Family that talks behind your back

When you're around your family, and you have that history and that shared language, you say things you'd be embarrassed to hear quoted back to you later.

Family does not mean keeping secrets, walking on eggshells, lying to keep the peace, pretending others are healthy when they are not, tip toeing around the truth, attending events that derail my healing process, defending poor choices, engaging in toxic behavior, remaining loyal to destructive patterns, or sacrificing my needs in an attempt to fix or save others.⠀

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God please remove anybody lying to me using me speaking foul on me behind my back but pretending to love me in my face amen