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Making parenting arrangements
After a separation or change in family situation, it can be hard

to figure out how parents, guardians and whānau (family and
friends) can continue to be part of their child’s life.
It helps if everyone can come to an agreement. This is usually
quicker, cheaper, and less stressful than going to court. It also
means your child doesn’t need to go through the court process.
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Resources and services to help you
Important:
If you or your child are experiencing family violence some of
these services might not be right for you.
Parenting Plan Workbook

This is for parents, guardians* and whānau who are involved in
the day-to-day care of a child, after a change in parenting
arrangements or separation. It helps you think about how your
child will be looked after and what decisions you’ll need to
make.
*A guardian is an adult who is responsible for the upbringing
and care of a child.
• Download the workbook for free: justice.govt.nz/parenting-
plan-workbook
• Have a copy sent to you: freephone the Ministry of Justice
on 0800 224 733
Parenting Through Separation course
This free course helps parents, guardians and whānau
understand their child’s best interests after a separation.
You’ll learn how:
• Sharing child care will work for your whānau

• To write a parenting plan
• Conflict during separation can affect children, so you can
help your child cope with changes
• To get help.
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You can go to this course any time. It’s usually held in small
groups. You won’t have to go to the same group as your ex-
partner (or anyone else involved in the separation).
To find out more about this course:
• Visit justice.govt.nz/parenting-through-separation
• Freephone the Ministry of Justice on 0800 224 733
Family Dispute Resolution mediation service

An independent person or family mediator works with parents,
guardians and whānau to help reach an agreement about a
child’s care after separation.
It’s a useful way to work through issues whānau disagree on,

while focusing on the child. The family mediator won’t force you
to agree to anything or make any decisions for you. They are
trained to help you reach an agreement yourselves, and not
take sides.
You can bring a support person to your
session if everyone taking part agrees.
You should ask the family mediator before
the session.
To find out more about this service:
• Visit justice.govt.nz/family-dispute-resolution
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Cost
This service is free if you qualify for funding. This depends on
your income and how many people rely on you for financial
support. If you don’t qualify for funding, you’ll need to pay
$448.50 per person.
To find out if you qualify for funding:
• Visit justice.govt.nz/family-dispute-resolution-funding
You can get legal advice at any time
It may be helpful to talk to a lawyer when you’re working
through a separation or change in family situation. If you’re not
sure where to start, visit your local Community Law Centre or
communitylaw.org.nz
Applying to the Family Court

If you want to apply to the Family Court for a court order, you’ll
usually need to have gone to a ‘Parenting Through Separation’
course in the last two years and tried ‘Family Dispute
Resolution’ in the last 12 months.
You have the right to feel safe

You can get help if you or someone else feels unsafe:
• If you or someone else is in immediate danger call 111

• Visit justice.govt.nz/family-violence
• Visit areyouok.org.nz
• Freephone ‘Are You OK’ on 0800 456 450
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Where to get support
In your community
Kaiārahi (Family Court Navigators), Family Court Co-ordinators
and court staff can guide you when sorting out parenting
arrangements but cannot give you legal advice. Kaiārahi can
also connect you with community support services in your area.
Contact:
• Visit your local court

• Email kaiarahi@justice.govt.nz
• Freephone the Ministry of Justice on 0800 224 733
Organisations to help you
Citizens Advice Bureau
They help you understand your rights and fill out forms.
• Freephone 0800 367 222
• Visit cab.org.nz
Community Law Centre

They offer free, confidential one-on-one legal help for people
across Aotearoa New Zealand/
• Visit communitylaw.org.nz
Family Services Directory

They have a list of support services that help whānau (family
and friends) across Aotearoa New Zealand. These services
range from housing to counselling.
• Freephone 0800 211 211
• Visit familyservices.govt.nz/directory/
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CCS Disability Action
They provide information and support to people with disabilities
and their whānau (family and friends)
• Freephone 0800 227 200
• Email info@ccsDisabilityAction.org.nz
Counselling
For professional support for mental health, or other personal
issues, contact:
• Need to Talk – Freephone or text 1737 or visit 1737.org.nz
• Lifeline – Freephone 0800 543 354 or text 4357
• Skylight – Freephone 0800 299 100 or visit skylight.org.nz
For children and young people

• What’s Up – Freephone 0800 942 8787
• Youthline – Freephone 0800 376 633 or text 234
If you feel unsafe

• Visit areyouok.org.nz
• Freephone ‘Are You OK’ on 0800 456 450

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Making parenting arrangements

After a separation or change in family situation, it can be hard

Parenting Plan Workbook

• Sharing child care will work for your whānau

Family Dispute Resolution mediation service

It’s a useful way to work through issues whānau disagree on,

To find out if you qualify for funding:

Applying to the Family Court

You have the right to feel safe

• If you or someone else is in immediate danger call 111

• Visit your local court

Community Law Centre

Family Services Directory

For children and young people

If you feel unsafe

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