all i'm saying is that, with mha's society being what it is, there's no way that there isn't a stigma around having kids with quirkless people. and that absolutely ripples out and affects, like, people being willing to mess around with quirkless people in little flings or one night stands, but shying away from committed relationships with them.
and all of THAT said, please imagine toshi getting asked out as a joke, as a form of bullying in middle school. and him carrying that idea, that wanting to be with him is just a joke, just a punchline, all these years later.