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Anonymous :  When are you releasing your next poem?

i’m posting a picture/visual poem in the coming week.

icsarus :  Hi, I'm Leziel and I really liked your 'Hello My Name is...' immigrant poem, I sent an email about this as well, but I thought maybe you'd have a faster time seeing this message. I'd really like your permission to use the poem for an english presentation. Full credit would be given to you and even authorial context would be gratefully utilised. In any case, I'd really appreciate a response to the email. Thank you so much!

yep! thanks for being diligent & making sure i see it, i have a permissions letter ready from the last time someone did a school project on a poem so i’ll email you a version of that letter by midnight tonight at the latest, otherwise you have my full consent to begin 🎓📝📚

Anonymous :  I just read one of your creative writings for the first time and it touched every cell of my heart. Thank you.

give your cells my warmest regards!

Anonymous :  Hey. Im really hurting because i cant let go of a toxic "relationship", does it get easier if you just let go. Can u eventually unlove that person. Please just help me

hey! so I don’t have much experience with this. Perhaps a counselor would be of more help.

But what I CAN tell you is this: it’s not all or nothing. You can mentally divide what you loved about that person FROM who that person was or what they did to you.
So for example, you can love that they showed up every single day with coffee for you (a trait) but you can hate him! If it helps, take it one day at time and write out what it was about him that you loved and you’ll maybe begin to see that what you loved were traits he showcased and not actually him. Then you can take that information, and you can find someone who shows those traits & ISNT him. You are allowed to love him in the pieces that remind you of good times! But you don’t have to keep him with you.

vanellatwilightt :  I just want to say that I love a lot of your writing, especially Coffee. But I have a question about it. Could you explain "I did, I keep giving birth to stillborn versions myself hoping one of us lives"? In particular the "myself" seems like it should be "of myself," but I think I'm understanding it wrong?

And sorry if my message seems rude in any way. I simply wish to understand it and see if I’m missing something important!

i always welcome thoughts and critique so dont feel bad about ur message, also i dont take myself too seriously im not winning pulitzers for this stuff (yet!). what you’re referencing from the powm is:

 “to a bystander I must look like I just gave birth but the secret is: I did, I keep giving birth to stillborn versions myself hoping one of us lives.

it was a typo, but i didnt feel like editing it after people started reblogging it, just for the sake of continuity, also im really lazy yikes. u are correct and there is no deeper meaning unless you want there to be

Anonymous :  Someone recommended your poetry to me yesterday and now I can't stop reading your work. You're amazing

😳
I apologize for the recent decline in my work, I haven’t been up to par and it reflects but uhhh thank you. I hope to become worthy of your compliments one day 🙏🏽

fidwaa-deactivated20190406 :  so grateful for you and your writing 💖

🙏🏽 I appreciate you!

qalbtalk-deactivated20231105 :  The piece of yours - Coffee - gets me everytime. Such an outstanding account of vulnerability and human experience.

it is very much a “living exploration” piece of a time that was outstanding singularly for the overall weight+negativity, good eye

nonhapiupareti :  I liked that Brezsny used a sentence of yours this week ;-) www freewillastrology com/ horoscopes/ gemini html

Definitely surreal!

Thanks for sharing it with me. It’s always strange but extremely validating when established poets // other poets acknowledge me, I don’t know why but I always feel like I’m shouting into a black hole more often than not lol

Anonymous :  Hi! I was wondering what influences you to write like you do? Is there anything that inspires you?

hello hello, i grew up relatively isolated, so i garnered a love of books that evolved to words really early on so now im onto dissecting individual letters in words. somewhat ironically, i hated poetry and i still struggle with liking it to this day. i think that’s what “inspires” me whenever i write, the idea of making something that isn’t common sense-y, that isn’t boring, that isn’t just like …the same thing regurgitated over and over and over again. 

hmm im not “good” at a timetable; i know, and agree, that the most important thing is to create a writing schedule and stick to it but i honestly cant stand the thought of creating something just bc it’s scheduled, like my words are so meaningless that something as fake as time can dictate that they “come.” or else!!!, or any other reason than the poem itself is speaking to an underlying part of me and it must be expressed. anyway, my writing usually sucks IMO but it’s still something i enjoy sharing on a certain level bc humanity seeks communication, seeks to be acknowledged and i think the same goes for our feelings + thoughts too.

bottom line is that i like things that i would personally like to see or read or hear. things that i haven’t seen or things that are a combination of things i’ve seen in a way that i haven’t seen. 

thewhitelinenroom-deactivated20 :  "Winter's Wildflowers" means so much to me. I'm a young adult in my mid-twenties paying a major price for such burdens & blessings written in Winter's Wildflowers. I was too busy trying to ensure a safe boundary between a single parent's mental health issues and younger siblings. I just wanted to say thank you. In an elegant summary, you described a struggle and pain that resonates. Because of that, I can now recognize it and relate with others. Thank you for your words.

I am elated that you were able to take something from my words and use it. Thank you for sharing this with me! I wish you the best.

girldadlestat :  ur poetry is so good!!! :))()

whoa thank you so much!

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adderallanngel :  your blog is so beautiful. i am in love

welcome! hope you enjoy your time here <3

thewhitelinenroom-deactivated20 :  No questions, but I just wanted to say I think you've discovered an excellent way to finesse the wordsmith within you. I am grateful for you sharing.

it’s a bit of a tug-of-war with the wordsmith, sometimes she wants to play other times she leaves but i’ll figure out a way to get her to stay eventually. maybe with some flowers and chocolate. i think she’ll like that. 

thank you for sharing this with me :) 

drippinginthunder :  Have you heard of Myers Briggs 16 personality types there are free online tests you should check it out 😄

Oh! Yes I know, it just didn’t immediately click for me. I’m an ENTP I believe but my intro/extroversion are close in range like 52% ex, 48% in :)

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