ABOUT HOW YOU FOUND ME

I don't know you but I was searching for an old friend before i stumbled on your
profile and I got entangled in that wonderful smile,couldn't stop myself from
sending you a request Please always wear that smile. How are you today, hope you
are good

ABOUT ME

Am Melisa Howell,I'm 27 years old,am from Dallas Texas,USA but currently on

deployment here in WEST AFRICA,Am a military doctor and an IT personnel,am single
with no kids and YOU?

ABOUT MY EX
For me am single,i broke up with my boyfriend few months ago because of his bad
attitude towards me,

Well i have been hurt alot of times but i dont count them cause i wanna live an
easy life and move on with the right man meant for me.... lol
I still don't understand why my ex sabotaged our future at the time cheating on me,
again and again, as we were making final plans to move in together but by the time
he came over to smooth talk his way out of it,I was done.
No more crying an even my tears had given up on him. I’d already moved on because
him cheating was simply the key left in my mailbox.

Those who cheat on their partners who are loyal to them, don’t deserve them. It is
a trashy attitude to disrespect a person who is loyal in a relationship, by
cheating on him or her.
What do you do for a living?

ABOUT MY FAMILY

I am the only child of my parents,life hasn't been easy for me when i was a
child,when I was 4 years old my mom left me and my dad took care of me and he's
only one in my family that I've been so close to for so many years until I was 7
years old, he died in boat accident then my grandmother decided to adopted me.. I
was really depressed for 10 years and am the only child of my late parents

I was so heartbroken, I wanted to die so badly, I hurt,cut myself almost everyday.

I was in big trouble everyday at school and I refuse to work too hard in school
and I made me had bad grades
I wasn't myself at all because I was in deep depression. My family, friends, and
staffs at school was very sick worried about me so they decided to sent me to
mental hospital for few days

I wasn't happy at all and I don't like my life then

I have so much people to support me but I got frustrated and stressed all the time.
I refused to take people's advice and that made me lost a lot of friends.. They got
tired of me

I almost killed myself before a preschool of one person helps me join the army now
I am a better person but I'm still not full in life until I find that special man
of my dreams

About my military life

I was only 17years old when i made the decision to serve my country,i first went to
basic training.I went active duty first and after Esting after 4years i realized i
couldn't stay away and joined Army Reserves.When i joined the Army it wasn't about
a bonus or money for school.I genuinely just wanted to be a part of something
bigger than myself,i wanted to make a difference.Before the military i was
shy,timid and kept to myself,The militart allowed me grow out of that and step
outside of my comfort zone.I became a leader,i didn't stay quiet and didn't allow
people to walk all over me or tell me what i could and could not do.The Army gave
me every bit of confidence that i wear now.The Army has been the only constant
thing in my life,even though it hasn't always been easy,The Army showed me how
great i could be and all of my strenghts.I wouldn't trade this exprience for
anything in the world.

I was part of the Nationwide Exercise in 2001.I went to JRTC in 2002. RSOI in Korea
in 2003. I've had the privilege of being the PAO for the US military Pentathlon
Team in 2004, 2005, 2006. I was deployed to Bosnia in 2007. I was deployed to
Afghanistan in 2008/2009.

I did a five-month tour at USARC headquarters in 2010.I was the print section
sergeant and acting first sgt for the 204th MPAD; went to Bosnia with the 343rd
MPAD, was in the 2125th and 3220th GSUs, I was the NCOIC at the Office of Military
Cooperation Afghanistan; First Sergeant for the 300th MPAD; and now the PA Ops Sgt
for the 70th Training Division at Fort Knox. I've been to
Alaska,Korea,Germany,Bosnia,Afghanistan and now in West Africa

i studied the course Computer Science with a Master Degree.

Here we have lot of departments and social workers, assisting we soldiers, and the
soldiers here are sub divided into several units, each having a common interest in
fight against the Taliban Activities. There are Military doctors, nurses, qualified
teachers, Sports men and women.

For me, I work in the camp in Monitoring Unit Base, I work 9 hours everyday and
also sometimes out of the camp. When am out of the camp, I go for patrol

I never dreamed to be a soldier, I never had a good child up bringing, if not, I

would have been a different woman, a medical student.

Coming to our feeding habit in the camp, It's been long I ate good home made food,
most of our food comes from the US army and Red cross international, most times
canned food. Gaining access to the kitchen at Officers mess can be wise but most
times I don't have that kind of time or zeal to cook, here on free time. It pains
me a lot that my work is a life line one and any one can die at any time.
KNOWING MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER

1.What’s your thought on marriage, do you believe in it and do you ever want to get
married?.................Marriage is wonderful. It’s a relationship of mutual
respect, commitment, and love,to me love means caring so much for another that you
would sacrifice anything for the other and satisfy any need that they have.

2.I hope we can Always Communicate here to enable us know each other the more.I
believe you will soon be a Special friend to me .

3. What type of person are you, tell me some more about you,.................I am a
very down to earth person. I am looking for that special man whom can treat me the
way a woman deserves to be treated. I am a very honest trustworthy person looking
for the same. I do not need mind games and such that kids play.

