Fall in Love Stay in Love It Will Decide Everything
Fall in Love Stay in Love It Will Decide Everything
Fall in Love Stay in Love It Will Decide Everything
A great mystery solved! Bart Geger, S.J.,1 reveals the author of the Arrupe
prayer, “Fall in love, stay in love, it will decide everything,” is actually former provincial
and author Joe Whelan, S.J. (1932-1994). 2 On hearing Joe penned the prayer, I
wondered if he had been influenced by the thought of Jesuit Bernard Lonergan (1904-
Years ago, I gave a talk for a meeting of Wisconsin province Jesuits and threw in
a few ideas from Lonergan. After the talk, a friend, using my nickname, said, “Mugs.
Really, Lonergan is more accessible than most realize. Ignatian disciples can
benefit greatly by having some familiarity with the basic ideas and broad outline of
manageable. Hint: start with Method, or even better, his eight-page essay, “Dialectic of
Early in my Jesuit life I read Insight, and understood a little of it. But it was in the
slow, deep reading of Method in Theology, and in writing an S.T.L. thesis on Lonergan
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and Sobrino, that I began to incorporate into my life and practice of Ignatian Spirituality
Studying Lonergan gives us a better grasp of who and why and how we are as
human persons, connected to and moving toward realization in the mystery and love of
neighbor and of God. Lonergan’s work provides an owner’s manual for the human
person. His analysis reveals how our minds and hearts actually work. He
demonstrates how our living can be intelligently charted, and vastly improved, by
Know what it is to know, and you will know what it is you are doing when you are
choosing to be the person you truly, and deeply, desire to be. As scientific method has
revolutionized the world by methodically doing science, so too Lonergan hopes that
conversion processes on intellectual, moral, and religious levels of our being. Such
and groups will make for a world of peace and progress. Lack of conversion, denial of
transcendence and rejection of authenticity, on the part of individuals and groups, will
Lonergan describes a normative pattern for realizing our potential as those who
are being fashioned to live with God forever. He describes the interior movements of
our minds, hearts, and souls. He realizes that cultural shifts from classical to historical
Fans of Lonergan call him a philosopher for the ages. He has discerned a trans-
temporal, trans-cultural pattern that exists in all human persons. In all times and
places, in all communities and cultures, all human persons’ experience, strive to
make choices and decide courses of action based on those judgements. Deep within
human, on personal and communal levels. I would add, we are called to be creative,
makes for progress. 7 Refusing to be faithful to the transcendental precepts makes for
decline. For we can fool ourselves, ignore our experience, muddle our understanding
with bias, both personal and social, and choose to live according to unreasonable
judgments.
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Conversions lead to our becoming more and more authentic persons. Refusal or
happy, healthy, holy, and free. Think of saints. Think of the ending of slavery. Think
global climate change. Living authentically means progress is more probable on the
unauthentically makes progress stall, and moves us, our communities, our societies,
and community. Decline follows the trashing of truth, the rejection of responsibility,
and the death grip of gross greed. When things fall apart, we need to recover the
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Lonergan describes the crises and the solution. He writes, “Finally, the divided
community, their conflicting actions, and the messy situation are headed for disaster.
For the messy situation is diagnosed differently by the divided community; action is
ever more at cross purposes; and the situation becomes still messier to provoke still
sharper differences in diagnosis and policy, more radical criticism of one another’s
actions, and an ever deeper crisis in the situation.” 8 The solution, according to
and living in true and loving freedom. We are invited to co-operate with “that love of
God above all and in all [that] so embraces the order of the universe as to love all men
(sic) with a self-sacrificing love.”9 We are called to cooperate with God, and respond to
Following Lonergan’s method will form communities that improve the human
states cannot function. ... There are needed, then, individuals and groups and, in the
modern world, organizations that labor to persuade people to intellectual, moral and
Lonergan’s method reveals values. The more we are faithful to the demands of
values inherent in our human being, i.e., the realities of truth, justice, goodness and
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love, the more we move toward fulfillment in God. The more we truncate truth with
lies, undermine good with evil, and violate love with selfishness and sin, the more we
rescind from our horizon as those destined to live in joy with God forever.
