whoever came up with the phraise "eepy" i hate you because its so cringe and embarassing but its the first word that comes to me when im feeling eepy
fuck you
cranky because you're eepy aren't you
whoever came up with the phraise "eepy" i hate you because its so cringe and embarassing but its the first word that comes to me when im feeling eepy
fuck you
cranky because you're eepy aren't you
Might I give some advice:
Not everyone has (or needs to have) the energy to thoughtfully respond to republicans on the Internet. You do not have to do that.
But some people do, and can. And I think we gotta let them.
An example:
I have a former teacher, I'll call her Grace, who is an incredibly kind woman in her 70s. Devout catholic, had voted for various parties over the years, but has been pretty strictly democrat over the past 15-20 because that aligns with her values of kindness and service.
She shared a post about the pope's recent letter and expressed that she agreed with his concerns about how trump is treating immigrants. A friend of hers commented a long paragraph basically saying "dear Grace I care for you but I don't understand how you can be a Christian and a democrat. Blah blah abortion blah blah gender blah blah drugs."
Grace replied "I'm very busy right now but I am going to respond to you soon with my thoughts". When she did it was an incredibly generous, rational monologue that connected with this person's humanity, their shared religious values, and made a beautiful case for why she supports who she does. I didn't agree with a good half of what she said as I am not a Christian, but the result was an expression of values that I think put her on the side of justice and compassion.
The person replied and thanked her and said she had a lot to think about. It was probably the best case scenario for a Facebook politics conversation
You know what came very close to ruining it? A bunch of (mostly younger) people piling on with "fuck you you racist maga pos" and "no one has to explain anything to you, go to hell" etc etc. Even after Grace wrote that she intended to reply herself.
I watched this republican respond to all the easy, quick insults by saying "this is why I don't think any democrats can be Christian, this is how you all speak to me." If Grace hadn't put so much work into writing her response in a way that was tailored to fit this person, I would not be surprised if that person left Facebook doubly certain that Christian nationalism is the way to go.
I'm not saying we can't cuss out jackasses. I'm not saying everyone needs to respond to bad faith arguments like Grace did or use their time like she did.
But this was on Grace's Facebook page, and interrupted the work she already volunteered to do. Just so these individuals could feel like they "did something" and got a shot off at an enemy.
I think that's selfish and childish and unproductive. They could have said anything they wanted in their own space, but they made grace's job harder for no fuckin reason. And then "loved" her reply and said "that was beautiful Grace, thank you for sharing your thoughts"
Like... Buddies. Pals. If someone volunteers to scrub the toilet fucking let them.
Also, speaking as someone from that culture ... they're not going to listen to YOU. You're queer, you're POC, you're young, you have at least one tattoo--you're a Them, not an Us, in the eyes of anybody in the cult. Even if you're perfectly polite, there's a good chance they'll think you're a literal demon trying to deceive them. If they listened to people from way outside the cult, they wouldn't still be in the damn cult!
You have, realistically, only two options:
And yeah, I get it, people like this have hurt you and you want to hurt them back. Unfortunately, we don't have the wiggle room for petty revenge right now. If you make things worse, people die. The church lady you call a bitch on the internet is going to be throwing her money, her vote, and whatever influence she has into christofascism because you called her a bitch. That will be her choice, and her fault, but YOU will be the one who made it impossible for anyone else to reach her, and that will be YOUR fault.
I worked on my mom for YEARS to get her to drop the Republican brainwashing and accept trans kids for who they are, all so that her grandchild will be safe to come out as whatever they are, whenever they're ready. She was never going to listen to anyone else; I'm basically her best friend, the only person she trusts to tell her hard truths. I have used that power strategically. And she has a ton of social power! There are probably a dozen people she talks to at church every week who have changed their minds in the past because she did it first, specifically because she has such a reputation for being honest and devoted to God. "If she's doing it, it can't be a sin" is a sentence I've heard uttered about her. You WANT this woman on your team, flipping the local megacurch to your side!
And if someone had called her a piece of shit on Facebook a year ago, I would have been back to square one.
