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    This document provides an exercise for clients to work on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. The goals are to help clients understand how childhood trauma may have led to relationship issues and addictive behaviors, and to gain insight into establishing boundaries. The therapist should discuss boundaries with the client before the exercise to ensure understanding and cultural sensitivity. The client then lists people, situations, and behaviors where boundaries are difficult or easy to set, and reflects on how to apply effective strategies consistently.

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    This document provides an exercise for clients to work on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. The goals are to help clients understand how childhood trauma may have led to relationship issues and addictive behaviors, and to gain insight into establishing boundaries. The therapist should discuss boundaries with the client before the exercise to ensure understanding and cultural sensitivity. The client then lists people, situations, and behaviors where boundaries are difficult or easy to set, and reflects on how to apply effective strategies consistently.

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    This document provides an exercise for clients to work on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. The goals are to help clients understand how childhood trauma may have led to relationship issues and addictive behaviors, and to gain insight into establishing boundaries. The therapist should discuss boundaries with the client before the exercise to ensure understanding and cultural sensitivity. The client then lists people, situations, and behaviors where boundaries are difficult or easy to set, and reflects on how to apply effective strategies consistently.

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    Setting and Maintaining Boundaries

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    This document provides an exercise for clients to work on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. The goals are to help clients understand how childhood trauma may have led to relationship issues and addictive behaviors, and to gain insight into establishing boundaries. The therapist should discuss boundaries with the client before the exercise to ensure understanding and cultural sensitivity. The client then lists people, situations, and behaviors where boundaries are difficult or easy to set, and reflects on how to apply effective strategies consistently.

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    The passage discusses setting and maintaining healthy personal boundaries, including understanding boundaries, identifying people or situations where boundaries are difficult, and strategies for improvement.

    The goals of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries include learning from past trauma, resolving family issues, gaining self-esteem and confidence, and finding balance in relationships.

    Examples of situations where boundaries may be difficult include with family members, in romantic relationships, and with peers.

    Therapists Overview

    SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES

    GOALS OF THE EXERCISE


    1. Learn how childhood trauma may have resulted in interpersonal problems and addictive behavior patterns. Resolve past childhood/family issues leading to less fear, anger, and depression and greater self-esteem and confidence. Gain an understanding of personal power to set boundaries for oneself and the right to protect oneself emotionally and physically. Learn to find balance and flexibility regarding roles or boundaries in relationships.

    2. 3. 4.

    ADDITIONAL PROBLEMS FOR WHICH THIS EXERCISE MAY BE USEFUL


    Adult-Child-of-an-Alcoholic (ACOA) Traits Borderline Traits Dangerousness/Lethality Dependent Traits Family Conflicts Parent-Child Relational Problems Partner Relational Conflict Peer Group Negativity Sexual Promiscuity Social Anxiety

    SUGGESTIONS FOR PROCESSING THIS EXERCISE WITH CLIENT


    The Setting and Maintaining Boundaries activity should be preceded by a discussion to ensure the client understands the concept of boundaries in relationships and to probe what he/she considers healthy, keeping cultural considerations in mind when examining norms and mores with the client. When a client has a clear, functional goal, this exercise is useful in conducting a relationship inventory and identifying areas for

    growth. Follow-up can include planning strategies for difficult situations described in work on this activity and sharing those plans with the therapist, treatment group, and program sponsor.

    EXERCISE VIII.B

    SETTING AND MAINTAINING BOUNDARIES

    When we have healthy personal boundaries, we can accept positive people and actions in our lives, but protect ourselves from those that are harmful. In trying to protect ourselves, we may have learned not to trust anyone or allow anyone to get close emotionally. On the other hand, in our search for love and acceptance we may have made ourselves too vulnerable and let others hurt us too easily. Healthy boundaries let us choose whom to trust, how far to trust them, and what actions to accept from them. We also learn to respect the boundaries of others in what we do or say to them. 1. List some people with whom you have difficulty setting or maintaining healthy boundaries, along with situations where you have trouble with them, and what the results have been. Person Affected Situation What Happens How You Are

    2.

    If there are people, situations, or actions about which you are able to set and maintain healthy boundaries, please list them here. Person Situation Action or Behavior

    3.

    Why do you think you are able to set and maintain boundaries with the people, situations, or actions on the second list, but not with those on the first list?

    EXERCISE VIII.B

    4.

    How can you use the same methods that work with the second list for the people, situations, or actions on the first list, or use other methods to get the same healthy results?

    5.

    What changes would you like to make in your boundaries to help you live a healthy life?

    6.

    What do you need to do to make these changes?

    7.

    What will you do if others resist accepting your boundaries?

    Be sure to bring this handout back to your next session with your therapist, and be prepared to talk about your thoughts and feelings about the exercise.

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