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The first chapter of the WIP I’ve been thinking about for soooo long is finally up!!!!!! This is the prologue to a Narlily canon-compliant fic, well mostly canon compliant if you accept the fact that Lily and the Marauders had a successful rock band for a while lol…

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juniperpyre
seriousbrat

I'll be honest right now, I'm pretty tired of the "Madonna-Whore Complex" being trotted out as a buzzword in discussions about Lily. I don't mean this as an attack (and certainly not on that anon) because I think like any buzzword it's just been repeated to the point where people clearly do not understand what it means anymore. Which isn't anyone's fault but I just want to be clear about this.

Lily is not portrayed as a sexually untouchable or chaste character. In fact, her own sexual desires are pretty important in terms of her character, as they lead her to start dating James. The author clearly had them in mind when writing SWM, and has heavily implied as much in later interviews. Beyond that, Lily is textually perceived as an object of sexual desire by two male characters. One of whom quite obviously has sex with her lol.

I get the idea that Lily is 'untouchable' to Snape, and also it's worth considering that the narrator is literally her son who is not going to sexualise his mother lmao. But again, Lily's sexual attraction towards James is an important aspect of her character. And that sexual attraction, as well as James's, is realised, a fact which does not take away from the moral goodness of the character, nor is it judged by the narrative. Snape's possible perception of Lily as a 'pure' and 'chaste' untouchable Madonna (which I do see him as having to some extent, but that's his own fault) is not the reality of her character, nor is it meant to be.

Like I said, the 'Madonna-Whore complex' does not refer to some women being good and others being bad. It's about tying a woman's sexuality to her moral purity or lack thereof, wherein 'impure' women are sexual objects and 'pure' women are de-sexed. Writing a woman, a mother even, as a good person is not automatically setting her up as a Madonna. If Lily is the Madonna, who is the 'Whore' intended to be viewed as hypersexual to Lily's supposed chastity?

I can see the argument that Lily as a mother and wife is 'pure' (though I think in reality this has much more to do with Harry's perception of her than anything.) But there are also mothers/wives who are morally corrupt, which is sort of a big point in terms of comparing the different mothers portrayed in HP. There are criticisms that come to mind when talking about how mothers and wives are portrayed in HP, but I just don't think the Madonna-Whore complex is a wholly accurate criticism to make in this instance.

It's absolutely important to criticise HP (or any work) through a feminist lens. But it's also important to have a good understanding of the terminology you're using to do so. Imo it's easy to reach for this concept because it sounds like something bad (and it is) but is it actually applicable here? Is it specifically applicable to Lily as a character? Personally, I don't think so.

As I said, needing to view Lily as morally corrupt in order to understand her sexual attraction to James is actually much more closely aligned with the Madonna-Whore complex. It's not inherently bad to write a morally corrupt female character as a sexual being either. But tbh the idea that fans of Lily (many of whom have written pages and pages about Lily having sex or sexual desire lmfao) are reproducing the Madonna-Whore complex, simply for portraying her as a good person, is pretty ludicrous when you stop and think about it.

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iamnmbr3

i think it's interesting that the harry potter series holds up the weasleys as the 'poster child' poor family but given that they are supporting 9 people on Arthur's single salary they aren't doing THAT badly. Yes there's a lot of stuff they can't afford and they have to be careful with their budget but they still seem to live in relative comfort, especially given the large size of their family - there's always enough food on the table, almost all the family members seem to have their own room without having to share, they don't worry about losing their home, the kids don't feel pressured to work during summers to earn enough money so their family can get by, the house is in relatively good condition etc.

this is not to say that you cannot be poor and also have basic comforts or that someone cannot suffer from financial hardship even if they aren't literally starving on the street. but it's striking because of how much more sympathetically the narrative frames the weasleys' poverty than it does the poverty experienced by snape or tom riddle or the gaunts. all these characters are not 'good victims' and do not cope as gracefully with their circumstances without complaining or showing visible signs of it in ways that might make make people uncomfortable. and idk. it's weird and I'm not sure I like it.

sofiadragon

Classic conservative idea: Poor people who struggle do so because of their own personal faults, not because they can't make ends meet even while making sacrifices.

Snape, as far as we can tell and adding historical context for the part of England he grew up in, lived in abject poverty. I'm talk a 4-room house without a bathroom. The old cartoons of men bathing in a big tin wash tub? That's a real thing that people as young as Severus Snape had to do! This is industrial revolution meat grinder industry, and Tobias Snape was either often unemployed due to a lack of available jobs once Margaret Thatcher and her ilk axed the coal industry or was injured at work (or both, both works.) The story implies that Tobias is a drunk, so the Snapes deserve what they get. The circle of Social Darwinism and all that rot: they are bad people, so they deserve misery, and aren't able to have a stiff upper lip and avoid complaining, so they make others uncomfortable by existing, which makes them bad people, so they deserve misery...

