Cheating and Lying
Cheating and Lying
Cheating and Lying
CHEATING
Everybody Does It
-right along with the dog -eat-dog theory is the everybody does it argument. This assumes that because most people probably cheat at some time in their lives, everyone is justified in also doing so necessary. The argument further says that its commonly known that all people cheat on their income taxes, on insurance claims by including other earlier damages, on expense vouchers, in golf games, and on their wives or husbands.
-one problem with this attitude is that it is questionable whether most people do not mean that people ought to do them. History reveals that even the majority can be morally wrong, so everybody does it is not a very supportable or justifiable argument for doing something.
LYING
- By so lying, he has thwarted her wish to stay home and raise their children. His lying has not only blocked his wifes objective but has also deprived his children of their mothers care.
- Lying not only causes distrust, but also resentment, disappointment, and suspicion in the deceived.
- however, if patients ask any serious questions about their condition, then more lies may have to be told then. Precautions must be taken to prevent any information or even hints from leaking through to disrupt the growing web of lies that began innocently enough as a way of providing protection for the dying patient.
Example: (Othello-Shakespeare) Iago, Othellos aide, weaves one of the most insidious webs of lies ever seen in drama and literature, By the end of the play, Iago has not only controlled Othellos every move but also caused the death of Othellos wife, Desdemona, about whom most of the lies were concocted, and the injury and death of several others, including Othello himself. The power Iago has over most of the people in the play is almost unbelievable, and all of it is attained through his diabolical cleverness of many deceptions.
Self-destructiveness of Lying
- A major disadvantage of lying is that once liars are found out, their word is no longer trusted, their deceptions fall apart, and their power is decreased or lost. - Another effect (accdg. to proponents of this argument) is that lying undermines ones self -image. In other words, liars lose self-esteem because of their deceptions, and the more often these occur, the greater the loss.
e.g. (self-destruction and lying on society) In the US, former president Nixon was found guilty towards his dishonesty at the Watergate Affair. Trust in politicians and lawyers fell to a new low; his publicity was destroyed; and worst, the whole society lost faith in their leader.
National Security
- Many ethicists argue for lying in order to maintain national security, and act that certainly may protect many innocent people.
Example: A woman asks another how an expensive new dress looks on her. The other woman says, The dress looks Fine, but was reluctant.
- The woman said the dress looks fine, even if she doesnt really think so. White liars usually uses this tactful way to avoid hurting peoples feelings and save the liars some embarrassment.
- People argue that in getting alone in the world, lying sometimes can maintain the social veneer rather that crack it, as is advocated by the people who argue against lying. - Rather than hurting someone or suffering embarrassment, and as long as no serious harm is done, its all right to lie to prevent either from happening.
MODERATE POSITION
Advocates that, generlly, one should avoid lying if possible and lie only as the last resort or clearly to save a life. This viewpoint is well expressed by the old saying Honestly is the best Policy. Moderates feel that lying is a serious matter, however little or white the lie is. Moderates agree with those opposed to lying that the domino argument makes sensethat the more you lie, the easier to do so, and the cycle continues again and again to another and another.
MODERATE POSITION
RESOURCES
ETHICS: Theory and Practice by Thiroux, Jacques P. Boston : Pearson, c2012 UST Library