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@vesvosmozhno

MDNI | Call me Ves | 20 | he/they | Fanfic Author, Artist, K-Pop Stan | only partially sane | Gatekeeper of Kang Yeosang (he lives in my pocket :>) | Delulu is the Solulu (in modest amounts)

i think we should bring this back (with some amendments ofc) if we ever needed an "internet etiquette" for the younger generations, now is the moment to remind them. purity culture kills fandom

Don't Like, Don't Read (DL;DR), Your Kink is not My Kink And That's OK (YKINMKATO) and Ship and Let Ship

📣 Purity culture kills fandom! 📣

NO ONE LIVING hasn't been squicked out by something. There's over 7 billion of us, my delights and disgusts aren't universal. So I move on. Don't like the ship? Move on. Don't like____? Move on.

I am not an exception. Neither are you. I don't like it I move on and shut my gob about it because everyone everywhere is squicked out by something and they need to put the thing down and just…motor.

This but also:

Frames this entire post and hangs it over the fireplace.

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Yeosang said nonbinary rights 🗣️🏳️‍⚧️

Okay i think yeosang actually solved a massive gender debate btw

"They/them isn't grammatically correct you're not multiple people" "there's no way to use they/them in other languages so therefore they/thems are just a woke america thing and don't have any cultural standing anywhere international!"

But every language has a version of it!!! Which is a completely gender neutral way to refer to one person!

And before anyone runs to scream "thats dehumanizing!!!" No its not. Thats just closeted queerphobia. Its literally "they? youre not multiple people." in a trench coat. If you dont personally like it, thats fine. Just like how i dont personally like she/her.

But its only dehumanizing because they needed a reason to make us bad guys for using nonlinear pronouns. You will still use it/its for people who ask you to, because not doing so makes you transphobic.

Anyway thats my whole little ramble Yeosang solved gender

i must correct you — not in every language

for example in poland there's no proper way to use they/them (specifically in adjectives and verbs in the past and future)

as an example i'll take the verb "went"

I went — Ja szłam (if it's a girl)/Ja szedłem (if it's a boy)

They went — Oni szli (if it's a bunch of boys or girls and boys mixed)/one szły (if there are only girls)

it's just impossible to have a proper grammar with they/them in this language. like you can be only gender neutral if you're talking about present and not using adjectives like "Jestem szczęśliwy" — I am happy (if it's a man) and "Jestem szczęśliwa" (if it's a woman)

disclaimer: i'm just saying that how our language works. you're either going here by she/her or he/him and there's no third option

I actually said every language has a version of "it" lmao, does Polish have that?

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Nobody's gonna know what I'm talking about but damn the traffic to kelantan is crazy this year??? My uncle's been otw there for over 24 hours bro it's madness, like I think just getting through gua musang took him nearly six hours

Hey kiki have i ever told u that ur so cool??? If u ever want to share id love to hear more about your cultural background(s)

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the thing about being nonbinary is that you really do start to forget that other people have such strict walls around what is and isn’t allowed for genders. i thought we all agreed that we made that up. could you climb out of the cave real quick and feel the sunshine for a minute.

I revel in the knowledge that my true gender would make even queer people cry. I feel powerful

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I hate Racists

(for fucking context becuase people are getting mad at this post being made for 'brownie points' this was made becuase I was pissed off at a Racist asshole and wanted to express my dissatisfaction)

I hate People whose reaction to an inclusive statement is to question and belittle and rip apart instead of just accepting what should be a widely acceptable thing to say which is more in line with racism/etc than it is with being inclusive

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Out of interest, who do you think the silhouettes are left to right?

I'm thinking Mingi, Seonghwa, San, Yunho, Yeosang, Wooyoung, Jongho, Hongjoong but I'm only super sure of Mingi and Jongho. 😂

Mingi, Wooyoung, San, Seonghwa, Hongjoong, Yunho, Jongho, Yeosang

Im pretty certain on Mingi, San, Seonghwa, Hongjoong, Yunho and Jongho

what is your eye color. what is your favorite color. what is the color that appears most frequently in your wardrobe. what color is your favorite blanket. what color is your water bottle.

Black... sorry... yeah... ik im lame... ik its not a real color... my favorite shade... sorry...

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OMG RAVN RELEASED A SINGLE?!?!?!

On this topic does anyone want to hear my crazy conspiracy about kpop companies and artists that get kicked out of groups

*sits down and waits for you to start because hell yeah*

I have a theory that when an idol isn't doing "well enough" or meets backlash from netizens upon debut companies will make up a scandal as an excuse to get them out of the company, or to some extent will publicize or bring attention to a scandal that is false or never would have blown up otherwise

Obviously there are legitimately problematic idols like Woojin, Lucas, Rising Sun to name a few

But with idols like. Ravn. Seunghan. Idols that get caught at clubs or dating.

I think it wouldn't be surprising if companies were making these things up or blowing things out of proportion to have a reason to get rid of idols that aren't doing well

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y’all i lost my student id. what if someone tries to steal my identity 😰

Its me. Im stealing your identity. Im going to all your classes and doing all your homework. Im getting into the campus library and taking a lot of notes and doing a lot of research. Im getting into your dorm and leaving notebooks neatly and clearly outlining everything you need to know on your desk. AND i cited all the sources if you ever need to do further research or cite sources on a paper. Also I broke into your enemies' dorm and released a single cute and harmless mouse.

the one think i hate about being an atiny is the fact that i can’t pick a favorite ateez song. i’ve been listening to iomt a LOT recently and i think to myself “wow this one is my favorite!” and then bouncy, selfish waltz, it’s you, inception, fireworks, youth, or crazy form come on and, once again, i go “wow this one is my favorite!”

Im loyal to Halazia id die for that song

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