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I Promise by itsfaberrytaboo (orphan_account)
Fandoms: Marvel Cinematic Universe, The Avengers (Marvel) - All Media Types
14 May 2017
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She thought back to that night in New York. How it seemed to take forever for her to get there, when she knew Natasha was hurt and waiting for her. She tried not to think of the cuts to Natasha’s skin, the bruises, but instead Maria’s mind focused on what propelled Natasha to that point, to a need so hungry she’d go to a BDSM club for relief.
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- Part 2 of Needed
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Unspoken by ezazahaz
Fandoms: The Avengers - Ambiguous Fandom, The Avengers (Marvel Movies), Iron Man (Movies), Captain America (Movies), Marvel Cinematic Universe
16 Jul 2020
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Having a safeword isn’t enough if someone’s afraid to use it.
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When Zag and Meg's bickering finally starts to affect her and Than's excellent working relationship, Than gets to the bottom of what really happened between them years ago.
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Izuku of class 3-A just wanted a normal summer work study experience. That seems like too much to ask when he's abducted by villains and stranded on a deserted island with Dabi. At least it's a tropical beach instead of an icy forest this time.
Sequel to Snow Blind.
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- Part 2 of Making the Most (Together)
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Being Good (And Other Enjoyable Activities) by Faster_Than_the_Speed_of_Sound
Fandoms: Supernatural
03 Apr 2022
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At his local BDSM club, Dean is well-known for being a bit of brat. Unfortunately for him, that means most of the regulars try to stay far away, leaving only the cruelest or most desperate Doms to consider scening with Dean.
On Friday nights, though, sometimes there are new people. Sometimes there are Doms who haven't been around before, who are more willing to give Dean a chance to be good.
And this time... This time, there's a blue-eyed Dom that Dean's never seen before and is more than happy to scene with. He expects the guy to eventually get frustrated with him and leave, like all the others, but Castiel has some tricks up his sleeve and an unshakeable patience that might just lead to an interesting night after all...
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- Part 1 of Being Good
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It's been four weeks since Dean first met Castiel and had the best BDSM scene of his life. Now that he's finally worked up the courage to ask the Dom if he wants to do a second scene, he finds himself in Eden once again, this time with much less bravado and confidence than before.
Dean's spent his whole existence as a sub trying to bully Doms into leaving him in the hopes of finding one that will stay. Now that he has, he's terrified to learn that he doesn't have any idea how to keep him. Worse, he has no idea if Castiel even wants anything to do with him, since the Dom didn't contact him for a solid four weeks after their first scene...
And then Dean finds out a way to fuck everything up even more spectacularly than he imagined, because that's what he does. It's a good thing Castiel is there to catch him when he falls.
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- Part 2 of Being Good
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It was only their third scene together outside of the club when Dean used his safeword for the first time.
In his seven years as a Dom, Castiel had only had a submissive safeword with him once, and that was just because their ropes had been a little too tight and they’d wanted them loosened. Castiel prided himself on being careful, on being attentive. And he was especially careful and especially attentive when it came to Dean.
He knew most of Dean’s triggers. Or at least, he thought he did. But God help him, he hadn’t been aware of Dean’s trauma surrounding gags, and he wasn’t lucky enough to learn about it before he trampled all over it.
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- Part 3 of Being Good
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Dean Winchester has had more than his fair share of bad experiences with Dominants in the past. He's not exactly the smartest when it comes to choosing his partners (or maybe he was just desperate for SOMEONE to take care of him, even if it was badly). But now, he somehow seems to have hit the jackpot. He's got a Dom who he can trust, someone he would blindly put his faith in any day.
Emphasis on the "blindly" part.
One of Dean's triggers has always been a blindfold. It's always been a part of his "hard limits" section after numerous bad experiences in the past. But now that he has someone he trusts, he starts to wonder if there's more to the things he previously feared...
He's about to find out.
