Stroebe Dual Process Model
Stroebe Dual Process Model
Stroebe Dual Process Model
Overload
Stroebe, Margaret; Schut, Henk
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Abstract
The Dual Process Model of Coping with Bereavement (DPM) was put forward as a
framework to help understand reactions to the death of a loved person. Since its
inception, there have been various developments and further specifications regard-
ing the model’s parameters. A number of researchers have assessed the model’s
contribution and put some of its parameters to empirical test. It has also been
applied in clinical practice. Despite generally positive assessment among both sci-
entific and applied communities, we recently discovered what we consider to be a
major shortcoming. The concept of overload has been neglected. Incorporation of
this feature helps explain the preponderance of mental and physical health prob-
lems beyond the previous DPM focus on complications of grief. In this article, we
incorporate the phenomenon of overload within the original framework, illustrat-
ing its application, and we discuss broader implications for coping and adaptation to
bereavement.
Keywords
grief, bereavement, dual process model, overload, burnout, health consequences
1
Department of Clinical & Health Psychology, Utrecht University, Utrecht, The Netherlands
2
Department of Clinical Psychology & Experimental Psychopathology, University of Groningen, Groningen,
The Netherlands
Corresponding Author:
Margaret Stroebe, Department of Clinical & Health Psychology, Utrecht University, Heidelberglaan 1,
3508 TC, Utrecht, The Netherlands.
Email: m.s.stroebe@uu.nl
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patients or clients, e.g., Lyckholm, 2001). Therefore, in this article, after sum-
marizing the main parameters of the original DPM, we describe the extension to
the original rationale and description, to include the phenomenon of overload
and its implications for coping with bereavement and the range of health-related
consequences.
Figure 1. Dual process model of coping with bereavement (Stroebe & Schut, 1999).
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Loss orientation (LO) refers to the bereaved person’s focus on aspects of the
loss experience itself, including the process of confronting, trying to accept the
fact of loss, reminiscing about the deceased person, and visiting the burial place
to remain close to him or her. As such, they encompass the ‘‘grief work’’ concept
of earlier theories (e.g., Bowlby, 1980; Freud, 1917/1957), the notion that one
must confront the reality of loss in order to adapt to it and move on (cf. Stroebe,
1992). Many decades ago, Parkes (1972) caught the essence of grief work, pin-
pointing the preoccupation with thoughts of the lost person, the painful repeti-
tious recollection of the loss experience, and the repeated attempts to make sense
of the loss. Grief work can probably be well understood as the essence of griev-
ing; it is incorporated in loss-oriented coping, where the bond with the deceased
person also features prominently. LO not only occurs on an individual but also
on an interpersonal level (for details, see Stroebe & Schut, 2015). Bereaved
persons do not typically grieve alone; for example, the death of a loved
person leaves the family as a whole to grieve. On one hand, family members
may support each other through their grief, but on the other hand, they may also
at times experience difficulties associated grieving alongside each other.
Restoration orientation (RO) refers to the secondary stressors that are asso-
ciated with the occurrence of a bereavement. These hassles do not relate directly
to the loss of the person per se but come about as an indirect result of it. They
include reorientation in a world that has changed in many ways due to the death.
Many aspects of one’s daily life may need to be rethought and planned afresh.
To illustrate, it may be essential to relocate to less expensive living quarters, or
go out to work, to earn an income lost due to the death of the breadwinner; or to
seek help with upbringing and home care of children, had the deceased partner
been the primary caregiver. And just as there are interpersonal aspects in LO
coping, so does RO encompass such aspects too (e.g., family-level decision-
making regarding relocation). RO as well as LO are sources of stress, associated
with emotional consequences such as distress and anxiety, as well as other
mental and physical health ramifications.
According to the DPM, both LO and RO are part of the grieving process; one
needs to attend to each orientation in order to adjust to a world in which the
loved person is no longer physically present. This brings us to a feature of the
DPM which is one of its most distinctive, namely, the notion of oscillation.
Oscillation is a dynamic, regulatory coping process, based on the principle,
indicated earlier, that the bereaved person will at times (have to—in order to
come to terms with the bereavement) confront aspects of loss (deal with LO
stressors), while at other times he or she will (have to) avoid them. The same
applies to restoration (RO) tasks: At times, these need to be attended to (at
which times LO coping cannot take place) and this goes hand-in-hand with
avoidance of RO at other times too. But one cannot cope the whole time, it is
exhausting to do so a lot of the time; time off is needed, where nonbereavement-
related activities are followed or when the person simply relaxes and recuperates.
