A To Z Parenting by Parenting Coach - Sidhika Goenka

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A-Z of Parenting Series

A- Always Appreciate little things in


life…!

B- The most precious thing is blessing of


parents, So Bless your child, bless
your surroundings, ask god for lots of
blessings.

C- Celebrate the little things in life,


have fun, celebrate with joy and
happiness.
D- Delegate responsibility to your child
so that they can be independent,
confident.

E- Energize your child with positive


thoughts early in the morning.

F- Filter what you say to your child;


eventually your child will listen to
you.

G- Greet your children with smile, love,


hugs & positivity.

H- Hear your child’s verbal and non-


verbal cues as well.
I- Keep forming your child’s Identity
even if they grow old.

J- Make your child so strong that they


can learn to overcome the bullies
and laugh it out…!

K- Kiss your child every day.


It makes them secure, stable, and
confident.

L- Make your child strong so that they


learn to laugh at themselves.

M- Emphasize only 5 manners which


you feel are important to them.
N- Precondition your child to here a
“NO” from you.

O- Every day have One-on-one with


your children.

P- Set a Password together so that you


can be closer and open in front of
them.

Q- Quoting what your child said in an


angry or in upset mood is the worst
thing you can do to your child.
e.g.: yesterday your child was in
bad mood and said “mamma
you’re the worst mother, or I don’t
love you, mamma, I hate you…!”

R- When you React your child will start


reacting more…so wait think and
then respond
e.g.: if your child wants a new toy…
You will immediately react that
“stop behaving like that… Stop
behaving as an animal, I will get the
ball for you sometime.”

S- Teach your child to lose gracefully.


e.g.: if you are competitive and you
say “Yes... I won the game, that
teaches your child to be
competitive. Low down your
competitiveness…!”

T- Take your time to do things. It’s not


important to do everything in one
day.

U- Understand what your child is going


through…!
e.g.: your child is lying constantly, so
you don’t have to react
immediately, wait understand and
think why your child is lying all the
time…!

V- The strength and encouragement


that you give to your children they
are going to give it back to
themselves as inner Voice.
e.g.: I heard my daughter saying to
her didi that “didi I don’t think I can
do this” so her didi replied “you can
do it, you just have you believe in
yourself”
This is how the voice travels.

W- Keep Writing the important events


that happen in your and your child’s
life.

X- Teach your child to unlearn the old


methods of Xpressing and express
through different ways.
e.g.: when children want something,
they are angry; they are hurt they
cry, when they fall they cry. Now
they have to express through words.

Y- Think when you say “no” … The no


that you have said were really
required? Did you need to say no?
e.g.: no colour inside the line, no
the sun has to be yellow, no the
trees have to be green…
Let your child make a pink sky… with
his own experience they will
eventually start coloring
accordingly.
Z- Live your life with Zeal, motivation
and enthusiasm. 

Encourage and Support your kids because children


are apt to live up to what you believe in them.
About the Author

Sidhika Goenka is a parenting coach and a certified positive discipline parent


educator. With a Master’s degree in Counseling and Counselor education from
Indiana University, Bloomington, USA, Sidhika has been in the field of education,
mental health and training since the last 15 years.

As a strengths-focused psychologist Sidhika works with mental health, self-


esteem, personality development and growth instilling valuable communication
tips and tricks, classroom management and personality development courses to
schools and colleges.

Being a mother of 3, Sidhika understands the importance of time-management,


handling different children and maintaining a balance in your personal,
professional and social life.
Contact for more info:

Visit : www.sidhikagoenka.com
Email: sidhikaempoweringyou@gmail.com
Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sidhikaempoweringyou/
WHY EMPOWERING YOU??

Children give immense joy and happiness but with parenting comes enormous
responsibility and commitment. Since generations parenting has never been taught, it
has always been an on-the-job training, but that has led to incompetence,
dissatisfaction and frustration. Experts today understand that like other subjects and
fields of education, Parenting is also an area of knowledge that needs to be
delivered to aspiring parents. With today’s insurmountable needs, pressures and
demands of individuals, it has become crucial to raise strong, independent,
emotionally secure and resilient children who can handle failure with grace and
navigate through life with satisfaction and ease. We as parents are constantly fighting
tooth and nail to give the very best to our children. But even after having everything,
there are times where we feel lost, and confused. At times like these, parenting
courses that help you understand your child’s behavior and update you with scientific
techniques come to your rescue. Each child and each parent is unique, and what
works for one, may not work for the other. Hence, the key to satisfied parenting is to
upgrade your techniques, understand your child and yourself and seek assistance to
best suit you and your child. This realization is what gave birth to Empowering You,
where Ms. Sidhika Goenka felt for empowered children, empowered parents are the
key!
Contact for more info:

Visit : www.sidhikagoenka.com
Email: sidhikaempoweringyou@gmail.com
Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sidhikaempoweringyou/

Thank You

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