Some of these people can't be reached. Some can, but only by those they already love and trust. If you don't have that particular opportunity, there are lots of other things you can do to fight fascism. Just don't make it harder for the rest of us.
I couldn't agree with this more.
Going to make this a soapbox moment for this time because I've thought along these lines for a while but was never able to put it to succinctly and accurately as these two posts.
Like yeah, fuck these people and all of the fear and pain and suffering and outright deaths their cult causes, they deserve to be cussed out and ostracized.
But ultimately... do we want the emotional satisfaction of cussing them out like they deserve?.. Or do we want them to stop supporting their cult, and for that cult to fall out of power and never return?
People are stupid, stubborn, selfish animals, insult them, threaten them for what they vote for and they'll just dig in harder.
I mean just consider if say libertarian tried to convince you to vote their way by calling you insults and calling you a commie and all sorts of things. Now consider if they just had a conversation with them where they laid out their values with minimal judgement. Which one of these two is more likely to get you to consider their point of view?
It's not fucking fair that they don't see it on their own, that they won't register the fear and pain that their support of the ideology causes, and that the insults that I too feel the need to think of will just make everything worse, that the only way to make things better is to try to be far more patient, understanding and graceful than many of them are, in a way that many of us can't.
But that is how it is.
And ultimately we get to decide if we want to pick fights with them wherever we see them because it makes us feel better, or if we want to try to invest the effort to change their minds and try to build a better tomorrow before they all die of old age.
I don't blame anyone for not having it in them and just feeling violent and angry or threatened and afraid or any number of combinations of negative emotions, because you frankly should feel these things with people that support an ideology that has it out for you, but ultimately when it comes to your direct environment and people you interact with online... just try to consider the posts above.
If you decide to have at it anyway, fair enough. But if all things considered you're willing to not get into it with somebody...
ordinaryotter678 asked:
I may be wrong, but I think the concern with Jumbo Cactuar is that it feels like an Un-card, even though it works in the rules. Un-sets have a cartoonish tone and aesthetic which makes them feel different. This is also a complaint by some about Aetherdrift – that the tone is more cartoonish and feels out of place in the Multiverse.
markrosewater answered:
Magic has a long history of dipping its toe into silly things. Yes, Un-sets are nothing but humor, but being silly is hardly a prerequisite to being “an Un-card”.
Magic (and I mean normal, non-Un Magic) can, and has, and should have humor. How much and of what kind is a fine conversation to have, but there are a lot of Magic players that appreciate and enjoy humor being in the game.
Also, just a tip for this blog. Remember it’s me you’re talking to. I’ve spent more time than any human on earth thinking about Un-cards, so if you want to make a comparison using “Un-card” as a descriptor for something other than actual Un-cards it might not go the way you hope.
thanosisking asked:
I want to speak out against the whole push towards DEI. I feel that ever since you made the push to make identity the forefront of a character it has hurt the stories you tell. Captain Sisay's race was never the focus of her character and she was a complete badass! And I fear if you did it over again Gerrard would be trans, black and disabled just because. It also cheapens the stories of world devastation when characters worry more about their gender than Bolas destroying everything.
markrosewater answered:
The reason I started this blog is so we can have frank conversations about things, so please let’s talk about this.
Imagine if every time you turned on the TV or watched a movie, no one looked like you. For some of us, that’s never happened. We see ourselves constantly, so it’s hard to truly understand what not seeing yourself represented in media is like.
I do have a personal window to this experience. While I am white and male, there’s an area where I am the minority - my religion. Jews are just under two and a half percent of the US population. I have had many experiences where I’ve been in situations where everything is geared towards a group I do not belong to, and zero consideration is given that not everyone at that event is part of the majority.
You just feel invisible and like an outsider. It’s not a great feeling. And I just experience it a tiny portion of time, only things that are geared specifically towards something religious. Most minorities have this feeling all the time, whenever they’re outside their personal community.
Now imagine, after years of not seeing yourself ever, you finally see someone that looks like you, but nothing about the character rings remotely true. They don’t sound like you, they don’t act like you, the facts about their day-to-day life are just wrong. It’s clear whoever wrote the character didn’t truly understand the lived experience of the character, so the character feels fake.
