any pronouns r ok if we're friends! otherwise i prefer gender neutral pronouns! (not related to gender rlly, just familiarity from strangers feels v weird 4 me)
dont reblog my readmores unless i specifically say its ok, everything else is ok to rb unless it says 'dont reblog' (or any variation of that) somewhere
DONT follow if!
(use ur mouse to hover)
u have nasty ~opinions~ on gender stuff, attraction stuff, are ableist, basically if ur evil ur into messed up, gross stuff, dont follow my blog w/ a p*rn blog either
if ur a parent who is both cishet & neurotypical
if u wont tag my one (1) trigger dont hate-follow me because that makes me very paranoid and scared!!!! THanks
please respect my boundaries or i will scream . thank you
ASK to follow if!
you're all of these at the same time; str8, neurotypical, cisgender
u found my blog thru someone u know irl who knows me irl (im scred of my abusers lol)*
u can ignore this if i followed u first!
(altho i would appreciate it if u mentioned it somewhere esp the * part)
& , if u can; please like this post after you've read all of the above or send me a message saying u did !
alright, u can stop reading here if u want
about me!
Very Aspie, INFP-T, 22-year-old sagittarius; born december first, 1994, 9:01 AM, not a morning person however
im ok w gendered (n like, traditionally masculine or traditionally feminine) terms only if theyre being used affectionally &/or jokingly/sarcastically/ironically & w the acknowledgement that those terms do not ACTUALLY apply to me & aren't synonymous w/ me. (e.g. some of my fav Gendered terms/sayings r 'Who Is She', sis, lil guy, princess, b-word, pretty boy, mistress),,, if u say something / call me somwthing i dislike, its ok if u dnt do it w/ ill intent, i'll just correct u ! : :)
i speak english & finnish fluently, english isn't my native language however, so please have a lil extra patience 4 me !
neurogivergent & mentally ill ! im recovering from lots of stuff too, all the time!! sometimes im not myself n i get SUPER sad or sometimes im someplace else than in my body ! luckily im never violent towards others unless someone hits me or tries to hurt me very badly.
sleeby.................................
i love so much to do my best w/ tagging stuff especially triggers!! i wanna catch as many as possible. if u can ask me to tag something possibly, that will help a lot !! i hope u wont have to see too much unpleasant stuff ! i used to have a list of triggers i tag on my old blog & i will try to keep tagging them here too & more !
i can't always like 'lms if you see' posts when i see them, also sometimes i check up on people i follow & if they are the sort of person who has lms posts i like every few of them, but usually not all of them !
so u might see yr notifications n go, "oh, this person liked my latest personal post & the one i made 2 nights ago both within the same 15 minutes, so they must've seen all the posts in between, too."
before i follow someone completely new, i usually check out their archive (like the last month or so) 2 get some kind of an idea abt what kind of Content they have on there ! also i usually cant reblog stuff straight from the dashboard / the blog& save everything in drafts instead , so i can take my time w posting n thinking if i want something on my blog. . . dont freak out if u get late notes bc of this ! !!
i might update this every now n then !
"thanks so much for reading!!!!" - me, sittin on a cloud
gazafunds.com - Donate directly to a Palestinian family in urgent need of evacuation, medical attention, food, rebuilding homes/businesses etc. (Spotlights 1 verified gfm at a time so if you don’t know who/where to donate to just go here and donate to the one they show you!)
Help provide tents (urgent):
The Sameer Project: Currently providing tents for displaced families in Gaza (emergency bc tents in Rafah are being burned as we speak) (paypal) (gfm)
Food, cash & essentials:
Care for Gaza: Working on the ground in Gaza to distribute food, cash, medicine & other essentials to displaced families. (paypal) (gfm)
Direct Aid for Gaza: also working on the ground in Gaza to distribute food, cash & other daily essential suppliess to displaced families. (paypal) (gfm)
Water:
Gaza Municipality’s water project: The officialMunicipality of Gaza needs help rebuilding the water infrastructure in Gaza City to restore access to clean water and waste management services for the people of Gaza. (This campaign only has a couple of weeks left but it’s still only at 15%!)
crips for esims for gaza: If you don’t know how to buy esims or don’t have the capacity to manage them (e.g. topping up regularly), this team of volunteers are collecting funds to buy & manage gaza esims regularly
Medical Aid
Palestine Red Crescent Society: Provides emergency medical and ambulance services and humanitarian relief on the ground in Gaza e.g. rescuing and treating the wounded.
