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I Guess I Like Things Sometimes

@therealcheekface / therealcheekface.tumblr.com

Hey this is my shitty blog. They/he/she. 23.
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If your excuse for not cleaning up vomit in the house that you live in is some variant of "I am not responsible for the root cause" then you are being a spoiled rotten brat and I will say so to your face.

Left owes right 400 bucks. Maybe this is petty of me, but if someone owes me that kinda money, I’d also make them clean up cat vomit.

giorno poetry systems, "AIDS treatment project 1993/94," front and back of foldout (folded), 1994

what if people over a certain height had a special currency called tall coins that short people didn’t know about. And one day you’re walking with your friend (huge) and she drops something and you pick it up and say what is this and she says oh that’s my tall coin don’t worry about it. But you did worry

it honestly really sucks to have people blowing up my inbox wanting validation for their autistic or queer identity all the time. you have no idea how many questions i get like that. like multiple per day. why are you treating me like i am an authority on your life. i don't know you, you don't know me. why are you giving someone else that responsibility? you get to decide. that's it. that's the freedom, that is the responsibility. you decide. it's on you.

what people are really asking is for me to make them feel better about who they are and to give them a sense of community belonging. i'm sorry, i cannot actually do that. i can say nice reassuring things that you deserve to hear but it is no replacement for you actively claiming who you are for yourself and participating in building community with other people so that your identity can be expressed and seen. there is no shortcut for that. nobody else can give it to you. you have to claim it. with your actions.

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