Grade 11 Lesson 1

Embracing Your True Worth

"For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus

to do good works, which God prepared in advance
for us to do."
- Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)

Objectives
1. Understand the concept of embracing true worth and its significance in
personal growth and well-being.
2. Recognize the factors that may hinder individuals from embracing their true
worth.
3. Explore biblical principles that affirm the inherent value and worth of every
individual.
4. Learn practical strategies to cultivate a positive self-perception and embrace
one's true worth.

Introduction
True worth means recognizing and appreciating your value as a unique creation of
God. It goes beyond external accomplishments, appearances, and comparisons with
others. Embracing your true worth involves understanding that you are fearfully and
wonderfully made, with a purpose that God designed specifically for you.
Throughout this lesson, we will explore how to recognize and embrace your true
worth, drawing insights from biblical principles and practical strategies.

Look into It!

1. Recognizing and Appreciating Strengths, Talents, and Qualities

Embracing true worth involves recognizing and appreciating your inherent

strengths, talents, and qualities. It means acknowledging your unique attributes
and abilities that make you who you are. However, many individuals struggle with
self-recognition and appreciation, often focusing on their perceived shortcomings
and comparing themselves to others.

Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV): “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together
in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made
your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”
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This biblical passage beautifully illustrates the concept of being fearfully and
wonderfully made by God. It emphasizes that God created each individual with
great care and intentionality, intricately shaping them in their mother's womb.
Understanding this profound truth allows individuals to shift their focus from
external comparisons and criticisms to appreciating the unique masterpiece that
they are in the eyes of God.

By acknowledging and celebrating their strengths, talents, and qualities, individuals

can build self-confidence and develop a more positive self-image. This self-
assurance enables them to face life's challenges with resilience and navigate
uncertainties with greater conviction. Embracing your true worth also involves
recognizing that imperfections and flaws are a part of being human and do not
define your overall value.

Discussion Questions:

1. What are some factors that may hinder individuals from recognizing their
strengths and appreciating their qualities?
Suggested Answer: Factors such as low self-esteem, negative self-talk, past
failures, and societal pressure to conform to certain standards may hinder
individuals from recognizing and appreciating their unique strengths and
qualities.

2. How does understanding that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God
impact our perception of self-worth?
Suggested Answer: Recognizing that we are God's handiwork instills a sense
of purpose and significance in our lives. It reminds us that our worth is not
based on superficial factors or the opinions of others, but on God's intentional
and loving design for each individual. This understanding helps individuals
develop a deeper appreciation for their unique qualities and find value in
their God-given identity.

2. Social Influences

Social influences, including media, peer pressure, and cultural norms, can
significantly impact an individual's perception of self-worth. In a world driven by
external validation and material success, people may feel pressured to conform to
unrealistic standards, leading to feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness.

Romans 12:2 (NIV) - “Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such
things is based on truth.”

This biblical principle encourages individuals not to conform to the patterns of this
world but to be transformed by renewing their minds. It calls for a shift in focus from
the values of society to the truths found in God's Word. Renewing the mind with
God's truth enables individuals to resist negative societal influences and fosters a
sense of worth that is not contingent on external factors.
By seeking validation and affirmation from God rather than conforming to societal
standards, individuals can find security and contentment in their identity as beloved
creations of God. This

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shift in perspective helps counteract the toxic effects of social influences and fosters
a sense of worth that is rooted in God's love and purpose.

Discussion Questions:

1. How can societal influences, such as media and peer pressure, affect our
perception of self-worth?
Suggested Answer: Societal influences often promote unrealistic beauty
standards, materialistic values, and the pursuit of external achievements.
These influences can create feelings of inadequacy and a constant need for
validation and comparison with others.

2. How can renewing our minds with God's truth help us resist negative societal
influences and embrace our true worth?
Suggested Answer: Renewing our minds with God's truth involves aligning
our beliefs and values with biblical principles. It empowers us to resist
conformity to worldly standards and find our worth in God's unchanging love
and acceptance. By understanding that we are valued and cherished by God,
we can free ourselves from the burden of seeking approval from others and
embrace our inherent worth.

3. Recognizing Our Unique Path and Purpose

Embracing true worth involves recognizing that each person has a unique path and
purpose. Constant comparisons with others can hinder one's ability to appreciate
their individual journey and can lead to feelings of inadequacy and discontent.

