Choosing to love someone

You need someone who wants to be there when it's messy and when it's hard, not just when it's fun and when it's convenient. And you need someone who chooses you when it might not be the easiest choice. And you need someone who would rather do nothing with you than anything in the world with someone else.

When you choose to love someone who is damaged, you take on the weight of their past, their pain, their guilt. You must be strong, you must be patient. You can stop the bleeding and help them scar over but they will always, always be a little broken. If you can handle that, if you can accept the dents and the cracks, if you can get them to trust you, you will never find a better ally than one who is damaged. Above all else, they know about survival.

When You Choose To Love Someone https://themindsjournal.com/when-you-choose-to-love-someone/

Do you think there’s a difference between loving someone and falling in love? While these phrases have been used synonymously to describe a typical love story, they are actually two totally distinct experiences.

Yet sadly in today's world that seems more like a dream than a reality... 😕

Anyone can love according to their convenience. True love is tested when you have to love someone even when they do not love you back in the same way. -Chloe Truth From the Motivation app: https://motivation.app/download

Why does he keep me around if he doesn’t want a relationship? I’ve answered this question and gave you 9 reasons why a man acts this way, so read here.

One of my focus areas. Learning to love myself so can accept it from someone who chooses to love me.

Please take this advice always. You have to choose to love someone. You fall and then that's when you start choosing. Start choosing to move forward, to forgive, and to always give them the benefit of the doubt. Choose to hear them out and understand.