All You Need To Know

Piss off if you're under 18—I have a... somewhat family-friendly blog, @blubushie, that'd be a better fit for you. IF YOU ARE A MINOR INTERACTING WITH THIS BLOG YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.

I'm Blu, or Dingo. He/him, be-cocked, aroallo bisexual. 2001. Australian. Friendly neighbourhood domtop cowboy. I hunt and kill things for a living, and unsurprisingly aspects of this have affected how I approach sex.

I don't trigger tag jack shit, so enter at your own discretion. Basic tag is #blu lewd for original posts, #bloodstains for posts I've replied to, #blood in the water for replies to asks, #blood on my hands for asks I've sent, and #blood trail for posts I've been tagged in, and (as of 13/10/24) #rabbit snare for posts relating to or interacting with my sub. Reblogs will not be tagged, so cope I guess.

Anyhow, now for the fun details...

Sending the fuckbunny nudes and watching her squirm and lust for me is the highlight of my week

Anybody else get a REALLY intense craving for meat after a wank or is it just me

My "stage name" was Dingo when I did sex work, so reckon I'd go with that. I can't think of a stage name beyond that.

Usually it's a "first pet name" + "street you lived on in the past".

So Angel Undoolya, I guess? I wouldn't CHOOSE that though. I'd choose Dingo. I'd get silly with it. Moon Moon? Dingo Dingo?

...Dingo Dongo. There you go.

Dingo: Turns out I like talking to you. You're my favourite person to talk to.

Bilby: Don't say that, you're gonna make me cry. Waaah.

Dingo: Stop fucking crying you little bitch.

[pause]

Dingo: Sorry that was mean of me.

Bilby: That was really mean. [Laughing] I think you deserve a timeout for that.

Dingo: I agree. That's fair.

Bilby: [laughing] I'm putting you in timeout.

Dingo: [laughs]

Oh yeah. Never to the point of not being able to move, but so bad it hurts? Many times.

Nah, I understand completely.

As I said, CNC ≠ rape. Just like you can enjoy violence in media but have your stomach churn at it in real life, liking CNC as a kink does NOT mean that you enjoy actual rape or consider it something acceptable or are normalising it. This circles back to "what you enjoy between yourself and a consenting partner has nothing to say about your morals".

You're not normalising rape. You're just destigmatising kink in your own brain.

Hell, even if you were actually into legitimate rape as a concept, there's nothing necessarily wrong with that so long as it stays in your head and you don't harm anyone. Thought crimes are not real—only actions are. Thought crimes make no victims. There's nothing worth panicking about or punishing yourself for as long as you're not hurting anyone.

For example, just because I'm into homicide doesn't mean I'm going around killing people to get my rocks off. My kink, however dark it is, is completely harmless because I'm not hurting anyone by having it. I'd only be hurting someone if I acted on it. The same applies to legitimate rape kinks (not CNC) and all other "harmful" kinks (harmful is in quotations because these kinks aren't actually harmful just by nature of having them).

I encourage you to explore the things you like, and what aspects of CNC appeal to you, and try to hammer in that first letter of the acronym—consent. Having the kink doesn't mean you want to be a victim, and it's not normalising rape.

The baseline is the emphasis on consent. I don't like using the term "rape (kink)" except in-scene as a way to hammer home the brutality of what's happening. The foundation of CNC is consent.

You can 100% be against rape (and I should hope you are!) while still enjoying CNC. Consensual non-consent harms no one. Think of it more like free use—no-holds-barred with some holds barred, namely that if you safe word, everything stops. No one is being harmed because the foundation of the kink is the consent that allows it to be a kink.

What you do (or would like to do) between you and a consenting partner has nothing to say about your morals, anon. "Rape is bad" and "CNC is fun" are not anithetical to each other. Rape is the exclusion of consent—with CNC, the consent is necessary and a foundation of the kink. What you say goes. You can scream no all day long and have that ignored and act like you don't want it, but if at any point you actually decide you don't, all you have to do it say the safeword and it stops. You're safe with CNC.

I could probably help more if I knew your specific morals and what exactly about the kink worries you. I assume it's a matter of coming to terms with wanting to be "used"/"taken", but in that regard CNC isn't much different than any other BDSM fantasy. In fact I'd argue that CNC kink is probably the most common "taboo" kink among the general populace (and arguably the most common kink I've noticed in women), especially amongst people who enjoy BDSM. Kinda comes with the territory of dominance/submission (not that you can't have D/S without CNC, because you absolutely can, I've just noticed a correlation that most people into BDSM also have some level of a CNC kink).

It's 11:15pm.

There was twenty minutes of silence in which I thought she was asleep before she quietly goes "Hey babe... Do you think it'd feel good to be fucked by a golf club?"

So anyway now I'm single-