About Me
Kay
20
Black
He/They
Butch Lesbian
Exclusively Butch4Butch
this might become a horny blog you never know
DNI LIST
men, queerphobes, TERFS/Radical feminists, pro-lifers, race fetishists, racists, proshippers, minors
Anonymous asked:
Do you support bisexual butches and biromantic lesbians/bisexual lesbians?
sunkenbeast answered:
Honestly for some days I thought butch wasn’t a exclusively lesbian term but bruh it literally is, it’s history, I’m not forcing my shit onto anyone (cuz I dont have the energy nor the time to) but I don’t believe in that. Being a butch is a lesbian thing, butch lesbians fought for respect and for women’s and lgbtq rights under that term, so I believe it’s demeaning to generalize that. So yeah, I don’t support.
And there’s no shit like bi/pan-lesbians, being a lesbian is LITERALLY not liking men, please do not come here with this shit, I hate men, men makes me fucking SICK, not necessarily because I’m a lesbian but partially (and personally) because of it. And as a lesbian I think it’s offensive to try and insert men into the community, it’s like people are always looking to insert men into spaces that they AREN’T welcomed, it makes me genuinely mad and sick because wtf??? Leave us alone bro, that shit is straight-up offensive…
Shout out to my bi and pan fellas btw, all support to them obviously, but fuck everyone who says bi/pan-lesbians are a thing, that’s so fucking annoying, it’s 2 AM and I’m pissed off now because of this shit.
i desire love and romance so bad and its so lonely being butch4butch where im at but i can’t bring myself to start relationships and have a dynamic where i know i won’t be happy, plus its cruel to string someone along like that
“Don’t forget to treat your masc like a princess!!” Don’t forget to treat your masc like a person. Don’t forget to treat your butch with as much respect around their masculinity as they need. Treat them like they’re people, with feelings, with emotional needs, who need care and affection just like anybody else would. You don’t have to infantilize or downplay their masculine identity to treat them well. Try considering instead that masculinity does not equate to hardness, especially not when it’s displayed by a butch or masculine sapphic. Try reframing your understanding of gender within queer expression so that masculinity isn’t scary and yucky while femininity is delicate and desirable. Try considering that masculine queers deserve pampering and love and tenderness and affection, and that you can give them those things without dismissing their masculine qualities. Try giving masculinity as much grace and respect as you’ve been conditioned to give femininity. If you feel the need to distance or invalidate their masculinity because you want a princess for a partner, maybe consider dating someone whose core identity doesn’t involve the expression and embodiment of the queer masculine.
Butches who are degenerates with their butch in public. Slapping their ass, grabbing their butches inner thigh, talking about them like some sort of object to everyone else in the bar.
Only to start sputtering apologies and begging for mercy once they leave, and their butch drags them by the collar to their truck.
Teen Gertvi / bassbreakerBand AU wip !!!!
I asked on twitter and I'm doing it here too so, PLEASE guve me suggestions for Gert's clothes??? How do you think she'd dress like as kid/teen????
All I know is I'm keeping her scarf cuz it's cool as heck. . .
She’d definitely upcycle flannel in any way she could. I feel the grunge aesthetic has always been a part of her.
being a masc attracted to other mascs/butches/studs is HARD. never know whether they’re down to clown or are one of those ‘ew masc4masc is gross no way’ 💔💔