The Weasley’s are the ideal noble poor family. They make it work, buying all the kids' school supplies on the tiniest budget with minimal hand-wringing about it and absolutely no charity will be accepted. They win a big cash prize and blow it on a vacation because they don't really need the extra money to make ends meet. Arthur works hard, we don't see any of them smoke or drink that I can remember (contrast with Mundungus being chastised for smoking a suspiciously scented cigar and Snape's probably nicotine stained teeth) and they are just so happy and pleasant to be around. Sure their clothes are worn, but everyone has something warm in the winter because Molly knits! Sure, they are poor, but even with all the kids at boarding school Molly doesn't get a paying job. She does political activism volunteer work. Isn't that just so very conservative feminist of her? Arthur makes just enough, so long as they stick to the budget.

On one hand, it's a kids book and Harry, our POV character, knows about enough about money and economics to fit on half a paper napkin. He didn't even take a maths class (arithmancy.) On the other hand, every other poor person in the books is ugly and miserable or a "uncommonly attractive orphan" predestined to be a murderer in a way that is noticeable by good people by age 11.

iamnmbr3

This is an excellent addition and I couldn't agree more. Do the Weasleys have anything close to what the Malfoys or the Blacks (or the Potters for that matter) have? No. They most certainly do not. But the three families I just named are fabulously wealthy. I'm sure that as a child Severus Snape would've given almost anything to be able to grow up in a home like what Ron had. This is not to say that you can't be poor or under financial pressure just because someone else has it worse, but it is notable given how the Weasleys are framed by the story - especially compared to other poor characters.

It's also worth noting that in-universe part of the reason the Weasleys may see themselves as being poor is that they are an old pureblood family and may to some extent be comparing themselves to families like the Blacks and the Malfoys - possibly because possibly not long ago they had similar levels of wealth which subsequently got lost.

I don't want to minimize the genuine pain and emotional impact going through that can have. No matter how much someone has, it can be extremely difficult and distressing if they lose what they consider to be their baseline standard of living. Having to make dramatic changes to your lifestyle and losing privileges you were used to is often extremely hard. And many times that is still true even if the changes someone has to make are giving up luxuries that most people could never have afforded or imagined to begin with. But even so, it is relevant context.

I just think it's really striking how as soon as characters are poor in a way that might make people uncomfortable JKR seems to want us to link it to characters' moral failings. In contrast to other poor characters, the Weasleys are clean and usually happy and not affected by their poverty in ways that could be off-putting or difficult in the way that Snape or Tom Riddle or Merope are.

perilousraven

I'm definitely on team 'Weasleys aren't that poor'. Aside from the big (though shabby) house full of functional furniture and cozy little details, a hobby garage, a car just for funsies, plenty of brooms even if they're older models, and yes, the plentiful food...I think they definitely used to be rich (see also: goblin silver tiara with diamonds in the family, Arthur's incessant beef with the Malfoys seemingly just because they're rich) and somehow did away with all the actual wealth and now can't get over it. Wouldn't be the first wizarding family that happened to, although the other example (the Gaunts, if it wasn't clear) are treated very very differently. The Gaunts didn't accept 'charity' either, and look where they ended up. The single difference between the two families before the books happen is how Dumbledore treats them (and the fact that Weasleys aren't quite as inbred), they just happened to ally later with people who go on to ensure the family's circumstances are drastically improved.

Anyway. I quite suspect the Weasleys don't even need a lot of money for the food either. Between the orchard, the vegetable garden, and the chickens (also in the wider series actual real pigs) that's a lot of food they don't need to buy anywhere. No wonder they could afford to blow all that money on those family vacations!

I think it's also a possibility we're all getting caught in differing definitions of 'poor'. I can't help but think of that one Simpsons post that periodically goes around, about how they were originally meant to be very poor and shabby but in the present day their lifestyle is way out of reach of most people, to the extent that they actually get thought of as rich these days. The same effect could be in play here - they're meant to be poor and perhaps in their own context they are, it's just that in present day circumstances that qualifies as rich.

(and yeah, none of that removes the hypocrisy in the treatment of the other poor people in the series, who are actually poor even by present day standards)

iamnmbr3

#this is a subject I've thought about a lot#what actually qualifies as poor in the wizarding world#the answer seems to be that if you only have some luxuries instead of a lot you're considered poor#and it's not actually about survival for them#also pet peeve but harry very much does get taught maths at hogwarts. see also my post on astronomy#and by extension the divination class that can't function without advanced maths either#but that's not really relevant to the main point of the post via @perilousraven

Also probably what's poor among older pureblood families is different from what's poor among other people. For example Tonks probably defines poverty differently than Ron does or than her mother Andromeda does. After all, in many ways the Weasleys are quite similar to the Blacks & the Malfoys - similar views about nonhuman magical beings, implied cutting off of squib relatives, viewing muggles as inferiors (though the Weasley's believe in treating Muggles well, they seem them more as charming animals than equals). It would stand to reason they would have similar views on what constitutes poverty. Also, the Weasleys have a HUGE family compared to most families we see in the wizarding world so that also adds financial strain that most others in their circle don't experience

I don't think that people must be X amount of poor or X amount of suffering to count as poor. I wouldn't have a huge issue with the way the Weasleys are portrayed in the narrative if not for the contrasting framing of other poor families whose circumstances are much worse and who are treated very differently by the narrative.