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- Part 4 of Being Good
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Izzy runs on schedules. As young men, Izzy and Ed crafted a schedule to keep Izzy happy by the use of physical stimulation. However, Ed has never been good at keeping those schedules so Izzy grows restless and unhappy. Stede decides to step up and perform those duties to keep his First Mate and lover happy.
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Dean Winchester has been in a healthy BDSM relationship with the Dom of his dreams for several months now. Even though he's been working through some things with Cas, there are still parts of the healthy Dom/sub dynamic that he isn't super familiar with.
For instance: subdrop.
Oh, Dean is familiar with dropping alright. It used to be a regular thing, back before Cas. He's just not used to what comes after. Because while Dean is a good, kind, smart person, no one in the History of Ever has accused him of having good self-esteem.
Good thing he's not alone in this fight.
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- Part 6 of Being Good
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“Pretty bitch you got there,” a nasally voice remarked, horribly familiar and terrifyingly close.
Dean went absolutely still. Every muscle in his body locked up, a shameful response to the presence of a predator. Because as much as Dean liked to project himself as someone who fought when it came to a nasty situation, in reality, he froze every time.
“I’m sorry, who are you?” he heard Castiel ask. His Dom sounded carefully neutral, his guardedness obvious in his tone.
“The name’s Alastair,” the man said, and Dean felt a chill skate down his spine. “I couldn’t help but notice you two across the club. I’d recognize Dean-o anywhere.”
Or: Dean and Castiel return to Eden, the club where they first met, to do a scene and have some fun. They get harassed, Dean is reminded that he's not alone anymore, and then the boys fuck like animals in the back rooms.
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- Part 7 of Being Good
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He still remembers pacing up and down the little room, five steps to the window, five steps to the door, wearing a goddamn groove in the tile and fighting to keep his voice down as his best friend stared up at him from the hospital bed. I'm a cop, 'Tachi! Why didn't you tell me? How long has this been going on?
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You're the daughter of a technology mogul who has recently made a startling discovery about her father. Upset, you leave your home and wander the city. Soon you're taken against your will by an impossibly strong mutant mercenary: Victor Creed. He's not all that meets the eye and you find that sometimes the devil you know isn't better after all.
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- Part 1 of Maybe
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in which Magnus Bane and Alec Lightwood walk into a D/s club one evening
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It’s when he sends away a particularly pretty blonde sub with slight bimbo energy that he sees him.
Stood a few feet away from him is an angel wrapped in sheer silk and leather. The angel is leant against the bar, seemingly unperturbed by his surroundings, and the blue and purple lights are bouncing off of his dark curls, painting him in a kind of iridescent glow, like he’s truly an angel. There’s a half-empty martini glass in front of the angel and Nick watches as he stretches his neck to wrap his tongue then lips around the straw, transfixed at the way his throat bobs with his swallows. Nick feels his trousers tighten and finds himself stepping towards the angel before he can properly think.
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in which nick stumbles upon a sub, who struggles to let people in
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- Part 1 of School's Out (Teacher's Pet)
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After accepting Lucifer's proposition, Alastor's arrangement with the King has evolved into something far more intimate than they ever imagined. Whatever this is, both are willing to put in the work to make it through any emerging obstacles.
What Alastor hadn't expected was for said pesky obstacles to come from outside their little bubble, or for them to involve the lingering ghosts of his previous relationship.
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- Part 2 of What the Hart Wants
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my safeword is safeword by AnonFandomBandit, orphan_account
Fandoms: Agatha All Along (TV)
08 Feb 2025
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“Oh, you’ll have to tie me down if you want me to submit to you,” Agatha explains casually.
Rio stares, trying to process that. “I need to tie you down?” she says, bewildered. “For you to… get into the correct headspace?”
“No, I will literally fight you if you don’t tie me up. And I mean entirely immobilized. I’ll claw your eyes out or try and bite you otherwise.”
Agatha Harkness has been accused of being a bad sub. She categorically denies it, and hires a dominatrix to prove it. She is by far the most interesting and challenging client Rio Vidal has ever faced.
