How to tell someone they hurt you

How do you make someone realize they hurt you? The Most Productive Way To Tell Someone They’ve Hurt You Organize Your Thoughts First. … Give Them a Heads Up Before You Talk. … Consider Your Environment. … Try A Three-Part Statement Approach. … Avoid Re-Hashing a Fight. … Don’t Be Afraid To Take A Break. […]

Find expert tips for telling someone they've hurt you so they don't get defensive, from trying a three-statement approach to giving them a heads up before you talk.

When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't - Louis C.K.

I think one of the most humbling lines to live by is that "If someone tells you you hurt them, you don't get to decidethat you didn't."

If you can get wounded, so can others. It's time we figured out how to do that (for good intentions, of course).

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In life, people hurt you — either intentionally or not. Here's what you need to do to turn off your emotions so you can move on, regain control, and find happiness again.

We are so quick to judge what others do based on their actions and what we do based on our intentions. Have you noticed that? I am certainly guilty of this. But the truth is, regardless of our intentions, if we hurt someone, we don’t get to tell them that we didn’t. We shouldn’t invalidate […]