Galatians 6:4 (NIV) - “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take
pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else…”

This passage encourages individuals to focus on their own actions and take pride in
their individual journey without comparing themselves to others. This biblical
principle reminds us that God has distinct plans for each person, and comparison
with others undermines the recognition of our unique worth.

By embracing their unique path and purpose, individuals can find contentment and
fulfillment in their personal growth and achievements. They understand that their
worth lies in their journey, not in comparison with others. Embracing individuality
also fosters a sense of unity and appreciation for the diversity of God's creation.

Discussion Questions:

1. How can constant comparisons with others impact our perception of self-
worth? Suggested Answer: Constant comparisons may lead to feelings of
inadequacy and a sense of not measuring up to others' achievements or
appearance. It can create a sense of competition rather than fostering
collaboration and support.
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 2. How does embracing our unique path and purpose contribute to embracing
our true worth?
Suggested Answer: Embracing our unique path and purpose helps us value
our individuality and recognize that God has a specific plan for each of us. It
allows us to celebrate our achievements without the need for constant
comparison. By understanding that we are fulfilling God's unique purpose for
our lives, we can find contentment and joy in our journey, regardless of how it
compares to others'.

Conclusion
Embracing your true worth is a transformative journey of recognizing your identity
in God and appreciating your unique qualities. By understanding and appreciating
your strengths, resisting negative societal influences, and recognizing your unique
path and purpose, you can cultivate a positive self-perception and embrace your
inherent value. Remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, with
a purpose that is uniquely yours. Trust in God's love for you, and may this
understanding fill you with confidence, contentment, and a deeper sense of purpose
in your life. As you continue to grow and embrace your true worth, may you also
inspire others to recognize and celebrate their worth as beloved creations of God.

Wrap-up Activity
True Worth Vision Boards

Objective: The wrap-up activity aims to help participants solidify the main lessons
on embracing true worth by creating vision boards that reflect their unique qualities
and God-given identity.

Instructions:

1. Introduction
● Begin by recapping the main points of the lesson on embracing true
worth in a student-friendly manner.
● Explain the purpose of the activity: to create vision boards that
celebrate their inherent value as unique creations of God.
2. Reflection
● Engage the students in a short guided discussion about their individual
strengths, talents, and qualities.
● Encourage them to share how they can embrace their true worth in
daily life based on what they've learned from the lesson.
3. Vision Board Creation
● Distribute poster boards or large pieces of paper to each student.
● Provide a variety of magazines, printed images, and art supplies for
students to use in creating their vision boards.
● Instruct the students to cut out images, words, and phrases that
represent their unique qualities and aspirations.
 ● They can also use markers and stickers to add personal touches to their
boards.

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 4. Sharing
● Invite students to share their vision boards with the class (optional).
● Encourage a supportive environment where students can
celebrate and appreciate each other's unique qualities.
5. Closing
● Gather the students together for a short closing moment.
● Reinforce the importance of embracing their true worth and how
their vision boards serve as reminders of their value in God's eyes.
● Conclude with a brief prayer, thanking God for each student's
uniqueness and asking for His guidance in embracing their true worth.

Through this interactive activity, students will create vision boards that highlight
their strengths, talents, and qualities, promoting a positive self-image and a sense
of purpose. The vision boards will serve as tangible reminders of the valuable
lesson learned, empowering them to face challenges with confidence and self-
assurance. Students can take their vision boards home as meaningful keepsakes,
inspiring them to embrace their true worth as beloved creations of God in their daily
lives.

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 Lesson 1
Embracing Your True Worth

Name: Grade/Section: Date:

Multiple Choice
Choose the letter that corresponds to the correct answer.

1. Embracing true worth involves recognizing and appreciating:

a) External accomplishments and appearances.
b) God's intentional design and inherent value.
c) Society's standards and expectations.
d) The weaknesses and flaws in oneself.

2. According to Psalm 139:13-14, how did God create each individual?

a) Quickly and casually.
b) Carelessly and without thought.
c) Fearfully and wonderfully, with great care and intentionality.
d) Without any purpose or plan.

3. What societal influences can impact an individual's perception of self-worth?

a) God's Word and teachings.
b) Family and close friends.
c) Social media, peer pressure, and cultural norms.
d) Personal achievements and successes.

