flag & coining sb - requests open

@parxgender / parxgender.tumblr.com

i focus on lgbt/disability/kink flags & love music-based identities (my biggest special interests of all time being my chemical romance and waterparks)! blog runs mostly on a long queue.

read more about me, my request info and my instablock list here. my dni applies for ALL interaction, including archive blogs and using my flags.

i automatically delete hate. because nobody on tumblr knows how to behave i have anon asks off. if you want to remain anonymous in your request just say so and i won't answer publicly!

to-do/in progress:

  • alexithymia
  • situfluid
  • bearded dyke/bearded sapphic/bearded woman
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A while back i made a post about lesbians needing our own version of bear culture bc im tired of wlw spaces treating fat and hairy ppl as second rate when were hot af- After a lot of positive reblogs, tags, and comments this is for yโ€™allโ€™s consideration! A flag for any and all bear lesbians out there ๐Ÿ’•

Just some background info: a bear is traditionally a larger (usually fat) hairy gay man who embraces and celebrates the fact they resemble a bear! for lesbian spaces where stigma around both those traits is still a big issue- this could still be the same thing for us ๐Ÿ’• Embracing body hair, fatness, and the ruggedness that comes with it.

Bear dykes/bear lesbians could be butch/femme/unaligned/nonbinary/on testosterone/on estrogen, or anything else. Being a bear is a celebration of a stigmatized body type and body hair- not a commitment to masculinity.

Possible nicknames: teddy bears, bear dykes, ursa/ursulas, butch bear, femme bear (feel free to add more)

What do yall think? ๐Ÿฅฐ

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