Is it me or are authors unable to write a confident character, don't get me wrong but every character who is described as confident always happens to have “I don't care what they think” or "I am better than anyone in this room" attitude which is more egotistical than confidence, so how can they be described as confidence when in reality they're unable to accept the fact that they are wrong, unable to be respectful, unable to be nonjudgmental, unable to ask for help, which is sad cause they promoting confidence in the wrong way. On the other hand it is well described in children's books.