Seeing shit that completely rewrites recent online trans history makes me so frustrated because I was there!!!!!!

Like what do you mean "theyfab was coined by frustrated transfems to express their frustration with transmisogynist nonbinary people"???? I was literally getting called a transtrender theyfab by 4channers as a 15 year old in 2013 because I was a feminine nonbinary kid with a dyed undercut??? In 2016 I was a shithead 18 year old that hated itself and was calling other trans people transtrender theyfabs to try and validate myself????????

It's literally a term born out of misogyny and the idea that feminine nonbinary people who were afab are faking being trans???????????

I didn't escape the depths of 2010's transmedicalism in my early 20's and start dedicating my time towards trying to repair the damage I and others caused just for y'all to completely rewrite that history to try and justify your own hatred of other trans people 😭

trans-friendly

Shinigami eyes is a browser extension that was meant to mark someone as trans friendly or not trans friendly, based on user data and guidelines. A username/site/etc would be marked as green if they were trans-friendly. Red meant not trans friendly.

Due to the developer (developers?) being a trans radfem (meaning they believe that anti transmasculity doesn't exist and afab transfems are trolls (when the latter is usually intersex folks) and intersex people are inheritly anti-trams and "theyfab" isn't a slur... etc.), SE has basically become useless. People who will call enbies "theyfabs" get marked green, while people who believe in anti-transmasculity or believe that sex isn't binary get marked red.

Hope this helps!

refresher for anyone who hasn't heard 🙃

I think the weirdest thing about being aroallo is figuring out how to bring up that with new people. Like a lot of people are down for hookups or down for something casual. And even if you say "yeah I'm not into love" people are typically pretty chill. But for some reason when you say the term aromantic people start to get squirrelly. Like you dropped an anvil right on the conversation.

*literally choking with want* nah man it's fine DW about it

being depressed as shit and in love will have u saying shit like "kill me. i want you to kill me. i want to die with you" and mean it in a romantic sexual context

ever since i was a little boy i knew i wanted to be a mentally ill faggot when i grew up

Reblog if it’s ok for people to give you $599.99

Reblog if it’s ok for people to give you $599.99

Reblog if it’s ok for people to give you $599.99

Messaging people for the first time is so hard. What am I supposed to say? Like, "You seem really odd and your blog intrigues me. Do you want to have philosophical conversations or perhaps talk about fictional characters?" What! Whatever. I will just follow you back and stare at your blog with my big beautiful brown eyes.

Reblog if you're okay with people coming into your DMs with the "you seem really odd and your blog intrigues me, do you want to have philosophical conversations or perhaps talk about fictional characters"

give us more aromantic representation 2k24

give us more aromantic representation 2k25

"so youre saying we should just allow rapists and abusers to remain in society?" where else would they go ⁉️😭🙏 so confused can you show me this place outside of society

people that dont wanna seem like law and order conservatives but have trouble not being a reactive arguer will allude to life prison or the death penalty but waffle on the delivery in 'progressive' spaces so theyll just advocate for exiling them to the wilderness. or something

The worst part is seeing self-labeled "leftist abolitionist anarchist punks" etc say shit like this. If you advocate for mass killing or incarceration of abusers, you probably aren't a leftist, abolitionist, anarchist, punk, or whatever.