This dissonance in treatment makes it feel like the story is saying if you are "too" poor then you're gross and terrible but also you should be happy with your lot and you can never climb out of those circumstances or be deserving of a happy ending the way your wealthier (morally superior) peers are. Like yeah Snape can redeem himself from being a Death Eater somewhat, but obviously he's not going to get the girl - that's for James the wealthy pureblood even though he never seems to have truly regretted his cruelty - nor is he ever going to leave Spinner's End or get to make it through the story alive - that's for people like Harry or the Weasleys.

Moral turpitude is linked to a greater level of poverty and those characters are never able to overcome it. Even later it clings to them and trying to climb out and not just accepting their fate as social subordinates is bad. Snape of course doesn’t get the girl and dies for his “betters”. Tom is defeated and his quest for higher status and dominance over the wealthy pureblood social elite leads him down a path of evil.

Also, I would say the other difference between the Weasleys and the Gaunts is not just how Dumbledore treats them, but also that the Guants are wayyyy poorer.

It's striking to me that Merope, Tom Riddle, and Snape all know what it is to be hungry. Ron, however, the poster child poor character, does not. There's literally a major plot point about how badly equipped Ron is to deal with having to go without. Harry also know what it is to be hungry but he was secretly rich the whole time so when he moves up in the world he’s actually returning to the status quo. We don't see much mobility that comes without judgement - except through marriage (Ginny to Harry and presumably Lily to James & Petunia to Vernon). Fred and George make it big with their joke shop and that's it. But they already started off in a much better situation than the true squalor that Merope or Tom or Snape grew up in.

It's not that if you've never been hungry you can't be poor or experiencing financial hardship. But I think it says something that none of the characters who grew up extremely poor ever find true happiness or love or even make it through the story without dying an unpleasant death and all of them are framed by the narrative as morally lacking. In that context I look askance at the Weasleys being held up as the shining example of a "good" poor family.

iamnmbr3

It’s kinda like how some people will talk about “rich people” but never consider the fact that compared to plenty of people THEY are the rich people and also never consider how wealth can be relative or examine their own privilege because they're too busy thinking about those who have more than them to remember those who have less.

pangaeaseas

one of the really interesting things to me about jkr’s treatment of poverty is how striving to escape poverty leads to moral failings (percy’s complicity with the ministry, Snape joining the Death eaters, and even Petunia marrying Vernon and then abusing Harry) while the morally 'good’ poor characters are rewarded by what is essentially chance with improvement in their circumstances. Harry grows up downtrodden: but is rewarded by randomly having a huge inheritance, because he’s a Good Person. The Weasley twins, who are largely considered good by the narrative (though I tend to see them as much more morally grey than presented) work on their products, yeah, but they don’t really put much effort into the business side of their business, are able to found it because Harry is nice to them and gives them money instead of having to like court investors or something and they are immediately successful. Because they are Good People. Even though there could well have been business troubles or moral compromises they had to make in the course of being entrepreneurs, just like Percy had to in the course of being a bureaucrat: but he’s Bad and they are Good, so they luck out without having to do that. And Snape actively attempting to escape poverty by joining a fascist cult is, obviously, bad–but when he repents of joining the Death Eaters, he is rewarded with a stable job that lends him a lot of social status. Because he is now a Good Person. The characters who try to get out of poverty end up making moral compromises to do so, but characters who are good are rewarded by the universe with financial success (almost like they are being revealed to be part of the elect….)

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enbysiriusblack

sunnysaystuff asked:

tell me about gideon and fabian!

enbysiriusblack answered:

ok so i love them as twins. and like identical twins. however not as like ‘fred and george variants’ or whatever & i also fuck with them being very very different people. like i view fabian as more of a serious guy, he’s very into his work and education and everything. whilst gideon is more laidback and popular. but they’re both still best friends with each other and love to hang out with each other- despite like fighting a lot. they’re still siblings yknow. i also see them as molly’s younger brothers, but they’re still older than marauders. idk like roughly ted and andromeda’s age. (yes i see them as close mates with ted). i tend to see fabian as having a job in the ministry but i can never settle on what exactly. and then honestly gideon is kinda just being in the order. has some side hustles but they’re very random/spontaneous & his usual partner in them is mundungus fletcher. like idk neither of them are rlly pranksters or anything like fred & george. fabian would find pranks very funny but wouldn’t rlly think to do one himself & if gideon attempted a prank he would mostly like be doing something to scam someone with mundungus. anywayy they’re both ginger so ofc they take lily under their wing during war years (even tho she’s more dark red than orange like them). they’re also both immensely talented wizards (clear from their death) & duel rlly rlly well together that james & sirius tend to copy their techniques for their own duolling (sorry, is that a bad pun? duo-duelling? idk) but yeah. they also give very tall vibes, sadly.

