Your #1 assignment for the next four years is SURVIVE.
We can rewrite laws. We can re-appoint judges who are fair and just. We can rebuild property, transportation lines, education systems.
We can't re-alive people.
They want us all too frightened to act, too confused to concentrate, too outraged in too many directions to work together. Every instance of courage or cooperation or kindness is a victory. Every bit of confidence, every moment of calm, every instance of delight is a reminder that they don't control the world.
They're lashing out because they know that. They are brainweasels writ large - they can't actually win; they can just cause a lot of damage while they're losing.
Mitigate the damage where you can, and survive to make a better future. Hold on to hope.
And if you run out of hope - hold on to spite, because defiance and ferocity are also survival tools, and sometimes kindness is being able to say "yeah, it SUCKS" to someone who thought they were the only one who still cared.
However you do it, hold on until we can find each other and build the future we've been working for.