🇵🇸 save family lost their home ,dreams and everything in Gaza 🇵🇸
This is my home before the war and after the war how it became💔💔💔
Before: After:
We have been through many wars before, but this war was not like the ones before it. Our lives were turned upside down. We became displaced from one place to another. We are the Anas family, residents of northern Gaza, specifically in the Shujaiya area. In the first week of the war, we fled our home because everyone considered our home to be in a dangerous area. We moved to the Rimal area, specifically in the middle of Gaza. There, we received the news that our home, which contained all our beautiful memories, was bombed. Suddenly, it was gone!!! Just thinking that your home, which you worked hard on and built from scratch and took a lot of your life, was gone in less than a second ! After a while, we left the sands to the Al-Zawaida area because of the heavy shelling. We stayed there for about two weeks, and then the terrorist army asked us to go to Rafah. We actually fled for the fourth time to Rafah and stayed there for two months, some of the most difficult days of our lives, as there was no way or means to live a normal life. 😔😔 After that, because of the invasion of Rafah, we moved to Deir al-Balah. Now, we are in very difficult and oppressive circumstances.
We are asking you with all shame to support and stand by us in these difficult circumstances that everyone knows because we lost our home, our work and any stable source of income. Thank you all.
Please help us, we need you badly in these difficult times. We lost our home, our dreams, and everything bad, and we depend on you for your support through donations on the gofundme link, even if it is $5. Your support is important to us 😞😔💔Donation here 👇😭
Weam (@weamfanona) was on her last year of highschool when the genocide took away her dreams and disrupted her education. Now they have no way to support themselves, as well as her mother suffering from back pains and needing urgent medical treatment
Wean’s family needs support to be able to travel and rebuilt their lives, her campaign has been going very slowly, please share and donate
🛑The occupation army announces the resumption of the war on Gaza😭😭
Help me get out of Gaza. I only have 1195$ donations, which is a small part of the cost of traveling outside the city For being able to save my life and my parents’ lives.
my family is subjected to an unimaginable conflict. Our campaign is almost stagnant and is progressing very slowly. We have currently achieved only 145$ out of 5000$ This is disappointing and demoralizing. My husband and I are experiencing great disappointment. 😔💔 .
🔗 The donation link is here and in the bio as well. I hope you will help us so that we can collect donations and provide a safe and warm life for me and my husband.
✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #329 )✅️
‼️Please don’t skip taking a look 🍉🇵🇸I am
ahmad from Gaza. I am 26 years old. I stand before you as a person trying to preserve his family. 🇵🇸💔💔
We try to live under miserable conditions in tents in Mawasi Khan Yunis, south of Gaza. It is difficult for me to find the words to describe what we face every day in Gaza. No food, no medicine, no clean drinking water, oppression, helplessness, psychological pressures, doubts, and daily trauma due to the loss of loved ones. In Gaza, it’s not just hunger, disease and fear; Rather, it means actual death.
With a heart weighed down by sorrow, I reach out to you, hoping that kindness and humanity still shine in this world. My family and I have lost everything—the home that once sheltered us, the walls that echoed with laughter, the warmth and security that every human deserves. The relentless attacks on Gaza have turned our lives into a daily fight for survival. What was once a place of comfort and love is now nothing but rubble, and we are left with nothing but the clothes on our backs and a fragile tent that barely stands against the bitter cold.
Now, our days and nights are consumed by hardship. The icy wind pierces through the thin fabric of our tent, leaving us shivering, with no escape from the freezing temperatures. Food is scarce, clean water is hard to find, and the most basic necessities have become luxuries beyond our reach. Every day, we struggle—not just to live, but to preserve the dignity that war tries to strip away.
Amid this suffering, a new life was brought into the world—my brother’s daughter, an innocent soul who took her first breath in a tent instead of a warm home, her tiny body wrapped in whatever scraps of fabric we could find. She was born not into joy, but into loss, into hunger, into the unforgiving reality of war. And as we watch her, so fragile and pure, our hearts break knowing that we cannot give her the comfort and security she deserves and we cannot provide enough milk, diapers, medicines, and vitamins for her😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
I do not ask for much—just a little help to keep us going through these unimaginable times. A warm blanket to protect us from the cold, food to fill our empty stomachs, or even simply sharing our story so that others may hear our cries for help. Every small act of kindness can make a difference. 💔🍉🇵🇸😭
Your generosity has the power to bring warmth to our freezing nights, hope to our despair, and life to those struggling to survive. May the kindness you extend be returned to you a hundredfold.
when i was a young boy i had the philosophy of ‘balls are the boobs of the penis so its ok that i want to suck on them it doesn’t make me gay” and tbh i was cooking
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u can add me if u want! but please tell me who u are 1st, if u can 
u have nasty ~opinions~ on gender stuff, attraction stuff, are ableist, basically if ur evil
please respect my boundaries or i will scream . thank you 
like this post 
after you've read all of the above or send me a message saying u did !
22-year-old 
i speak english & finnish fluently, english isn't my native language however, so please have a lil extra patience 4 me !
luckily im never violent towards others unless someone hits me or tries to hurt me very badly.
i used to have a list of triggers i tag on my old blog & i will try to keep tagging them here too & more !
also i usually cant reblog stuff straight from the dashboard / the blog& save everything in drafts instead , so i can take my time w posting n thinking if i want something on my blog. . . dont freak out if u get late notes bc of this ! !!
