Avoiding conflict

Avoiding conflict with your partner might seem like keeping the peace, but it actually hurts your relationship in the long run. Here’s why: 👉🏼When you don’t speak up, your needs go unheard. Your partner can’t address them if they don’t know what they are. This can lead to frustration and feeling like you’re not being heard. 👉🏼Unresolved issues don’t disappear. They build up over time, creating resentment. This resentment can damage the trust and affection in your relationship…

True... In real world, this "avoiding conflict" philosophy just ends up creating conflict within yourself.

If you avoid conflict to keep the peace, you stay a war inside yourself.

Let’s set the scene. You’re at work, and there’s one of those things happening, where Alice (or Bob) have come to a decision that is self-evidently dumb as far as you’re concerned. You know you’re right, and you know they’re wrong.

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