To A Friend

Forgive me if I hurt you, you hurt me too 

but today I forgive you.

I may not trust you the same 

 but it's about time to be friends again.

I'm re-opening my door of friendship for you,

 just come-in whenever you want to.

Which is which?

Being single especially when you are already in your late 20's and beyond has its social pressure, like a lot will be asking why you are not still married, when are you getting married, when are you going to give us grandchildren, are you a lesbian/gay and you are not getting any younger, you might not be able to bear a child anymore, so on... but have you ever think of those who are married and struggling to feed their families? Hold on... I'm not condemning or blaming anyone here because as they say regardless of your life situation just watching your children around could ease all the tiredness from working hard for your family. Of course I could not confirm this as of the moment I don't have a family on my own yet ( I only have dogs whom I consider as part of my family ^_^ ) but I have friends who are happily married and there are few who are not, on the other hand I also have friends who are happily single and some are desperate already to get married. My point here is I see the perks and the struggles of both sides, I understand where they are coming from but I'm just thinking which is harder, the struggle of a single person who is most of the time alone and has a tendency of longing to love and be loved or parents who are struggling to provide a good life for their families and have the tendency to be away from the family they've been wanting for just to give them a good future?

I have some points in my head regarding this topic but I'm not in my deepest thoughts right now but hopefully you get what I mean. :)