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@wingedcatgirl / wingedcatgirl.tumblr.com

Sylvi Mintleaf Tempest, it/they/she | Girl of cat and mess of brain | I like video games, cats, and writing fiction | yes i'm an adult, no you don't need an exact number

hey there everynyan it's time for a new pinned post again

i'm mintleaf wingedcatgirl, it/she, local snuggly transfem catgirl #2424. i'm an adult but i've made it a policy that the entire internet is not just inherently entitled to my exact age on demand. if you truly must know, i'm sure you can dig up some birthday post i made before i had this policy and work it out yourself.

you may know me from being gay and not going to bed on time.

things i'm into include final fantasy xiv, fallen london (character list down below the cut), balatro (i'm making a mod! go look at it! it's fun!), tales of symphonia, terraria, kingdom hearts, puyo puyo, miraculous ladybug, cats (the animal, not the musical), and being queer and awesome. i write fanfic sometimes and am also vaguely attempting to work on original fic, so hello to writblr as well. a works list is below the cut

we're plural, but the headmates currently don't talk much here. this may or may not change in future. you can always say hi if you wanna

if you wanna find us elsewhere for such reasons as *gestures vaguely at fucking everything about this webbed site*:

  • your most reliable option is dreamwidth; we don't post there much but we do check regularly so a comment on any of our posts will get our attention
  • you can ask for our discord @ if we're friends (read: have interacted twice ever) or our server links if we're acquaintances (read: you're not a spambot)
  • we also have a sorta dead and disused forum, trouble cube. It's There™

but tbqh we don't plan to leave tumblr unless we're forced to. by the entire website being shut down, for example.

below the cut, some lists:

Two coexisting truths:

  1. When someone comes out to you, you did not "know it", because there are a lot of ways that even the most straightforward gender situation can develop.
  2. One must at times acknowledge that, of all the ways it could have gone, this is one of the less surprising ones.

One of the benefits of broadening one's horizons beyond the half-a-dozen tabletop RPGs the "play a second game" crowd predictably trots out every time the topic of alternatives to Dungeons & Dragons comes up is that no matter how weird and isolating and unrelatable you think your deal is, eventually you will bump into a game written by and for someone who has exactly the same thing wrong with them that you do.

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"We should abandon due process so we can more effectively hurt minorities" you first. waive your right to due process. come on. go ahead. oh this thing I'm holding? don't worry about it it's definitely not faked evidence that you did a violent crime

I think the best advice I ever got to stop myself from getting in my head over issues i was having with a partner/friend was “Are you deciding on ultimatums in your relationship without the other persons knowledge or consent? Are you having conversations in your head where the other party is a projection you supply the responses for? If so; you have done this person a huge disservice in not allowing them to answer on their own terms. You have done so much architecture around this problem in your mind that is impenetrable for anyone who was not there when it was being built.”

That shit really changed my life and honestly? I think made me a nicer person to be around.

Not to dump my dirty laundry or whatever you call it on your post but I realized this when I was a kid and everybody in my family would say "wow Max how is it that you never seem to be involved in conflict or drama???" all bewildered and shit and then when I was an adolescent and started having more mature relationships for the first time my parents and everyone that I trusted spent like 5 to 10 years trying to unconvince me of this truth and get me to deal with people in a more petty and scheming way because they genuinely just thought that's how you're supposed to do it and thankfully it didn't work but it reeeeally fucked me up lol haha AH

it's funny how every time a US president gets elected and starts dramatically slashing government spending and privatising everything they all start acting like it's never happened before ever and is a unique and brand new economic policy lol

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2023 recap!!!

jan: forgot

feb: forgot

march: forgot

april: forgot

may: forgot

june: forgot

july: forgot

aug: forgot

sep: forgot

oct: forgot

nov: forgot

dec: forgot

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