If you have a ref that the compiler doesn't know is a ref (say, a value
returned from a custom hook) and try to assign its `.current = ...`, we
currently fail with a generic error that hook return values are not
mutable. However, an assignment to `.current` specifically is a very
strong hint that the value is likely to be a ref. So in this PR, we
track the reason for the mutation and if it ends up being an error, we
use it to show an additional hint to the user. See the fixture for an
example of the message.

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Hints are meant as additional information to present to the developer
about an error. The first use-case here is for the suggestion to name
refs with "-Ref" if we encounter a mutation that looks like it might be
a ref. The original error printing used a second error detail which
printed the source code twice, a hint with just extra text is less
noisy.

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The new mutation/aliasing model significantly expands on the idea of
FunctionEffect. The type (and its usage in HIRFunction.effects) was only
necessary for the now-deleted old inference model so we can clean up
this code now.

We currently only track the reason something might suspend in
development mode through debug info but this excludes some cases. As a
result we can end up with boundary that suspends but has no cause. This
tries to detect that and show a notice for why that might be. I'm also
trying to make it work with old React versions to cover everything.

In production we don't track any of this meta data like `_debugInfo`,
`_debugThenable` etc. so after resolution there's no information to take
from. Except suspensey images / css which we can track in prod too. We
could track lazy component types already. We'd have to add something
that tracks after the fact if something used a lazy child, child as a
promise, hooks, etc. which doesn't exist today. So that's not backwards
compatible and might add some perf/memory cost. However, another
strategy is also to try to replay the components after the fact which
could be backwards compatible. That's tricky for child position since
there's so many rules for how to do that which would have to be
replicated.

If you're in development you get a different error. Given that we've
added instrumentation very recently. If you're on an older development
version of React, then you get a different error. Unfortunately I think
my feature test is not quite perfect because it's tricky to test for the
instrumentation I just added.
#34146 So I think for some
prereleases that has `_debugOwner` but doesn't have that you'll get a
misleading error.

Finally, if you're in a modern development environment, the only reason
we should have any gaps is because of throw-a-Promise. This will
highlight it as missing. We can detect that something threw if a
Suspense boundary commits with a RetryCache but since it's a WeakSet we
can't look into it to see anything about what it might have been. I
don't plan on doing anything to improve this since it would only apply
to new versions of React anyway and it's just inherently flawed. So just
deprecate it #34032.

Note that nothing in here can detect that we suspended Transition. So
throwing at the root or in an update won't show that anywhere.