Reflexive Pronoun
Reflexive Pronoun
Reflexive Pronoun
A reflexive pronoun is a pronoun used as an object that refers to the same person or thing as the
subject. For example, the word herself is a reflexive pronoun in the sentence Nina loves herself
because it refers to the same person as the subject Nina; Nina loves Nina.
We use reflexive pronouns when the object of a verb or preposition is the same as the subject of
the sentence:
Becky introduced herself. (The person that Becky introduced was Becky. Becky is both
the performer and the receiver of the action.)
The puppy looked at himself in the mirror. (The thing that the puppy looked at was the
puppy. The puppy is both the subject of the sentence and the object of the preposition.)
Themself
The word themself is sometimes used in nonstandard English as a variant of the word themselves
or as a reflexive version of the word they as a singular pronoun to neutrally refer to a person. For
example,
The people can speak for themself. (Themself is used instead of themselves.)
The shy child sat by themself. (The child’s gender is unknown or not relevant.)
However, the word themself is also used to refer to a person who identifies as nonbinary. Using
themself in this context is perfectly acceptable:
Harley expressed themself through their poetry.
It is important to use the correct pronouns to refer to a person.
Standard usage
Each reflexive pronoun corresponds to a personal pronoun. The reflexive pronoun refers to the
same person or thing that its personal pronoun does. Each of the commonly used reflexive
pronouns are listed below:
myself: me (the speaker or the writer)
yourself: you as a singular (another single person besides the speaker/writer)
itself: it (a thing or an animal)
himself: him (a male person or animal)
herself: her (a female person or animal)
ourselves: us (the speaker/writer and other people together)
yourselves: you as a plural (other people besides the speaker/writer)
themselves: them (a group of people, animals, or objects)
themself: them as a singular (see the usage explanation above.)
If you are unsure which reflexive pronoun to use, think about what the subject is and what
personal pronoun you would use if they were the object of the sentence and someone or
something else was performing the action:
The mother squirrel hid ____ in the tree branches.
In the above sentence, we know the subject is the mother squirrel but we are unsure which
reflexive pronoun to use. Let’s consider which personal pronoun the mother squirrel would use if
it was the object of a different sentence:
I fed acorns to the mother squirrel.
I fed acorns to her.
Because the mother squirrel refers to a female animal, we replace this noun phrase with the
pronoun her. The reflexive pronoun that corresponds to her is herself. So, we can go back to our
original sentence and plug herself into it:
The mother squirrel hid herself in the tree branches.
Nonstandard usage
As mentioned earlier, we do not typically use reflexive pronouns as the subjects of sentences or
clauses. Typically, it is only possible to do this using the passive voice and even then the
sentence will often sound confusing or nonsensical: