B00344V2I22015
B00344V2I22015
B00344V2I22015
BACKGROUND:
Interpersonal relationship is the relationship between two or more individuals. Human beings are
gregarious in nature. Though being social is innate nature of mankind,
mankind, life experiences help in
shaping the relationship with others. Developing and maintaining interpersonal relationship is
important for success in life. Interpersonal relationship serves as a base for social support that
plays a crucial role particularly iinn emotionally charged situations. It is also noted that
interpersonal relationship enhances overall wellbeing of man. Goswami(2012)
Goswami studied the
positive and negative quality relationship and wellbeing of children and reported that positive
relationship withh family, neighbourhood and friends increases wellbeing of children, whereas
negative relationships tend to decrease their wellbeing. Among students, relationship determines
their achievement and also relationship encourages performance (Aspelin, 2012).
2012) Interpersonal
relationship predicts emotional distress. Students with high level of interpersonal relationship
showed low level of emotional distress (Kenny, Dooley & Fitzgerald, 2012)
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Assistant Professor, Department of Psychology, Periyar University, Salem, Tamilnadu, India
© 2015 I J Parameswari;; licensee IJIP. This is an Open Access Research distributed under the terms of the Creative
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Interpersonal Relationships among College Students: an Assessment
AIM:
To assess college students’ behavior towards others and their expectation from others.
HYPOTHESES:
RESEARCH METHOD
Sample
A sample of 200 college students were selected through stratified random sampling method from
two colleges in Salem city. The strata used in this study are gender, discipline and order of birth.
Tool used:
From the above table it is seen that there is a significant gender difference in two sub-dimensions
of interpersonal relationship, namely expressed inclusion and wanted control.Bakken and
Romig(1992) in their study reported gender difference in expressed control and wanted affection.
They reported that males showed high preference for expressed control and low preference for
affection, whereas females showed preference for affection and low preference for expressed
control. In the present study, girls show high level of expressed inclusion compared to boys. By
nature girls prefer being in group. They while-away their time discussing or gossiping with their
group. They feel more comfortable in a group than alone. They show their real self in the group
than when they are alone. This may be the reason for their high score in expressed inclusion.
Boys show high preference for wanted control than girls. It is rare for boys to be emotionally
close in their relationship. They have different group of friends to meet their different needs. For
example, boys may have a friend to accompany them for shopping, another friend to guide in
taking important decisions. Boys may not know to effectively use the autonomy given to them.
They need someone to guide them in the right direction. These may be the reasons for their score
in need for wanted control.
The above table makes it clear that there is a significant difference in wanted control between
students of art and science discipline. Students from arts discipline have high need for wanted
control than the students from science discipline. From the secondary school onwards students of
science stream have a defined goal and also have the motive to reach the goal. They work on
their own and know how to attain their goal. Even if they have no concrete goal, their degree will
fetch them a job. But this is not so with the arts discipline students. The students of arts stream
tend to be lethargic and have no concrete plan for their future. This is because they are not sure
of the scope of their subject. Most of the arts students lack the skill to sell their talents.
Therefore, they are in need of guidance in setting goals and taking decisions about their career
especially.
Table 3 shows the difference in interpersonal relationship based on order of birth. It is clear from
the table that there is a significant difference in expressed inclusion and wanted affection
between first born and later born adolescents. First born children show high need for expressed
inclusion than later born children. It is natural for elder children to show concern, attention and
care for younger ones at home. This behavior tend to extend to social settings also.
First born children also show a high need for wanted affection compared to later born children.
Parents tend to show more attention and care to younger child than the elder child, believing that
the elder child can take care of self. At this stage the elder child may feel left out and their need
for affection may increase.
REFERENCES
Kenny, R., Dooley, B., and Fitzgerald, A. (2013).Interpersonal relationships and emotional
distress in adolescence.Journal of Adolescence. 36(2), 351-360.
Schutz, W.C. (1958). FIRO: A three dimensional theory of interpersonal behavior. New York:
Holt, and Winston.
Bakken, L., and Romig, C. (1992). Interpersonal needs in middle adolescents: companionship,
leadership and intimacy. Journal of Adolescence. 15(3), 301-316.