You bring up Sisay. Michael Ryan and I didn’t technically create Sisay (she played a small role in the Mirage story), but we did do a lot to flesh out her character as the creators of the Weatherlight Saga. We turned her from a minor character into a major one.
And while I’m proud, in general, of our work on the Weatherlight Saga, I don’t think we did justice to Sisay as a character. Neither Michael nor I have any knowledge of what it’s like to be a black woman. Nor did we ever talk to someone who did.
And if you’re someone like us that has no knowledge of that experience, you probably didn’t notice. But that doesn’t mean it’s a good thing.
Imagine if we made a movie about your life, and we just made everything up. We invented people you never knew, we gave you a job you never had, and we had you say things you’d never say. The movie might even be a good movie, but your response would be, but that’s not my life - that’s not me.
Now imagine we put the movie out, and people that never met you assumed that was what you were like. When people met you for the first time, they assumed things, because, you know, they’d seen the movie.
That’s what misrepresenting people does. It not only makes them feel not seen, it falsely represents them, spreading lies, often stereotypes, making people believe things about them that aren’t true.
Our move towards diversity is just us trying to better reflect the world and the people in it. We’re trying to do to everyone else what a certain portion of people get every day without ever having to think about it.
But why are we “making it the forefront of their character”? We’re not. We’re making it a part of their character. But in a world where you’re not used to ever seeing it, it feels louder than it is. Things that are a natural part of the world that you’re used to feel like the background of the story because you understand the context to it.
If a man kisses his wife before going off to a battle, that’s not a big deal. It’s just a thing a husband might do to his wife when he leaves. It’s not the forefront of his character. It’s just part of his life. But you’ve seen it hundreds of times, so it feels normal.
When someone does something that isn’t your lived experience it pulls focus. It seems like a big deal, but only because it’s new to you. It’s just as mundane a thing to that character as the man kissing his wife is to him.
Even the turn “pushing” implies that it’s unnaturally here, that we’re forcing something that naturally shouldn’t be. But why? That thing exists naturally in the real world, and it doesn’t make the real world any less. Maybe you’re less aware of it, but is making you aware of how others live their life “pushing” something on you?
How you live your life is represented constantly, everywhere. Why isn’t over-representing your experience at the expense of everyone else’s “pushing” it? Why is media only being the experience of those in power the “proper way”?
Having more depth and variety doesn’t lessen stories. It makes them deeper, more rich, more nuanced. In short, it makes them better stories. In my former life, I was a professional writer. I took a lot of writing classes. One of the truism of writing is “speaking truth leads to better stories”.
There’s another famous quote: “When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” You’re used to being over-represented, so being a little less over-represented feels like something has been taken from you. But really it hasn’t. Having a better sense of the rest of the world comes with a lot of benefits.
I’ll use food as an example. Let’s say all you were ever exposed to was the food of your heritage. Yeah, that food is really good, but sometimes isn’t it nice to eat foods of other nationalities? Isn’t your life better that you have a choice? Isn’t your exposure and access to the food of other nationalities a positive in your life?
Exposure to variety is a positive. It allows you to learn about things you didn’t know, experience things things you’ve never experienced, and get a better sense of understanding of your friends and neighbors.
Our actions are not to harm anyone, and if you think that’s what we’re doing, please take a minute to actually absorb what I’m saying. You’ve spent your whole life metaphorically eating one type of food, and we’re just trying to show you how much you’ve missed out on.
And while this might not impact you directly, we’re making a whole bunch of people felt seen. We’re bringing joy. Think of it this way. We make a lot of cards. Not every card is for you. But if it makes someone else happy, if they get to include it in a deck, and it makes Magic better for them, how is it harming you that we include it? You have so many cards that you can play.
To this poster or people that share their viewpoint, the narrative that a gain for someone else is an attack on you is just not true. As I just pointed out above, you play a game all about personal choice, about players getting to choose how they play and enjoy the game. Why should life be any different than Magic?
Thanks for reading.
Highlighting this bit, but the whole thing is amazing. Another killer from Rosewater.
