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This is a Certified Sex ED Blog! My pronouns are he/it. No, I am not a doctor or a therapist.

Minors, DMs, asks and @’s are 100% welcome, just keep in mind I do not tolerate hate speech! If I ever reblog anything that seems bigoted or by someone bigoted, feel free to let me know (with some explanation, please!)

For those who need them, some of my tags are:

#sex education <- all sex ed in general.

#sex tips <- tips specifically on having sex!

#asexual education <- education on asexuality!

#aromantic education <- education on aromantism!

#trans education <- education on trans-related things!

#intersex education <- education on intersex-related things!

#hormone education <- education on hormones/HRT

#sex work education <- education on sex work!

#kink education <- education on kink!

#consent 101 <- education on consent!

#disability education <- education on disability-specific sex ED!

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alixfoxx asked:

Hey I'm sorry if this isn't your niche but is it SA if you wanted to do something, but also didn't have a choice?

Hi! No worries, I don’t mind answering.

It can depend on the situation but if you literally did not have a choice whether you had sex/did sexual things or not, it was almost definitely SA.

If you didn’t have a choice, you didn’t consent and if you didn’t consent, it’s not sex, it’s SA/rape. Wanting something is not the same as actually consenting to it.

I’m not sure if this is helpful or not but feel free to ask more if you need to. <3

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Anonymous asked:

im a bit embarrassed to ask this question, but its admittedly sending me into a bit of a panic

i properly tried out one of those erotic hypnosis videos (like those hands free orgasm ones) out of curiosity and had a great time!! did not expect it to work so well (in a good way!) i remember everything that happened and all that. ended up spending like an hour and a half (time i wasnt spending on anything anyways) just being like "holy shit this is great what"

but im now suddenly scared that ive suddenly addicted myself to it in some way. i feel strange and am tempted to try more? idk if its just the excitement of finding something new and fun or if ive legitimately fucked myself up. i do not generally believe in porn addiction but admittedly this feeling is scaring me. id love to try it again sometime but not if its going to start feeding something in my mind thatll mess with me

i have no idea if you have a clue or not, if i just enjoyed the relaxation (among. other things.) or are suddenly some kind of dependent somehow, but googling has not been giving me very succinct answers to whats going on. been about uhhh 2-ish hours since i finished with all that at the time of writing if its relevant at all

Well, thank you for trusting me to answer!

Congratulations on trying out something new (and fun)! That’s awesome.

Enjoying something sexual is not addiction, Anon. Feeling strange after trying something new you’ve never done before is very common and being tempted to try more? That’s just eagerness and curiosity, there’s nothing wrong with that.

Addiction also does not work like that at all, it’s very different. Becoming dependent on something is far more than just feeling eager to do it again.

Look, if you felt like this after trying a new ice cream (a little weird, really excited to eat more), would you still feel like you were “fucking yourself up” or is this specifically you being scared of enjoying something kinky and sexual because of fearmongering about porn addiction?

Because I can guarantee by what you’re describing that it’s not a sudden addiction.

It’s okay to enjoy things like that, Anon; its not a gateway to addiction, its not going to rot your brain or anything like that. Have fun. Maybe take a moment to work with your anxiety before trying again but don’t let it keep you from enjoying yourself.

Hope this helps! Lemme know if you have anymore questions. <33

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i'm begging you all to stop passing around advice about how to stay ~*sexy*~ and ~*in the mood*~ when you ask for consent and instead just learn to set up prior check-ins and safewords like an adult. it is profoundly easier to have a miscommunication or prompt a false positive if you prioritize staying in character and "sexy factor" by doing these cornball half measure check-ins over clear communication and safety. telling somebody to beg for it, asking them if it feels good, going "you like that, slut?" etc. is fun but it is not in any way shape or form a stand-in for an actual straightforward consent check-in. i promise that talking about a scene prior and asking for somebody's color/other check in mechanisms during will not "ruin the mood," and that in fact it's a lot easier to stay in headspace and have a good time if you don't have the threat of ambiguous communication and potential fuck ups hanging over your mind the whole time.

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Anonymous asked:

wait, it's bad to wash your vagina with soap? i've been doing it my whole life, am i in danger? i've never had problems apart from a bad smell but maybe i just didn't notice anything?

This depends! Are you actually washing your vagina, which is the part inside or are you washing your vulva (the outside)?

If you’re washing the inside with soap, that’s not good for you and will likely cause infections even if you haven’t noticed that yet.