4. Romans 12:2 encourages individuals not to conform to:

a) God's standards and principles.
b) The patterns of this world but to be transformed by renewing their minds.
c) Their own desires and aspirations.
d) Others' expectations and opinions.

5. How can renewing our minds with God's truth help us embrace our true worth?
a) It helps us become more like other people.
b) It enables us to resist negative societal influences.
c) It encourages us to compare ourselves with others.
d) It makes us feel inadequate and unworthy.

6. Galatians 6:4 reminds individuals to focus on their own actions and:

a) Brag about their achievements.
b) Take pride in their individual journey without comparing themselves to others.
c) Compete with others for recognition.
d) Belittle themselves in front of others.

7. Embracing our unique path and purpose helps us:

a) Seek constant validation from others.

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 b) Appreciate the diversity of God's creation.
c) Conform to societal standards.
d) Feel dissatisfied with our journey.

8. True worth means recognizing your value as:

a) Someone with no purpose in life.
b) A creation of society's expectations.
c) A unique masterpiece designed by God.
d) Someone defined solely by their flaws.

9. What practical strategies can help individuals embrace their true worth?
a) Focusing on constant comparisons with others.
b) Resisting the renewing of the mind with God's truth.
c) Acknowledging and celebrating their strengths and qualities.
d) Conforming to societal standards and expectations.

10. Embracing your true worth involves understanding that imperfections:

a) Are a part of being human and do not define your overall value.
b) Make you unworthy of love and acceptance.
c) Should be hidden from others.
d) Can be easily overcome by achieving external success.

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 Grade 12 Lesson 1

Understanding Inferiority and

Building Self-Esteem

"For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together

in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and
wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul
knows it very well."
- Psalm 139:13-14 (ESV)

Objectives
5. Understand the concept of inferiority and its impact on self-esteem.
6. Explore research-based insights on how to build and nurture self-esteem.
7. Connect biblical principles with the concepts of self-worth and self-esteem.

Introduction
Inferiority refers to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, often leading to a
perception of oneself as less capable or valuable compared to others. This negative
self-view can significantly affect a person's self-esteem, which is the overall
evaluation of one's worth and capabilities. Building a healthy self-esteem is essential
for mental and emotional well-being, personal growth, and the development of
strong relationships.

Look into It!

3. Understanding Inferiority

Inferiority arises from various sources, including societal comparisons and personal
experiences. People might feel inferior due to their appearance, achievements,
talents, or social status. These feelings can arise from unrealistic societal
standards and comparisons with others. These comparisons often ignore the
unique qualities and individuality of each person. It's vital to recognize that
everyone is on their own journey and has their own strengths and weaknesses.
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 Psalm 139:13-14 (ESV) states, "For you formed my inward parts; you
knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am
fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul
knows it very well."

This passage emphasizes the idea that God, as the Creator, designed each
individual with care and intention. The words "fearfully and wonderfully made"
reveal that every person is intricately crafted by God, reflecting His craftsmanship.
This principle serves as a counterbalance to the societal pressures and comparisons
that often lead to feelings of inferiority. Recognizing that we are creations of God,
intentionally designed with unique qualities, encourages us to embrace our
individuality and recognize our inherent worth.

Discussion Questions:
3. How does societal pressure contribute to feelings of inferiority?
Suggested Answer: Societal pressures, often fueled by media and social norms,
set unrealistic standards that can lead to self-comparison and feelings of
inadequacy.

4. How can understanding that we are intentionally created impact our self-
esteem? Suggested Answer: Knowing that God designed us with purpose
can boost our self- esteem by grounding our identity in something
unchanging and meaningful.

4. Building Self-Esteem

Building self-esteem involves recognizing one's strengths, setting achievable goals,

and practicing self-compassion. Positive self-affirmations and surrounding oneself
with supportive individuals contribute to positive self-perception. Engaging in
activities that align with personal interests and values can also boost self-esteem.

Ephesians 2:10 (ESV) affirms, "For we are his workmanship, created in

Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we
should walk in them."

This passage underscores that our worth is not determined by worldly

achievements, but by the roles God has designated for us. This principle
emphasizes that each individual has unique contributions to make and a purpose to
fulfill in God's plan. When we internalize this truth, we can let go of the pressure to
meet societal expectations and focus on living out our God-given purpose.

Discussion Questions:
 1. How can setting and achieving small goals contribute to building self-
esteem? Suggested Answer: Achieving even small goals provides a sense of
accomplishment, reinforcing a positive self-image and boosting self-
confidence.