The way forward lies not in dictating dogmas or decimating opponents with
sound bites and terrifying tweets. Reinstating progress lies in the loving call to be our
respond. For example, “Religion... in an era of crisis has to think less of issuing
commands and decrees and more of fostering the self-sacrificing love that alone is
capable of providing the solution to the evil of decline…”13 The church should be a
Himself a philosopher and theologian who prized and privileged the power of the
intellect, Lonergan also reflected a great deal about the realities of emotion. His
deepening realization of the transformative power of the Holy Spirit to convert and
change us (Rom 5:5), our communities and our world, led him to preach that being-in-
love with God is the point and meaning of our existence as human persons.
lyrically writes:
That capacity becomes an actuality when one falls in love. Then one’s
being becomes being-in-love. Such being-in-love has its antecedents, it
causes, its conditions, its occasions. But once it has blossomed forth, and
as long as it lasts, it takes over. … From it flow one’s desires and fears,
one’s joys and sorrows, one’s discernment of values, one’s decisions, and
deed 14
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That sounds a lot like the Arrupe prayer to me. I bet Joe Whelan read Lonergan.
Anyway, Joe’s book, Benjamin, is an essay in mystical theology. And Irish Jesuit
William Johnston, who also writes on prayer and mysticism, informs us that he visited
Lonergan shortly before the great man’s death. Johnston suggested that Lonergan’s
method “culminates in mystical experience. Lonergan smiled and said, ‘Yes, yes!’” 15
and reaches beyond us to others, and to the reality of God. In Insight he writes: Our
answers.”16 Our desires make us those who “endeavor to enter into the mystical
pattern of experience.” 17 Our deep desire to know is actually a deep desire for God.
[S]o, being in love with God is the basic fulfilment of our conscious
intentionality. That fulfilment brings a deep-set joy that can remain despite
humiliation, failure, privation, pain, betrayal, desertion. That fulfilment
brings a radical peace, the peace the world cannot give. That fulfilment
bears fruit in a love of one’s neighbor that strives mightily to bring about the
kingdom of God on this earth. 18
Alleluia!
Endnotes
1
Bart T. Geger. S.J., “Ten Things that St. Ignatius Never Said or Did,” in Studies in the Spirituality of the
Jesuits, 50/1, Spring 2018.
2
Joseph Whelan, S.J., Benjamin: Essays in Prayer (Newman Press, 1972).
3
It is quite probable the Joe Whelan read Lonergan’s lines on being in love. Lonergan’s “being- in-love”
paragraph appears not only in Method in Theology (1972, p.105), but also in Lonergan’s Feb. 1970 talk
at St. Louis University, “The Response of the Jesuit as Priest and Apostle in the Modern World.” That
talk was published in Studies in Jesuit Spirituality, Sept 1970. Vol 2/3. cf. Bernard J.F. Lonergan, A
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Second Collection (Philadelphia, the Westminster Press, 1974), p. 171. It’s hard to imagine Joe didn’t
read that issue of studies).
4
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., “Dialectic of Authority,” in A Third Collection: Papers by Bernard Lonergan
(Mahwah, NY: Paulist Press, 1985), pp. 5-12.
5
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (Toronto: University of Toronto Press, 2003 [orig. 1971]),
P. 76.
6
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (Toronto: University of Toronto Press, 2003 [orig. 1971]),
p. 20.
7
Tad Dunne, Lonergan and Spirituality: Towards Spiritual Integration (Chicago, IL: Loyola University Press,
1985), pp. 115-116.
8
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (Toronto: University of Toronto Press, 2003 [orig. 1971]),
p. 358.
9
Bernard J.F. Lonergan, S.J., Insight: A Study of Human Understanding (San Francisco, CA: Harper& Row,
1957), p. 699.
10
Bernard J.F. Lonergan, S.J., Insight: A Study of Human Understanding (San Francisco, CA: Harper&Row,
1957), p. 719; 721-723.
11
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (Toronto: University of Toronto Press, 2003 [orig. 1971]),
p.361.
12
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (Toronto: University of Toronto Press, 2003 [orig. 1971]),
p. 357.
13
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., “Dialectic of Authority,” in A Third Collection: Papers by Bernard Lonergan,
(Mahwah, NY: Paulist Press, 1985), pp. 10-11.
14
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (New York, Seabury Press, 1972), p 105.
15
William Johnston, S.J., Mystical Theology: the Science of Love (London: HarperCollinsReligious, 1995). p.
12.
16
Bernard J.F. Lonergan, S.J., Insight: A Study of Human Understanding (San Francisco, CA: Harper& Row,
1957), p. 736.
17
Bernard J.F. Lonergan, S.J., Insight: A Study of Human Understanding (San Francisco, CA: Harper& Row,
1957), p. 736.
18
Bernard J. F. Lonergan, S.J., Method in Theology (New York, Seabury Press, 1972), p 105.