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Anonymous asked:

5, 7, 8, 24 and 27 for Lily and Sirius

5. first song that comes to mind when you think of them. For Lily, it’s Wuthering Heights by Kate Buch (which I imagine she likes a lot.) though maybe running up that hill might fit better…bc she makes a deal with god (her life for harry’s….) For Sirius, it’s Once in a Lifetime by the Talking Heads (which I imagine he liked until Azkaban where the rocks and stones and water bit hit wayyy too close to home). These are kind of arbitrary and don’t have much to do with them as people.

7. Favorite thing fandom does with this character.

For Lily, I’m a huge fan of the idea that she did intentional magic to defeat voldemort. i also like when fandom develops her character more than she’s developed in canon but independently of James and Snape. so I like her having a good female friend. especially when it’s Mary MacDonald bc that can get complicated real fast. also love politcially active and aware lily who gets involved with Muggleborn rights.

For Sirius, aus where he raises Harry. and while my original headcanon is actually aroace Sirius which i’ve very rarely seen, I do like that especially nowadays he’s rarely straight. I also love him being good friends with Lily. and close with his cousins as well.

8. least favorite thing fandom does with their character

with Lily there’s serious and more minor things. the serious thing is ofc the Bad Friend to Snape Lily narrative which I despise and Lily bashing in general. It grosses me out. And more broadly, the way Lily tends to be treated as a prop for whichever male character the author prefers, being loved or hated as an extension of her male friends. The minor thing is that I don’t think Lily was that popular (which is pretty much purely my headcanon) but even fics with good characterizations of her have her have a whole group of friends–and i’ve read and enjoyed very many of these, but I’d like there to be a little more unpopular weirdo lily.

with Sirius……………..do you have an hour? No? Okay. I’ll stick to one thing. Idiot Sirius. The man is smart. whether you are making him an airhead in the modern day who needs Remus to function or that annoying fandom trend from years ago where he just pranks 24/7 with no other thoughts in his head, I don’t like it. Also Sirius bashing to prop up Regulus and blaming Sirius for Regulus’s death (wtf). makes it hard to find black brothers stuff and I used to like the black brothers!

24 characters from another fandom that remind you of them

the way Lily is treated by fandom reminds me of how lyanna stark is treated by her fandom….

sirius as the chosen father figure to Harry has to have some analogue somewhere, but I cant think of one off the top of my head (sorry).

27. A color that reminds you of them

Bright electric green for Lily. she’s the girl with the killing curse eyes (this is an Easter egg for EoS readers)

And Sirius is black, obviously. Also bright red.

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thistlecatfics

smugrobotics asked:

Any thoughts on how the existence of pensieves would impact therapy in the hp universe?

thistlecatfics answered:

sorry I’ve been sitting on this ask forever!! I’m very much not sure. I think it depends on how it feels to put a memory in a pensieve and how it feels to be in your own memory.

First, it seems like pensieves are rare and expensive so I don’t think they’d be commonly used.

Second, I could see how they could be used for exposure therapy around traumatic memories - revisiting them with your therapist by your side. But I don’t love (pure) exposure therapy personally - like with EMDR I want to help rewire those memories. So like for a classic experience in EMDR, a person might revisit a traumatic memory and then insert their adult self into it to protect the childself and experience some healing around how the childself deserved protection. But with a pensieve you can’t change or intervene at all! so you’re just getting the pure exposure.

Third, I think there’s something interesting about the idea that memories in pensieves are somehow pure or objective. But that’s not how I engage with memories as a therapist - like they exist with layers of emotional learning and beliefs and subjective processes. Like what would I do with a neutral, objective memory? Do we enter into it together and then allow the client to reflect on their experience of re-experiencing the memory? That I think could be interesting.

I suppose you can also use that for memories where a client got super triggered and reacted as if the past was happening rather than the present. So like… revisiting a memory where a beloved friend didn’t text back, and everything feels like it’s crashing down around you and you’re abandoned all over again. and then you can go back into the memory and see it as like… not that bad? idk? maybe there would be something there?

idk! those are just some scattered thoughts so I don’t sit on this ask forever. what are your thoughts?

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