If it’s just the outside, that’s okay, just make sure the soap you’re using isn’t irritating the skin down there because that can happen.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions. <3

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Anonymous asked:

does tdick/tcock only refer to testosterone-induced bottom growth or is it also used for people who are pre-T (or don't want HRT at all) and just prefer the term?

It’s usually used specifically for testosterone-induced bottom growth (hence the “t”) but it’s also used by people not on testosterone! It depends on the person but it’s fine either way.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions. <3

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drdemonprince

you don't "hate kids," you hate being forced into a caretaking role.

you don't "hate kids," you hate censorship passed off as family values.

you don't "hate kids," you hate the constrictiveness of the nuclear family.

you don't "hate kids," you're just not used to occupying fully age diverse spaces so you're not used to the noise or the many different kinds of needs.

you don't "hate kids," most public spaces just aren't built for kids, and so the few kids you see are always uncomfortable and distressed.

you don't "hate kids," you hate the intense social rules assigned to kids and anyone who interacts with kids.

You don't "hate kids," you hate how society reproduces its most restrictive elements and how kids are powerless to resist it.

akashigadabi

No, actually, I just hate kids. They still have a right to exist, but I also have a right not to like them. 🤷🏽

prettyputrified

Imagine saying that about any other ENTIRE group of margnalized people. Insane antisocial behavior.

prettyputrified

Another person in the notes insulted children for having "underdeveloped brains" and I have to wonder, do these people hate intellectually disabled adults too?

drdemonprince

they absolutely do

secretlykoishi

"No, actually, I just hate kids." Insane thing to say with your full chest.

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Not letting @katuer's tags just stay tags

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ID: A screenshot of Tumblr tags reading: "I hate everyone who openly hates kids one of the most restricted and oppressed groups of people who often don't even have the language to talk about their oppression it takes no effort to just keep your mouth shut and walk away"

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Anonymous asked:

hi ! i'm sorry to bother you , i hope you are quite well

a few years ago i had a classmate i hadn't seen in a while come up to me and ask if my breasts had grown any bigger since we'd last seen eachother - when i said i did not know [ it made me uncomfortable to answer ] she pinned me against a wall and groped them for a good half a minute , and then when she stepped away she groped and slapped my butt [ i have told her this makes me severely uncomfortable and she has continued the behaviour and did so then ]

is that some sort of harassment ? she said it was okay because we were friends and she just wanted to know

sorry again to ask , and i hope you enjoy your week !

Hi! No bother at all, thank you for trusting me to answer. I hope you’re well too. <3

Groping you and slapping your butt without your consent is sexual assault, Anon. Making comments about your breasts, with the rest of what happened in mind, is also sexual harassment.

It’s not okay for someone to assault or harass you just because she says you’re friends. It’s not okay for anyone to do that.

She shouldn’t have pinned you, she shouldn’t have touched you at all, especially not when you already told her that slapping your butt makes you uncomfortable. Your breast size is also none of her business, even if you were friends.

I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with that, that’s awful. If you can, I’d definitely recommend not staying friends with her and talking to others about what she’s been doing.

I hope this helps, Anon, lemme know if you have any other questions. ❤

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Anonymous asked:

Hi! Questions about how condoms work:

Specifically, if someone with a penis ejaculates whilst wearing a condom but remains hard. Would they need to remove/change the condom instantly, or can they continue sex with the same condom?

Me and my partner are quite confused because on one hand we feel like people who make condoms probably know how penises work and would design them with that in mind. On the other hand, he says that after he ejaculates he feels it causes the condom to shift as there's more volume in there now.

Any insight would be great!

Hi! Good questions!

If someone with a penis ejaculates while wearing a condom, even if they stay hard, it’s a good idea to change! You can keep going but it can leak if you don’t and fall off easier.

It also can depend on how much someone ejaculates but usually, it’s just a good idea to change after ejaculation if you don’t want it to fall off or worry about any leakage.

Hope this helps! Lemme know if you have any other questions. <3

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What Strength Really Means 💪

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Hey everyone, my name is Abdelmajed. I don’t usually talk much about myself, but today, I want to share a little piece of my story.

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I was born and raised in Gaza, a place that has always been my home 🏡. I grew up surrounded by my family, my friends, and the streets that I knew like the back of my hand. Life wasn’t always easy, but we had love, laughter, and dreams. I used to think that no matter what happened, home would always be here. But life has a way of changing things in ways we never expect.

Over the past months, everything I once knew has disappeared. The streets that were once filled with children playing are now silent. The houses that held so many memories are now just rubble. And the people I loved—some of them are gone forever. 💔

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