Person who always complains

If there’s someone in your life who’s always complaining, always has problems, and needs you to help and comfort them without ever offering anything in return — they are likely an emotionally draining person, especially if you notice that you feel exhausted every time you talk to them. That’s not okay, and you need to make a change to save your mental and physical health. We at Bright Side found out what you can do when someone close to you is draining your energy.

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Narcissists LOVE shining a spotlight and magnifying glass on the real and made up flaws of others. If you return the favor and shine a spotlight on the narcissists flaws they go straight from 'tough guy' to BITCH. @narcissistrecovery on Instagram: “They’re always right, they can always bitch, moan, complain and criticize and that’s ok because in…”

"Complaining is always nonacceptance of what is. When you complain you make yourself a victim." ~ Eckhart Tolle. There's nothing like self-pity & negativity to drive people away - nobody wants to listen to that!

People who always point at you, insult or criticize

Always complaining that I stay in my room all day

The sharpest critics and those most known for pointing out flaws or weaknesses in others, are most often the ones who are blind to their own shortcomings, insecurities and mistakes. It's best to take a mirror and examine one's self, before riding a self-righteous high horse and accusing others of what you think they do wrong.

Accountability and self-awareness will always remain crucial to personal evolution. However, sometimes criticism that suggests you’re difficult can simply mean you’re challenging to control because you don’t conform to someone else’s rules, beliefs, or ways of being. Or your energy is challenging to encounter because it reminds them of their shortcomings and fears.⁣⁣ ⁣ I once heard someone describe somebody else as a nuisance because they didn’t try to get along with their social group. Upon…