space, storms, sadness

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This is the best tag I've ever received on a post, I think

A patient, explaining what their relationship is to their new visitor who was headed up to see them, said, “he’s my guardian,” and I said “oh I didn’t you had a legal guardian,” and the patient said, “he’s not my legal guardian, he’s my spiritual and physical guardian. He is also my brother. Well, I say he’s my brother. He’s like a brother. He’s my husband.” And I say this with genuinely no judgment, just pure curiosity, what

some of my favorite mutuals post entirely about things that i do not understand or care about and our dms are barren like a desert. and yet the warmth of that big hot sun remains between us

blursed

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?

AHH it’s been a long time and i’m still working on it:

cishet -> cishet ally -> cis questioning actually every sexuality ever (i went through asexual, bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, and lesbian in the span of 1 year i believe) -> denial (back to cishet ally) -> cis questioning bisexual -> cis bisexual -> cis questioning omnisexual -> cis bi/omnisexual (couldn’t choose 😔) -> new from literally today: questioning demigirl????????? bi/omnisexual

cishet → cishet ally → cis questioning sexulity → cis bi → cis questioning acespec bi → cis ace bi → questioning gender ace bi → demigirl ace biromantic → questioning gender ace bi → genderqueer ace bi → questioning arospec genderqueer ace bi → aroace genderqueer bi → questioning gender aroace bi → transmasc aroace bi → transmasc arospec ace bi (probably grayromantic? i'm somewhere on the spectrum of aro for sure just not super sure where)

cishet -> cishet ally -> lesbian -> lesbian and a demigirl -> non-binary lesbian -> idk wtf my gender is but lesbianism forever babyyyyy

(Maybe aro spec????)

cishet guy -> gay? cis guy -> bi cis guy -> gay cis guy -> bi trans girl -> lesbian trans girl -> lesbian transfem enby -> lesbian transfem enby with an ocean motif -> poly lesbian transfem enby with an ocean motif -> aroallo poly lesbian transfem enby with an ocean motif

cishet girl -> cishet ally -> bi cis girl -> pan cis girl -> majorly questioning cis girl -> MAJORLY QUESTIONING -> aroace, cis girl? -> aroace, demigirl? nonbinary? trans guy? -> aroace genderqueer girl

Newsflash!!! If your doctor says your baby has "gonads" that need removal or that there is a genital "deformity" these words are code for intersex baby. REFUSE UROLOGY SURGERY FOR YOUR INFANT UNLESS THEY CAN PROVE IT WILL EFFECT YOUR BABY IN THE NEXT YEAR. sometimes urethras are blocked or there's legitimate impact to functionality. Otherwise almost always surgery can wait till your child is old enough to understand what is happening. As someone who went through pediatric urology- you don't want them operating unless it's 100% necessary. The procedures are gruesome and traumatic (and often not anesthetized) most people use it as a first resort when surgery should ALWAYS be a last resort especially for minors.

I’m literally on thr verge of tears

starting tomorrow i will be a real person in this world

oh! i forgot to do this. okay starting tomorrow i will be a real person in this world and i actually seriously genuinely properly truly mean it this time

um. well

do people know that a french ex-president (nicolas sarkozy, from 2007 to 2012) is currently wearing an electronic bracelet after he was sentenced for corruption and influence peddling? do people know? i want everyone to know 😌

and that bernard squarcini, the head of internal security (DGSI) during sarkozy's presidency, just got convicted for influence peddling and has to wear an ankle bracelet for at least two years? 😌🙏

and that marine le pen, leader of the far-right party et one of the (ex)favorites for the 2027 presidential elections, has to wear an ankle bracelet for at least two years and is ineligible for five years?? 😌🙌✨️

My American ass watching other presidents face some form of consequence for wrongdoing…

🔵🌎🌍🌏🔵

none planet with aotearoa

this is the opposite of all those maps that cut it off

why do so many people act like the existence of transandrophobia is claiming that men are oppressed. like all it means is that trans men face types of opression that are unique and different from the experience of trans women. its not that deep. trans men having unique struggles doesnt somehow secretely mean that people are claiming that all men are an oppressed class

i kissed a ghoul and i liked it…… the taste of her scary chapstick

It’s so funny seeing non-science people write scientist characters. specifically when arcane fans write Jayce and Viktor and they’re in the lab just talking about “solving equations.” exquisite.

yo who up solving they equation

In the lab, straight up “solving it.” And by “it” I mean. Haha, well. let’s justr say. My equation

I don't self ship I do something much more sinister and vile

From a little zine I made :)