tender is the ghost

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lord, i need to find someone who can heal my mind

ok so here's what's up

i was initially planning on it, but after some thought, i've decided i'm not coming back (to this account, at least). while i was away, i realized that some of the circles i'd fallen into over the past... 3.5ish years are pretty toxic (not necessarily my mutuals/friends, but just the general atmosphere/how we all interact with each other) and have more drama than i want to be exposed to as someone who's trying to focus on both not letting my negative emotions get the best of xem and mitigating the stress in xyr life. it's not about any one thing, just things i've observed throughout the years that built up and that i'd had already had problems with.

i love the people who've stuck with me over the years, and again, i have no ill will toward any of the people i've befriended. this scene just isn't for me. if we're mutuals on here, you can ask for my discord whenever- i check my dms on here every few days just in case someone w/o my discord needs me, so i'll see your message. if you already have my discord, feel free to message me whenever; i probably miss you too.

ciao

I'm remaking my post now that it's juneteenth since the situation has changed pretty drastically in the last couple weeks. I'm a disabled black lgbt person living in rural southern appalachia that's been dealing with a lot of issues that come with that. You might remember me from my last posts but while I've been trying everything to improve my situation I've also had to start helping my cousin escape an abusive situation that I can't really get too deep into since it's spiraled really fast. You can dm me if you really need to know about it. A lot of my money has gone into that while it's fallen on me and my younger sibling to keep things afloat recently. It's also been over a year since my grandmother died (on june 17th) which has been making my extremely difficult situation way more unstable. Here's a picture of me since other people do that I guess. don't tag as anything ect.

p@pl/vnmo is atlantian

c/shapp is $seaways

Don’t tag as anything ect

Happy pride I’m Cerise, a disabled black nonbinary/lgbt person currently stuck in an abusive living situation and need financial help to cover my basic immediate needs such as my medications, food & rent, and transport to my appointments. I’ve estimated that I need about $680 to cover my needs for a month, and until I’m in a stable situation, I’m going to need as much help as I can get. Without getting too into details I’m currently completely dependent on an abusive parent who’s now giving me grief over having to financially support me plus I’m at risk for racial abuse and harassment living in rural Tennessee. Any help I can get would be greatly appreciated at this point. Have a great pride

cshapp: $seaways

vnmo/p@ypal: Atlantian

ok so here's what's up

i was initially planning on it, but after some thought, i've decided i'm not coming back (to this account, at least). while i was away, i realized that some of the circles i'd fallen into over the past... 3.5ish years are pretty toxic (not necessarily my mutuals/friends, but just the general atmosphere/how we all interact with each other) and have more drama than i want to be exposed to as someone who's trying to focus on both not letting my negative emotions get the best of xem and mitigating the stress in xyr life. it's not about any one thing, just things i've observed throughout the years that built up and that i'd had already had problems with.

i love the people who've stuck with me over the years, and again, i have no ill will toward any of the people i've befriended. this scene just isn't for me. if we're mutuals on here, you can ask for my discord whenever- i check my dms on here every few days just in case someone w/o my discord needs me, so i'll see your message. if you already have my discord, feel free to message me whenever; i probably miss you too.

ciao

ok so here's what's up

i was initially planning on it, but after some thought, i've decided i'm not coming back (to this account, at least). while i was away, i realized that some of the circles i'd fallen into over the past... 3.5ish years are pretty toxic (not necessarily my mutuals/friends, but just the general atmosphere/how we all interact with each other) and have more drama than i want to be exposed to as someone who's trying to focus on both not letting my negative emotions get the best of xem and mitigating the stress in xyr life. it's not about any one thing, just things i've observed throughout the years that built up and that i'd had already had problems with.

i love the people who've stuck with me over the years, and again, i have no ill will toward any of the people i've befriended. this scene just isn't for me. if we're mutuals on here, you can ask for my discord whenever- i check my dms on here every few days just in case someone w/o my discord needs me, so i'll see your message. if you already have my discord, feel free to message me whenever; i probably miss you too.

ciao

ok so here's what's up

i was initially planning on it, but after some thought, i've decided i'm not coming back (to this account, at least). while i was away, i realized that some of the circles i'd fallen into over the past... 3.5ish years are pretty toxic (not necessarily my mutuals/friends, but just the general atmosphere/how we all interact with each other) and have more drama than i want to be exposed to as someone who's trying to focus on both not letting my negative emotions get the best of xem and mitigating the stress in xyr life. it's not about any one thing, just things i've observed throughout the years that built up and that i'd had already had problems with.

i love the people who've stuck with me over the years, and again, i have no ill will toward any of the people i've befriended. this scene just isn't for me. if we're mutuals on here, you can ask for my discord whenever- i check my dms on here every few days just in case someone w/o my discord needs me, so i'll see your message. if you already have my discord, feel free to message me whenever; i probably miss you too.

ciao

I’m a bit late to making my bhm post but hi I’m a black multiply disabled person and I’ve been struggling a lot the last couple years. In November 2022 I was in the hospital for blood clots in my kidneys and spleen and I’m fighting my insurance to get put on a different medication for Behcets (which may have contributed to the clots) so I’m extremely stressed which makes my Behcets worse. I’m also struggling with an unsafe living environment which I’m not fully comfortable getting into the specifics about right now so I would really love to work towards getting out of here in any way possible. I can say though that being nonbinary, not straight, and living in an already volatile situation doesn’t really help. So if you’d like to help out I’d really appreciate it.

