Vriska fictive/introject userboxes!
Continuing my series for Homestuck alters.
Feel free to request any special theme in my inbox!
Credit isn't needed but please like or even reblog if you use this!
Reblogged starlight-labyrinth-system
The idea that emotional abuse and neglect have to be purposeful, with intent and malice, in order to be "enough" is wrong, and is not supported by science
I can't believe I have to say this.
Well meaning, well intentioned parents can and do neglect and abuse their children without EVER realizing it.
A parent can love their child and want the absolute best for them, and still fuck their children up in horrible ways that will stay with them for life.
When it comes to trauma and DID, this isn't an area where you can play Olympics. Anyone who can look at another person and go, "that wasn't enough, you have to have more trauma," is in the wrong.
You are flat out wrong.
Your behaviour is wrong.
Your facts are wrong.
Your understanding of trauma, CDDs, and DA is wrong.
Your actions and words are wrong.
Look at generational trauma, homophobic and transphobic parents that just "want their children to succeed" while stamping out any and all "weirdness", parents with their own mental illness that prevents them from responding appropriately their children or causes outbursts, parents with outdated strategies that they thought worked on them, parents that mishandle their child's outbursts with speed rather than understanding in mind, abusers that are young and don't understand what they're doing, single parents that work two jobs and now their kid has to take care of themselves and their siblings, nuclear families with low income, body shaming parents that just want to protect you from other's cruelty, the list goes on and on.
You've probably experienced more than one of these.
And probably for a long time, right? Maybe your entire childhood?
Huh, it's almost like that's repetitive, longterm trauma.
Do NOT let anyone invalidate your trauma.
It was bad enough.
For my fellow system friends, this is an extremely important reminder to say YOU ARE VALID! Your trauma is valid. You are valid because you are here and survived your truama, and we all love you for that.
Aztrosist factive/introject userbox
This is a request from a discord server im in, thank you for the request! Feel free to request any special themes or in my inbox.
Artist credit - https://www.reddit.com/r/SleepDeprivedPodcast/comments/158ozza/mrtoasten_best_member_hands_down/
Credit isn't needed but please like or even reblog if you use this!