4. I know this a crazy question,just wanna know If you could pick one, would you
rather have infinite money or love?I go for love because that's all I want from my
man, I don't want money
When there is pure love I swear definitely there gonna be money,am working so hard
for my future and my family as well because am independent woman,I always believe
and I don't depend on people for what I need in Life that's why I work so hard to
make my own money

5. What kind of woman are you looking for?..............Am lawful and The type of
person I am interested in is a man who can laugh, one who is motivated and
ambitious, intelligent, and self confident. I enjoy meaningful conversation in
addition to plain old good fun. I'm basically a very positive person who also loves
humor and laughter and would like someone with an adventurous spirit and a positive
attitude who can see the funny side of life, someone who is open and willing to
learn new things.

6. Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your

feelings?...........I'm a person who would rather express my feelings as I know
it's not good to keep them locked up. It's important to express to others that you
care for them and are there to support and encourage.

7. Tell me where is your Favorite local hot spots or travel

destinations?.......Dubia and Paris,i would love to go there with my man and I love
any restaurant that serve good healthy foods and where a very good band is playing.
I love restaurants with romantic settings where we can look into each others eyes
and feel that special connection. I also love candlelit romantic dinners.

8. What kind of sport do you like best?.......I like swimming and also like
shooting baskets, playing volleyball and a few others.I've been to a St. Louis
Cardinals baseball game also..it was fun

9. What do you like and dislike in a woman?...........I don't like

cheaters,liars,thiefs or shallow people,Other than that, i'm a person that likes
pretty much everything,i'm very easy going
10.What is your ideal date?.....................Oh wow... there are sooo many
scenarios I could mention here and each depends on where the relationship was as to
the idealness of it.I like romance either way so anything where we would have a
little privacy to talk and stare into each others eyes,A walk along the waterfront
or beach

11.Are you a God fearing man?.........VERY much so!!! I love God with all my heart
and trust in HIM to comfort me and guide me.Only he knows what he has in store for
us.....How often do you go to church? Haven't gone much in the last few years . In
this case, God has come to where I am spoken to my heart about different
situations. I totally believe in going to church & fellowshiping however, I don't
believe that a person NEEDS to goto church to be a christian as going into a
chicken house doesn't make you a chicken. wink

12. Do you love rose flower?.........My favorite Rose is a Purple rose, they are
not as common as the other types. My favorite flowers are Stargazer lillies and
lilac bushes.

13. What make you smile?............That's easy!!! What makes me smile is seeing
those I love smiling and knowing I put that smile on their faces.

14. Are you a romantic type?................I'm a helpless romantic. I love being

with my man and doing little things for him to put a smile on her face. I enjoy
surprising him & doing my part to making his dreams come true.

15.What does it feel like when you realize that you are falling in
love?..............I don't know... never been in love like that.

16.What would you consider a real fun thing for a couple to do

together?...................Anything that brings laughter to both people

17.What is your favorite music? My favorite music would have to be Country, Rap,
Acoustic rock
The reason I love listening to rap is to pump me up
Acoustic rock is when I'm in a mellow mood
Country is when I feel a little sad

18. What is your favorite movies?.........I have a few favorite movies. My all time
favorite is "City of Angels" it's a movie where a man sacrificed his life as an
angel to experience what it was like to love the man he was drawn to. I also love
Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in Seattle, Grease, Never been kissed, anything
with Reese Witherspoon. I like romantic comedies, action movies, Romantic, and ones
based on a true story like Titanic, and Pearl Harbor. There are really sooo many
that I like, I can't really name them
all.

19. What do you like to do?..........I love being in the great outdoors seeing the
natural beauty God has given to us that others take advantage of.. I love snuggling
with the ones I love while watching a movie. I enjoy meeting others and making a
difference in the lives of those around me. I recently found out that some special
people in my life really look up to me and the feeling of that is AMAZING!

20. Do you sing or play a musical instrument?......I sing and I play several
instruments,I play guitar, French horn, trumpet, and a little piano would love to
learn
21. Whats your Favorite things?........I like healthy foods such as a good seafood
salad I love the color Red. I like to snuggle when it rains or read a good book,
shopping at a large mall, reading any of the self-help books, listening to romantic
music or 80's music, and exercising.

22. Do you have any addictions?........That sounds awkward. I love people and I
could never be away from them for long so it sounds like an addiction to me.

23. Do you get scared of the dark?.....Yeah, it’s freaky when you hear something or
you start imagining things in the dark.

24.Do you believe in God and how often do you go to church?

Yeap i didn’t a few years ago but now He is a big part of my life,I love God with
all my heart and trust in him to comfort and guide me,only him knows what he has in
store for us but Haven't gone to church much in the last few Months

25. Would you ever go hunting for sport?.....Never been hunting. I don’t think I
could kill an animal. I think shooting would be fun though.

26. Have you ever cheated on someone before?....No,I think cheaters are horrible.I
would never be able to live with myself.

27. How do you spend your weekends?.......I spend my weekend here in the camp with
my colleauges

28. What is your favorite color?.....Red

29. What is your favorite food?...... Potatoes and Meat

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way,
nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.

i want to know if you will disappoint me tomorrow, i am not here for game but here
for serious thing which will lead to marriage.

A Relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY.

We need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other,
There are lot of things we need to know about each other and I'm not a kind of
woman that rush into relationship or marriage.

It takes time, time will tell and we have to wait for the lord timing.