How to tell someone they hurt you

Find expert tips for telling someone they've hurt you so they don't get defensive, from trying a three-statement approach to giving them a heads up before you talk.

When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't - Louis C.K.

I think one of the most humbling lines to live by is that "If someone tells you you hurt them, you don't get to decidethat you didn't."

Communication is key in any relationship, and sometimes that means speaking up when your man has hurt you. We have put together ten examples of text messages to help you navigate these difficult conversations and tell him how he has hurt you. Our examples provide practical tips and inspiration to help you start the conversation with him and work towards a solution. #relationship #hurt #lovepain #communication

If you can get wounded, so can others. It's time we figured out how to do that (for good intentions, of course).

Psychologists share exactly how to tell someone that they've hurt you using 11 honest and vulnerable phrases, and why it's important to tell them.

Instead of accusing a friend of being intentionally tactless, try to see things from their vantage point.