What to say to an avoidant

Learn the signs of an anxious attachment style, how it effects adult relationships, how to develop a more secure attachment style.

They "move on" because they don't know what else to do. 🙄 The Overfunctioning Woman betrays herself when she works to accommodate this “moving on” - aka their emotional immaturity and avoidance. 😐 The Self-Restored Woman honors herself by expecting them to step up and learn how to be an emotionally mature and engaged partner. 😌 And if they don't, she decides if this works for her. 🔥 #selfrestorationismine #overfunctioningwoman #overfunctioning #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriage…

Underfunctioning is on a spectrum, ranging from mild to severe. Common Underfunctioning archetypes include: 😕 The Nice Guy 😣 The Avoidant 😩 The Narcissist But regardless of what we call it or where they're at on the spectrum, being on the receiving end of Underfunctioning does not feel good! 💔 What have been your experiences with Underfunctioning? Please share below 👇 #overfunctioningwoman #narcissistictraits #emotionalimmaturity #relationshipinsights #marriagetalk #selfawareness...

✨️Learning to say "NO" is a vital skill that can transform your life. 🙌 It empowers you to protect your time, avoid burnout, and focus on what truly adds value to your life. Every time you express a respectful refusal, you not only affirm your boundaries but also encourage others to do the same.🩷 #LearningToSayNo #BoundarySetting #PersonalEmpowerment #TimeManagement #BurnoutPrevention #SelfCare #Assertiveness #HealthyBoundaries #LifeTransformation #MentalHealth #Time4changesorg

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So we try to let them down gently by avoiding saying no outright or avoiding making our lack of interest clear. And what could have been an awkward situation in the short term becomes a problem that lingers and multiplies.