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Being Good by Faster_Than_the_Speed_of_Soun
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https://archiveofourown.org/series/2853127Pairing: Castiel/Dean Winchester, Dean/Alastair (past)
Words: 68,169
Works: 7Work 1: Being Good (And Other Enjoyable Activities)
https://archiveofourown.org/works/38150671Words: 10,099
Chapters: 1/1Summary:
At his local BDSM club, Dean is well-known for being a bit of brat. Unfortunately for him, that means most of the regulars try to stay far away, leaving only the cruelest or most desperate Doms to consider scening with Dean.On Friday nights, though, sometimes there are new people. Sometimes there are Doms who haven't been around before, who are more willing to give Dean a chance to be good.
And this time... This time, there's a blue-eyed Dom that Dean's never seen before and is more than happy to scene with. He expects the guy to eventually get frustrated with him and leave, like all the others, but Castiel has some tricks up his sleeve and an unshakeable patience that might just lead to an interesting night after all...
Work 2: What It's All About
https://archiveofourown.org/works/38275564Words: 10,661
Chapters: 1/1Summary:
It's been four weeks since Dean first met Castiel and had the best BDSM scene of his life. Now that he's finally worked up the courage to ask the Dom if he wants to do a second scene, he finds himself in Eden once again, this time with much less bravado and confidence than before.Dean's spent his whole existence as a sub trying to bully Doms into leaving him in the hopes of finding one that will stay. Now that he has, he's terrified to learn that he doesn't have any idea how to keep him. Worse, he has no idea if Castiel even wants anything to do with him, since the Dom didn't contact him for a solid four weeks after their first scene...
And then Dean finds out a way to fuck everything up even more spectacularly than he imagined, because that's what he does. It's a good thing Castiel is there to catch him when he falls.
Work 3: Working Out the Speed Bumps
https://archiveofourown.org/works/38357119Words: 6,672
Chapters: 1/1Summary:
It was only their third scene together outside of the club when Dean used his safeword for the first time.In his seven years as a Dom, Castiel had only had a submissive safeword with him once, and that was just because their ropes had been a little too tight and they’d wanted them loosened. Castiel prided himself on being careful, on being attentive. And he was especially careful and especially attentive when it came to Dean.
He knew most of Dean’s triggers. Or at least, he thought he did. But God help him, he hadn’t been aware of Dean’s trauma surrounding gags, and he wasn’t lucky enough to learn about it before he trampled all over it.
Work 4: Blind Trust (Blind Love)
https://archiveofourown.org/works/38417338Words: 9,851
Chapters: 1/1Summary:
Dean Winchester has had more than his fair share of bad experiences with Dominants in the past. He's not exactly the smartest when it comes to choosing his partners (or maybe he was just desperate for SOMEONE to take care of him, even if it was badly). But now, he somehow seems to have hit the jackpot. He's got a Dom who he can trust, someone he would blindly put his faith in any day.Emphasis on the "blindly" part.
One of Dean's triggers has always been a blindfold. It's always been a part of his "hard limits" section after numerous bad experiences in the past. But now that he has someone he trusts, he starts to wonder if there's more to the things he previously feared...
He's about to find out.
Work 5: Belonging
https://archiveofourown.org/works/39016602Words: 11,427
Chapters: 2/2Summary:
Dean's having a good time. His life is great, he's happy, and he's in a relationship with a guy he really likes and really trusts. Everything is a-okay for a while, until said guy is pulled across the country to go to some stupid business convention, leaving Dean behind.Dean's brain has a history of not being very kind to him, and certain circumstances send everything spiraling downhill. When Castiel returns, will he be able to repair whatever damage Dean has mentally dealt to himself and their relationship?
Probably. It's just gonna take some spankings and a whole lotta tears first.
Work 6: Healing
https://archiveofourown.org/works/39710139Words: 12,707
Chapters: 1/1Work 7: Paradise Found
https://archiveofourown.org/works/39860799Words: 6,752
Chapters: 1/1