hi, a lot of you need a perspective reset
- the average human lifespan globally is 70+ years
- taking the threshold of adulthood as 18, you are likely to spend at least 52 years as a fully grown adult
- at the age of 30 you have lived less than one quarter of your adult life (12/52 years)
- 'middle age' is typically considered to be between 45-65
- it is extremely common to switch careers, start new relationships, emigrate, go to college for the first or second time, or make other life-changing decisions in middle age
- it's wild that I even have to spell it out, but older adults (60+) still have social lives and hobbies and interests.
- you can still date when you get old. you can still fuck. you can still learn new skills, be fashionable, be competitive. you can still gossip, you can still travel, you can still read. you can still transition. you can still come out.
- young doesn't mean peaked. you're inexperienced in your 20s! you're still learning and practicing! you're developing social skills and muscle memory that will last decades!
- there are a million things to do in the world, and they don't vanish overnight because an imaginary number gets too big
It's evident in the little things how much Hae Seong cares about Su Ah and it is just so endearing to watch. It's so evident in his smile, his gaze, his gestures. My heart melts everytime I watch a scene that shows how smitten he is.
(Ep 11 spoilers ahead)
When there's a chair right beside her but he kneels at her feet and softly looks at her with admiration while listening to her talk.
The way he confesses in a class *and* corridor full of high school kids and just stares at her with a big smile while she is processing what he just said. He doesn't care about anything but her at that moment.
When she runs towards him and offers to walk him to the school door, and he just endearingly smiles at her as they start walking. And can't forget that shoulder bump.
When she's serving him food at the restaurant, his smile is so wide and bright.
When she asks him if to eat and rest during the funeral, and he just softly smiles at her and tells her not to worry about him because he's okay. Because he doesn't want *her* to worry about him.
When he gently takes her hand in his and thanks her while staring at her with gratitude, because he's so thankful that she showed up to be there for *him*.
She's become an important part of his life, and might even have become the most important person to him. Because why would an ex-NIS Agent call a civilian to ask for help instead of his fellow ex-NIS agents, who technically would have more resources and ways to help him. When he is in danger, she is the first person he thinks of to call for help.
And the part which basically prompted me to make this whole post - he's memorized her number🥹 Somewhere along the way he consciously made the effort to memorize it AND he remembered it even with a severe head injury.
This man is so smitten.
If you think about it, treasures aren’t that far away. My treasure are these people. The past I spent with them. The present I’m spending with them. And the future I’ll spend with them. Every moment is sparkling. I hope you find your own treasures. Even if it takes time, I hope you find the warmest and the brightest light.
Undercover High School 언더커버하이스쿨 (2025) Dir. Choi Jung In – Ep. 12
They're chatting!
"you comphy?" "Yeah." "You sure?" "Yeah" 🥺
Green eyes shouldn’t actually be considered an eye color. It’s just not common enough, it’s a VERY SMALL percentage of the population, 1-2%. Green eyes are also caused by an irregular mutation. Most people have blue or brown eyes, so those are the two eye colors.
All the “green eyes” positivity is actually a bad thing, by the way. Having green eyes is linked to higher rates of retinal melanoma. You’re celebrating something dangerous that can cause suffering.
And besides, most people with “green eyes” lean closer to blue or brown anyways. They should just make up their minds and be brown eyed or blue eyed. And if it’s too hard to tell, they should get corrective surgery (because green eyes are dangerous, and associated with more difficult medical care!) or at the least wear contacts so they don’t confuse people. But also they should be required to
I hate to sound like this, but green eyes are a far more recent development than blue eyes in the mutagenic history of humans. So humans weren’t created to have green eyes.
And hazel eyes? Those are just a variant of brown eyes—come on, they’re far closer to brown than green. They just have a couple greenish traits. And there’s no way there’s that many green eyed people, or a wide variety of eye colors… It’s just not natural.
I don’t have a problem with green eyed people, they didn’t ask to be born that way—but there’s just too few of them for it to be an actual eye color. We don’t need all this “green eye positivity” or putting green eyes in media. The internet is making people delude themselves into thinking it’s more common than it really is.
‼️ THIS POST IS ABOUT THE TREATMENT OF INTERSEX PEOPLE ‼️
✅ I HAVE GREEN EYES THIS IS SATIRE ✅
⚠️ PLEASE DON’T SEND ME ANY MORE THREATS OF VIOLENCE IN DEFENSE OF PEOPLE WITH GREEN EYES?? ⚠️
💧 THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT EYE COLOR?? IT’S ABOUT INTERSEXISM AND BIGOTRY 💧
there’s nothing wrong with overly self-indulgent shit like honestly
make that fuckin beauty and the beast au with your otp
draw your favorite character broken and bloody for no reason
make a self-insert that’s super important and powerful
write porn of that obscure ship centered entirely around your personal kinks
headcanon your faves as your sexuality, gender, etc
have fun man
i mean in the past i’ve made fun of all these things but i’ve grown up and chilled out and honestly? fiction is your platform to go nuts. have a great time. do what you want to
just respect other people’s boundaries and don’t go forcing your headcanons down other people’s throats, because they deserve to have a good time too
enjoy fiction however you want to and don’t let other people tell you how it’s supposed to be enjoyed
to all the people reblogging this and saying “except for this type of ship i don’t like”: get bent
Turns out the gap between "i should make this a full fic" and actually writing the full fic is a gorge several miles wide