. In some this
experience.
the confusion of the adolescent as he deals with the increased intensity of his
sexual aims, it is by no means the sole source of sexual conflict. In most
identification with the older person has not assured him that he is the same,
confident he can.
because of his tie to a person of the same sex he worries about homosexuality.
To deny these concerns, he may talk or act out a genital sexual pattern
finds it unsatisfactory or is vaguely aware that the sexual act itself is a mutual
young adolescent girl, for she is often frigid. She interprets this as evidence of
her failure in her feminine sexual identity. The fact that the reproductive
glands do not reach full maturity with the increased functioning at puberty
that part of the difficulty in fulfilling the sexual goals of the young adolescent
is related to this immaturity.
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for genital discharge of sexual tension with anyone of the opposite sex. It is
considered to be attained when love for the sexual partner and sexual
discharge are one. Often the love an adolescent experiences for another
person of the opposite sex is an expression of a need of the young girl or boy
that is not readily melded with sexuality. Possibly such melding cannot occur
until the sexual glands have attained a stable maturity, and emotional needs
interested in his school work, but now he orients it to the reality of his future,
not just to the present. He works out in fantasy many possible roles that he
can play in the social and economic structure when he becomes an adult. He is
into a social philosophy for the future the standards of fair play and
period he often translates his philosophy into thinking about social issues, the
meaning, but inevitably reflect a limited grasp of all the reality implications.
His protest becomes verbal, and he may join with those who with similar
idealistic goals verbalize their feelings, often expressing hostility toward
those whom they consider barriers to the fulfillment of their goals, for
temporarily becomes a source of concern to others and may lead the young
adolescent into activities that are basically incompatible with the philosophy
he is expressing.
often to naive, but sincere concepts. At the same time, however, it is not only
inexperience and the resultant naiveté that energizes the drive toward these
social goals. The drive may be intensified by: the wish to find an area of
to rebel against the symbol of a childhood relationship with his family (at
present the Establishment) in order to establish a confident respect for the
self; or a wish to discharge sexual tension through love for a cause and for
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“Regression” during Adolescence
and defense, and the firm establishment of defenses and adaption against
ego-alien impulses, is described by many as regression in response to the
fashion those goals that were sought in childhood in a childlike way. The
normal adolescent does not have to uncover the unconscious use of childhood
tools; he is experimenting with new tools that may more adequately serve his
needs. Many of the former tools prove of value with or without some
interlaces his multiple needs, wishes, and drives, binding them together with
Resolution of Adolescence
This process occurs throughout adolescence, but during the early phase
He becomes at home in his new body and with his new physiology. This
is facilitated by the completion of the physical and biological growth that has
been initiated by prepuberty and puberty. He has a body image of himself that
represents his external self-concept.
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dependency in the human species.
Hopefully he does not completely abandon his earlier naive attitudes, but
rather exposes them to a rational evaluation that enables him to see their
positive potentials.
himself. His sexual feelings, lacking goal direction in early adolescence, has
his parents without anxiety, accepting them and hopefully being accepted by
them as an adult with virtues and shortcomings. A tie to his parents persists,
well-established through the years of childhood. The tie does not bind, it only
sexual identity as a male (or female). A sense of sexual adequacy relieves the
patterns for himself with the development of familiarity and the acceptance of
his own identity. He clarifies his role in his family of the past and, if married,
part. He has become an adult. Later he may modify or change the roles, but he
will not do so impulsively or confusedly, but only after careful exploration of
the multiple facets of his familiar role and the new one by which he is
tempted.
their naiveté is confronted with the negating aspects of reality, too many
resolve the conflict by repressing the sensitivity and responsiveness rather
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usually considered as pathology, but rather as evidence of growing up. To the
extent that repression instead of maturation of this aspect of adolescence
occurs, to that extent any cultural growth is retarded. That sensitivity and
society from his use of any unusual creativeness he may have solely
forth an adult.
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Notes
[1] Editor’s Note: Some authors distinguish also a juvenile and preadolescent period.
[2] These apparently opposing points of view are summarized in Wiener’s Psychological Disturbance in
Adolescence
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