Please don’t tag as anything thank you. My cshapp name is different than the other two on there which is my deadname but it’s still me so please don’t start anything about it

P/pal: atlantian

V/nmo: Atlantian

C/sh/pp: $seaways

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656897546885467-deactivated2022

i tried starting a donation train yesterday but failed so i’ll try again :3 black and brown ppl drop ur links here we deserve compensation for the caucasian nonsense we deal with

i’m not in much need but my cash app is $bitterandblack

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darkredskies

hello! thank you so much for this post. i'm a black person who's currently struggling with finding a job and i'm drowning in debt and bills right now. this is affecting my ability to go back to school and find a new home like i hoped for. i would really appreciate the help from anyone who's able to willing and able to provide 🥺

ven: rjlovescats2010

and here's may p4y

Hey I haven’t had time to add on, but I’m a black multiply disabled nonbinary person. I’ve been fighting with my insurance to get my medicine and procedures done and I’ve been going without certain medicines because of that at times. I was told I’m going to have to start traveling four hours to Vanderbuilt university again to see more specialists there since I live in a rural area and my Behcets Disease has advanced so far and started causing other issues that it can’t be handled by just the local doctors anymore. So I’m kind of at the end of my rope since they don’t take my insurance and I have no idea if that’s going to end up costing me a ton of money on top of it all.

I also don’t really have winter clothes since I’m still replacing all the clothes I lost from the tree falling on my house a few years ago, and most of my also stuff got ruined due to our basement flooding continually flooding in the aftermath. So I’d appreciate some help with that but it’s not really as important to me as getting help with everything else.

p@yp@l/ven: Atlantian

c//sha//pp: $Seaways

For clarity I am awake and did not sleep for like a day and a half. I was just rly busy yesterday so I tried to stay off of Tumblr for the most part

ok yeah sorry if I don't respond to messages for a jillion years I cannot keep my eyes open

big fan of media thats too homopobic to admit gay people exist yet nontheless operates with a homoerotic subtext so insane that none of the characters’ motivations make sense unless they carnally desire each other

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sorryforpartyjocking-deactivate

Whats up its Mercury formerly partyjockers ik I'm a bit late to the whole capitalizing on my demise thing but it's bisexual visibility month and as a broke bisexual bigender dude I'd appreciate any money you'd throw at my way. I recently moved into college and I'm waiting a couple weeks to pick up another job in order to acclimate to everything but I still need a little help :']

P-ypal is @/DDionysus, and if you want I can throw a sketch your way, thanks!

(Also you know the drill, don't tag as donati-ns or whatevs)

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assimilates-deactivated20241207

GIRL HELP

p*yp*l: /ashleyhablitz | ashleyhablitz @ gmail

$0/$170 (9/3/22)

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assimilates-deactivated20241207

still 0 as of 9/4 please consider helping me...

Posted @withregram • @lizwins_peersupport 988, the new “911 for mental health” launched yesterday, and it’s nothing to celebrate.

988 does not exist to offer coping tools, provide referrals to local mental health resources, or hold space for big existential discussions about the point of carrying on. Hotline staffers use a set of suicide screening questions to decide whether to initiate an “active rescue.” The National Suicide Prevention Line calls the police on approximately 20% of callers; the police use geotracking technology to determine the caller’s location. 988 reduces the likelihood that a cadre of police with guns drawn will respond to a mental health crisis, but 988 will arrange for some police or a mobile crisis team to transport the person to an emergency room or psychiatric facility.

I speak from personal experience: these places are terrifying. I could not believe the medieval medical environment where I was detained. Just because the asylums have closed does not mean the conditions for psychiatric patients have changed.

Emergency rooms do not provide crisis intervention services; they are overcrowded, chaotic holding pens that decide whether to involuntarily hospitalize the person. Psychiatric wards take a fully biomedical and authoritarian approach to mental health, that the problem is with your brain, overmedication is the solution, and non-compliance is punishable by harming peoples’ bodies.

Instead of calling 988, let’s ask people, “What would help look like to you?” If someone is feeling suicidal, it probably means that a series of things have gone wrong in their lives and the situation feels totally unmanageable. Instead of isolating that person in an environment where they are legally powerless, let’s help people solve their problems. What “help” looks like to each person would be different on a case-by-case basis, but 988 gives everyone the same treatment: taking their power away. Peer support resources: @projectlets @kiva_centers @translifeline @wildfloweralliance @peersupportspace #psychiatry #antipsychiatry #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #peersupport #peerled #madpride #988 #suicideprevention https://www.instagram.com/p/CgLhlBoOjU25fcf5stFAjYjpuX7-j4LsgSLi6s0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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