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cass is gonna pull up to gotham dried tears on her face eyebags on her eyebags bruised scratched and bleeding looking like the wettest most pathetic cat to ever exist and the family is gonna be like hey girl. what the fuck happened to you. i don’t even think she’d tell them i think she’s marching straight to babs giving her a hug meaning one million things she cannot voice aloud and then crashing for two days straight to avoid everyone’s questions

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Anonymous asked:

it would be funny if the wider fandoms understanding of bruce and cass’s dynamic was also the way the boys specifically dick and jason saw bruce and cass’s relationship just bc they aren’t typically around as much 😭

aingeal98 answered:

Dick and Jason venting at the clocktower: Idk man she’s just… Such a perfect angel like she’s so sweet and everything he could want in a kid and I get why he treats her so well but it’s like… Why can’t he treat me that way too? Why does she get the wholesome good dad and I have to deal with all the messiness? Oooh you’re his perfect angel child and the next batman? Well good for you I guess you never have to deal with the pressure of his expectations crushing you and destroying your psyche :/

Babs, listening to all of this after spending the morning screaming at Bruce to stop encouraging Cass to stay awake until cases are solved because “You don’t get it Barbara. She understands we won’t be able to rest well until justice is served” :

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Anonymous asked:

Everyone: girl dad bruce 😔😩😌

Barbara:

aingeal98 answered:

What everyone pictures when they say girldad Bruce: Guy who adores Cass and treats her like his little princess and lets her get away with everything and will stay still while she does his hair and paints his nails.

What Barbara has seen that actually fits the girldad label in the most toxic of ways: Projection, holding her to the same impossible standards he holds himself because she’s Just That Good, isolating her, possessive and threatened by the thought of her dating aka shotgun dad, in denial that she can be anything less than perfect in a way that actively hurts both of them, that kind of specific girldad misogyny where she IS his little princess but this is Not A Good Thing half of the time. Or even most of the time depending on who you ask. Her father’s favourite son in the sense that he doesn’t particularly care for anything girly she might be interested in and dismisses most of them as a waste of time, but LOVES sparring and solving cases with her. Swings between overbearing when she’s doing well and neglectful/dismissive once she messes up. Give Barbara Gordon a hammer and let her bonk Bruce Wayne on the head with it at least once. She’s earned it.

Note: This is preboot Bruce and Cass. New 52 and Rebirth Bruce and Cass are a lot healthier but also a lot simpler.

he might be a girldad but he's absolutely a toxic one