hello. I’m back.
Anonymous asked: "Please, do you have any advice for going through a particularly hard break up? This isn’t my first rodeo, but I’ve never ever felt this way before. No one sparked my soul like he did. I had never felt the “oh wow, it’s you” until I met him. He was everything I wanted, everything I’ve been looking for - and I’m not young. I had truly never felt this way about anyone. I have people interested in me often, but they aren’t him. I feel broken. I can’t move on and I feel so trapped. "
I really wish I had advice for you. I went through this relatively recently too and haven't really made it through unscathed. I had to come to terms that it was bad timing, and now that I’ve spent time on myself I always think I wish I was this person 2 years ago, and that’s a hard thing to stomach. People say time helps, but that hasn’t proven entirely true so don't bank on that - use that time to build a better self. Feeling trapped is the worst, but even prisoners manage to use their time wisely so that’s my best advice. Keep busy bby. It’s okay to feel like this, so don’t feel bad for feeling bad.
Anonymous asked: "Country you would like to spend a year living in? Mine would be australia, melbourne doing off grid housing"
After visiting Scotland I wouldn’t mind living there somewhere quiet and sleepy amongst some highland cows, or maybe Greece working along the ocean doing something with my hands. I’d also like to learn to sail. If I had to live in another big city i’d love to live in London and even have/had job prospects there.