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 2. How does the idea of being God's "workmanship" challenge the idea
that worth is solely determined by accomplishments?
Suggested Answer: This principle highlights that our true worth comes from
being part of God's divine plan, not from external achievements.

3. Nurturing Self-Esteem
Nurturing self-esteem involves practicing self-compassion, challenging negative
self-talk, and seeking professional help when needed. Developing a healthy internal
dialogue and embracing imperfections are crucial aspects of self-esteem
development.

Romans 12:3 (ESV) advises, "For by the grace given to me I say to

everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he
ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to
the measure of faith that God has assigned."

This passage teaches the importance of humility and accurate self-perception. It

encourages us to avoid both overestimating and underestimating our worth. This
principle reminds us that self- esteem involves finding a balanced view of ourselves,
acknowledging our strengths while understanding our limitations.

Discussion Questions:
1. How does practicing humility contribute to building healthy self-esteem?
Suggested Answer: Embracing humility helps us avoid extremes of arrogance
and self- deprecation, leading to a more accurate and balanced self-
perception.

2. How can a "sober judgment" of oneself counteract feelings of inferiority and

inadequacy? Suggested Answer: A realistic assessment of ourselves helps us see
our strengths and areas for growth, reducing the impact of negative self-
perceptions.

Conclusion
Our exploration of understanding inferiority and building self-esteem has shed light
on profound insights. We've recognized how societal pressures and personal
experiences shape our self- perception. Yet, anchored in Psalm 139:13-14, we've
unearthed the empowering truth that our uniqueness is intentional, designed by
God.

Ephesians 2:10 reaffirmed that our value extends beyond achievements, tied to our
God-given purposes. Armed with this knowledge and guided by Romans 12:3,
promoting humility, we're equipped to embrace our strengths, acknowledge our
limits, and nurture resilient self-esteem. This journey is ongoing, but with these
principles in hand, you're empowered to navigate challenges, foster self-worth, and
embark on a path of personal growth with confidence.

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Wrap-Up Reflection Activity

Celebrating Self-Worth and Growth

As we conclude, let's reflect on your journey through understanding inferiority and
building self- esteem.

6. Appreciation: Take a moment to jot down three things you value about
yourself. These could be qualities, skills, or achievements that remind you of
your uniqueness and worth.

7. Application: Think about a time when you felt inferior or struggled with self-
esteem. Write a brief paragraph about how you can apply the insights from
this lesson to reframe your perspective in that situation. Consider the
principles of embracing your uniqueness and focusing on your strengths.

Remember, building self-esteem is a continuous process. Each step you take toward
recognizing your value and embracing your individuality propels you towards a
more confident and empowered version of yourself.

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 Lesson 1
Understanding Inferiority and Building Self-Esteem

Name: Grade/Section: Date:

Multiple Choice
Choose the letter that corresponds to the correct answer.

● What is the primary impact of feelings of inferiority on an

individual's self-esteem?
• Boosting self-confidence
• Enhancing self-worth
• Reducing self-esteem
• Improving self-perception

● Inferiority can arise from comparisons with:

• Nature
• Animals
• Others
• Celebrities

● According to Psalm 139:13-14, how did God create each

individual?
• Randomly
• With care and intention
• Through evolution
• Indifferently

● Ephesians 2:10 underscores that our worth is tied to:

• Our achievements
• Society's opinions
• God's purposes
• Our appearance

● What is the role of practicing humility?

• Boasting about accomplishments
• Ignoring one's talents
• Balancing self-perception
• Exaggerating weaknesses

● How does recognizing our strengths contribute to building self-

esteem?
• It fosters self-criticism
• It boosts self-confidence
• It encourages self-doubt
• It enhances inferiority

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1. What can contribute to feelings of inferiority?
• Encouraging friends
• Supportive family
• Unrealistic media standards
• Positive self-affirmations

2. Romans 12:3 advises against:

• Humility
• Self-reflection
• Balanced self-perception
• Self-worth

3. How does understanding our uniqueness counteract

feelings of inferiority?
• By promoting self-comparison
• By highlighting our flaws
• By focusing on our individual worth
• By conforming to societal norms

4. What is the core purpose of the advice of Romans 12:3

on self-perception?
• To boost self-confidence
• To achieve perfection
• To foster humility
• To exaggerate strengths