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Life goes on, and this, in and of itself, can at times be quite beneficial and
healing. The components described earlier combine to make coping with
bereavement—according to the DPM—a complex regulatory process of con-
frontation and avoidance.
A feature of the DPM that is central to identifying the overload missing link is
its integration of forms of complicated grief. The original DPM-enabled place-
ment of previously established types labeled as chronic, as well as absent,
delayed or inhibited grief, following the early categorization of complications
described, for example, by Lindemann (1944) and Parkes and Weiss (1983).
Chronic grief refers to the long-lasting presence of symptoms of intense grief,
associated with an absence of progress in coming to terms with loss, and can be
understood as a loss-oriented syndrome, the focus being quite exclusively on the
lost relationship and continued attachment to the deceased person. Chronic grief
is similar to Prigerson’s prolonged grief construct (cf. Prigerson & Jacobs, 2001).
By contrast, absent, inhibited, or delayed grief is more controversial and is
typified as being overly restoration-oriented, characterized as it is by persistent
avoidance of confrontation with the reality of death, tenacious efforts to carry
on as normal, perhaps by plunging back into work, and by dealing with the
secondary (indirect) changes that have occurred due to the death. In both of
these types of complicated grief—loss-oriented and restoration-oriented—reac-
tions are understood to be extreme, with extensive focus on one and avoidance
of the other orientation—and possibly, little time off taken for respite and recu-
peration (e.g., chronic grief may be dominant and pervasive most of the time).
We also described a different type of complication, associated with the oscil-
lation process. Traumatic bereavements may cause difficulties in alternating
smoothly (less balanced or controlled or coherent) between the LOs and ROs
(and in taking time off). While we are describing a coping process, not patterns
of symptoms, this disturbed process can perhaps be understood in the context of
the diagnostic criteria for posttraumatic stress disorder, namely, intrusion-
avoidance symptomatology (cf. American Psychiatric Association, 2013; see
also Horowitz, 1986).
Stressor Overload
In principle, within the DPM framework, it would not be difficult to inventorize
multiple LO and RO stressors and assess the subjective feelings of overload
associated with them. The weighing scales depicted in Figure 2 illustrate this.
Overload as depicted here involves too much to deal with on the loss-oriented
side.3 If more than one bereavement occurs simultaneously or in quick
succession, it may be difficult to grieve for the different losses at the same time.
However, overload can also derive from experiencing too many restoration
stressors. Interpersonal difficulties (e.g., quarrels and disagreements) may con-
tribute to a feeling of overload. Furthermore, too many stressors may occur in
both loss and restoration categories (e.g., multiple bereavements combined with
financial and rehousing consequences). Finally, making it even more multifa-
ceted—loss- or restoration-oriented overload may be augmented by an overload
of things that have nothing to do with the bereavement, either directly or indir-
ectly (e.g., extraneous to bereavement demands on one’s time; too much to do at
one’s workplace). An example in the last category is the occurrence of a relative
becoming seriously ill and needing time-consuming care, leaving little time for
grief and grieving. An even more complex possibility comes to mind: The occur-
rence of positive experiences at the same time during the loss of a loved one (e.g.,
the case of twin birth, where one twin lives, while the other dies); it would seem
very hard to make and break a bond at one and the same time. These alternative
possibilities for experiencing overload are placed in the traditional DPM frame-
work (Figure 3).
process may not be an adequate description of how bereaved people deal with
overload. It may not make a lot of difference to adaptation if one simply
switches from one source of stress to another. If a person experiences stressor
overload, taking action to gain control over the overload would seem necessary.
How does one go about this? Different lines of research give clues. One line of
thinking involves the concept of the bereaved person becoming directive in order
to gain control regarding the stressors. The work of Dyregrov and Dyregrov
(e.g., 2008) is relevant. They describe what they call openness, an assertion of
personal needs
This word implied sincerity, honesty and direct speech, so that to a large extent it
was a matter of giving clear signals to their surroundings . . . such signals were an
important means of informing others of what had happened, how they were feeling,
the type of support needs they had and how others best could support them.
(Dyregrov & Dyregrov, p. 118)
Figure 4. Grief complications and the missing link in the DPM: Additional effects of
overload.
associated with the complex, varied reactions descriptive of burnout (e.g., nega-
tive attitudes to work/life, chronic fatigue/depletion of energy, disparagement of
self/others, cynicism, sense that nothing really matters, helplessness/
hopelessness).