"But why are we “making it the forefront of their character”? We’re not. We’re making it a part of their character. But in a world where you’re not used to ever seeing it, it feels louder than it is. Things that are a natural part of the world that you’re used to feel like the background of the story because you understand the context to it."
kuukerinnelli123 asked:
In a previous answer you said: "For far too long, fantasy, as a genre, was used as a way to reflect the worldview of [...] how the privileged wished the world was. Modern fantasy is more reflective of the actual world". Isn't "fantasy" explicitly supposed to be a wish for how the world could be and not reality? Wizards of the Coast is an entertainment company and should genuinely stay away from "educating" it's audience. We're grown up people who just want to be happy in our daydreams.
markrosewater answered:
Fictional worlds all make commentary on the real world. Some just do it more subtly than others.
The amount of temper tantrums in response to basic things puts the lie to the 'grown up' bit here
staywhimsyy asked:
Im really torn between the fact that my favorite set of all time Will be seeing the light of the day again ( lorwyn) and my gut feelings of how It Will be fucked up by the new superbland mediocre art style and the real world politic agenda ( not so) subtly pushed in late sets, in a CARD GAME. We want to see stories of faeries, kithkins, elves, goblins, Giants,merfolk and cinders in their beautiful fantasy setting, no trans they/them faeries that think they're kithkins
markrosewater answered:
Two points:
1) When returning to a world, we’re very cognizant of the aesthetic of the world. We understand returning to Lorwyn requires embracing what made people love it the first time around. Obviously, there will be updates, as the game has evolved much since our first visit, but we’re very aware of the need to recapture the plane’s essence.
2) For far too long, fantasy, as a genre, was used as a way to reflect the worldview of those in power. It leaned into stereotype and reflected how the privileged wished the world was. Modern fantasy is more reflective of the actual world, which includes the wide variety of life experiences that exists.
Trans people, people of color, and women playing a larger role, are all part of modern fantasy because they’re all part of the actual world, and it’s important that our stories and world building be reflective of that.
“I want to return to a time where we could ignore the existence of certain elements because I was happy living in that ignorance” is not an excuse to deny real people and their real life experiences.
Entertainment is at its best when it lifts everyone up and isn’t used as yet another means to ignore certain people’s reality.
actually……1 more thing because I realised I haven’t posted this yet. the best & worst piece of art I’ve ever made - 3D shark called biscuit that I modelled for a class a few years ago. toiled on him for hours, cried over him, went on a journey with him. still failed the class. he haunts me to this day
LMFAO hell yeah give biscuit 2000 notes. why the fuck not. are you seeing this professor? are you seeing what my “failed” experiment has achieved
i want to turn off reblogs for this post but it’d feel like taking biscuit out back and shooting him in the head. so instead i just hover my cursor over the button like i’m gently tensing my finger against the trigger of my 4 gauge shotgun while biscuit is staring at me with his soulful lack of eyes
Anonymous asked:
What does the arab in your carrd mean? Is it like afab and amab?
malewifenat answered:
.. i’m palestinian
SIGH
IT GETS WORSE WITH EVERY ADDITION
how does this get even worse
This is the internet now tho 😭💀
Omg so many additions since I last saw this post! 😂😂😂
It's funny but incredibly telling how entitled/ignorant/insensitive some of these people are... idk if it's an education gap or purposeful ignorance.
The really bewildering thing to me is that I remember when you needed to get up and pull a dictionary off the shelf, or visit a library to look up the facts you needed. Now people have all kinds of information literally at their fingertips and they can’t be bothered to use it.
Oh dear gods, it's gotten worse
When you know politics but no facts
don’t take people too seriously on the internet
This hits different when combined with that "Americans don't learn other countries exist till they're in 5th Grade" post from the other day.
This is my favourite post on this website
Port 'o Rico
Brazil mention for my buddy @bees-official
I fucking love this post
Giant post artefact for my cat girl buddy @real-british-empire
Can we all agree to get better at geography?
Please.
India mentioned!
.....jesus fucking christ...
If you like frogs. Or possums. Or cool builds. Or happiness. This is the video for you.
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