you really just have to say ‘it is what it is’ and move on. like. completely move on. focus on what’s important but also just have a nice life. play with your pet, go outside with someone somewhere, see a movie in theaters or borrow/buy a book, sit in the sunlight, get a plant, get a recipe, wear a fragrance, dance, talk to ppl, do pilates/sports/walking/swimming/biking, go somewhere new, start a casual or compelling project, compliment a stranger genuinely, call someone, drive for a while. remember that you’re here. you’re important because you’re alive and that’s enough
To all the people who had a good christmas: have an even happier new year!
To all the people who didn’t have a good christmas: It’s alright to be upset. Not everyone has a perfect family, or even a good one. If you ended up crying, it’s okay. Please, know that people here care about you and it won’t always be like this. One day, you will have a christmas where you are surrounded by people who respect you and care about you, I promise.
If you need a sign to take a break, rest, sleep, even though you still have a lot to do, take this as your sign. If you need a break, take it, before your body takes it for you by collapsing. If all you can do today is rest, you are allowed to do so even when other people don’t want you to, no one should have to allow you to rest but yourself, so give yourself permission. You are still worthy even when you’re not being useful to other people.
when a ship involves one character being so utterly devoted to the other that its borderline religious????? when the devoted character is written to be seen as a sinner, or damned, or a non believer??? and the other character an angel or god-like???? i simply eat that shit UP how can you not??
ALT