So integration of overload in the DPM actually enables representation of
consequences beyond grief complications, some of which we already know
to be associated with loss of a loved person, and at least one other that has
not, to our knowledge, yet been highlighted.
Conclusions
To summarize, overload is a concept familiar in organizational psychology (role,
job, and work overload), but it has been largely neglected in the field of bereave-
ment research, neither being incorporated within the original DPM nor—to our
knowledge—within any other model of coping with this stressful life event. The
identification of this missing link does not negate the importance of the original
premises of the DPM but rather adds to the model’s scope. While we had ori-
ginally argued the case for inclusion of two types of stressor, loss- and restora-
tion-oriented, we now not only describe the need to attend to each of these but
also draw attention to the possibility that such stressors may accumulate in a
way that is too much to manage. We had originally also given little attention to
everyday life stressors; after all, nonbereaved persons experience these as well,
they are not special to bereavement. However, once one considers the possibility
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of overload, these become particularly salient too. The fact that one has a
demanding job may be manageable under normal circumstances but may be
overwhelming when bereavement occurs.
Likewise, we had originally argued the case for oscillation between the two
types of stressor. Extension to include the possibility of overload suggests that it
may not be enough to regulate emotions, dealing at times with loss, at times with
restoration, and also at times taking time off. While such oscillation remains
fundamental, what is essential in the case of overload is control over the stres-
sors—efforts need to be made to reduce their impact. A number of ways have
been suggested (building on earlier approaches) as to how bereaved people can
profitably go about dealing with them. In our view, Dyregrov and Dyregrov’s
(2008) concept of openness is a viable suggestion for addressing overload, as
indicated earlier. The bereaved person can be encouraged to be direct, frank, and
honest about his or her needs; supporters need to learn to listen, understand, and
respond appropriately. While in practice it may not always be so simple, it is not
hard to see how a strategy of openness could help a bereaved person to say no,
controlling his or her level of burdens and more effectively managing to cope
with the different types of stressors.
The nature of stressors causing overload in bereavement needs to be more
finely worked out. Perhaps one can begin to understand the nature of stressors
and overload by inventorizing a bereaved person’s perception of what he or she
has currently to deal with, and whether he or she feels able to cope with these.
(Leading questions could be: ‘‘Was there anything that happened to you recently
that felt like it ‘‘broke the camel’s back?’’. The list (either generated by the
person or from a stressor list derived from personal and professional reports,
compiled by the investigator) could include the various types of stressors illu-
strated earlier and assessment of their impact. Adding questions such as the
Dyregrovs’ ‘‘what has helped you the most to cope with your difficult situation?’’
should lead to better understanding of effective coping strategies (putting our
DPM propositions to the test).
Finally, we need to evaluate the impact of bereavement over time in terms not
only to do with complications in grieving itself but also relating to the broader
range of mental and physical health (and other) consequences that may be spe-
cific to overload. Revision of the DPM to include the concept of overload makes
it a more comprehensive taxonomy of what bereaved persons have to deal with,
describing a broader range of effective ways that they can go about dealing
with them, and deeper understanding of the difficulties experienced in adapting
to loss.
Notes
1. This definition is compatible with CST terminology (Lazarus & Folkman, 1984), in
which the definition of overload would be along the lines of appraisal that the
demands of the situation massively exceed one’s resources.
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Funding
The author(s) received no financial support for the research, authorship, and/or publica-
tion of this article.
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Author Biographies
Margaret Stroebe, is professor at both the Department of Clinical and Health
Psychology, Utrecht University, and the Department of Clinical Psychology and
Experimental Psychopathology, University of Groningen, The Netherlands. She
has specialized in the field of bereavement research for many years. With Henk
Schut she developed the Dual Process Model of Coping with Bereavement. Her
book publications include ‘‘Bereavement in Later Life: Coping, Attachment,
and Developmental Influences’’ (2007) with Robert Hansson. Most recently
she has edited ‘‘Complicated Grief: Scientific Foundations for Health Care
Professionals’’ (with Henk Schut and Jan van den Bout). Her honors include
an Honorary Doctorate from the University of Louvain-la-Neuve, Belgium, the
Scientific Research Award of the American Association of Death Education and
Counseling, in the U.S.A., and the title in 2011 of Officer of the Order of Orange
Nassau, in the Netherlands.