Fix for OpenVINO specific build which was caused by #20738

Since ATL headers might not be available on specific MSVS Build Tools
we use simple CComPtr implementation like as ComPtrGuard
which is not supposed to be the full functional replacement of CComPtr
and it uses as RAII to make sure utilization is correct

ATTENTION: Added to samples only because entire lib looks correct

Pull Request Readiness Checklist

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• I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
• To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or other license that is incompatible with OpenCV
• The PR is proposed to proper branch
• There is reference to original bug report and related work
• There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
  Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
• The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake

Build Configuration

force_builders=XCustom,Custom Win,Custom Mac
build_gapi_standalone:Linux x64=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Win64=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Mac=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Linux x64 Debug=ade-0.1.1f

Xbuild_image:Custom=centos:7
Xbuildworker:Custom=linux-1
build_gapi_standalone:Custom=ade-0.1.1f

build_image:Custom=ubuntu-openvino-2021.3.0:20.04
build_image:Custom Win=openvino-2021.4.1
buildworker:Custom Win=windows-3
build_image:Custom Mac=openvino-2021.2.0

test_modules:Custom=gapi,python2,python3,java
test_modules:Custom Win=gapi,python2,python3,java
test_modules:Custom Mac=gapi,python2,python3,java

buildworker:Custom=linux-1
test_opencl:Custom=OFF
test_bigdata:Custom=1
test_filter:Custom=*