Why were they comfortable telling you

The fastest way to stop gossip: When someone speaks negatively about another person, just say "wow, that is surprising, because they only have the nicest things to say about you...."

DON’T TELL ME WHAT PEOPLE SAID ABOUT ME. TELL ME WHY THEY WERE SO COMFORTABLE TELLING YOU

I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them

I'm gonna go with fake birds of a feather flock together!!

Look around you. How many people do you think are settling? Probably a hell of a lot. People settle into okay relationships, okay jobs, okay friends, and an okay life. Why? Because okay is comfortable. Okay pays the bills, and provides a warm bed at night. Some people are fine with okay, and guess what? That's okay. But okay is not thrilling, it isn't passion, it's not life-changing or unforgettable. Okay is not the reason you risk everything you've got for the smallest chance that…

You don’t need more friends. You need better friends. Most people collect friends like trophies, as if quantity somehow equals quality. But those extra bodies in your life? They don’t push you. They don’t hold you accountable. They don’t demand you to grow. True friends will call you out when you’re f*cking up. They’ll tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. They’ll challenge your comfort zones, because they see what you’re capable of, even when you don’t. A s...