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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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tired-fandom-ndn

"CNC is fine as long as you're roleplaying as the victim" "ageplay is fine as long as you're not roleplaying as the adult" do you hear the words coming out of your mouth

tired-fandom-ndn

what anti-kink people think kink scenes should be like

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tired-fandom-ndn

A lot of kinksters need to hear this too:

If it's okay for someone to want to be taken care of, then it's okay for someone to want to take care of them.

If it's okay for someone to want to be hit, then it's okay for someone to want to hit them.

If it's okay for someone to want to be degraded, then it's okay for someone to want to degrade them.

Etc, etc. Doms, daddies/mommies, and other "aggressors" are a necessary and IMPORTANT part of kink and wanting to fill those roles isn't an indication of some deep and terrible hidden urges or whatever. This goes for all the most extreme kinks you can think of; as long as everyone involved is an adult who is aware of the risks and consents to them, then there is nothing wrong with ANY of the roles and desires people are fulfilling through kink.

seradae

Also, this is a big part about why I speak on aftercare for doms so much! There's often a lot of shame and concern after a scene that's seen as taboo, and it's so important that they receive reassurance that they aren't a bad person, that what they did was welcome and asked for, and that they're loved.

Aftercare is so often only talked about for submissives and bottoms, and that's so damn important too, but this deserves more attention.

happyk44

[ID: “They Were Both Bottoms” meme. A panel from the manga Neko to Neko Owaranai Yoru (translated in English as Cat and Cat Endeless Night) by artist/author Mikawa Miso depicting to two women kneeling on a bed. Both of them are stripped down to their underwear and facing one another. However, they’re covering their faces with their hands, blushing furiously. A text box between them reads, “And so… They were both bottoms.” /end ID]

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Certified Sex Ed Post!

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caodhanthecelt
coffeenrocknroll

Daniel Sloss- “Jigsaw”

the-weeping-angel-slayer

ROMANTIC LOVE IS NOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN PLATONIC LOVE!!!

bisexualshakespeare

[Image description: Images of Daniel Sloss doing a stand up routine from a Netflix special. He says: “My best friend in the whole wide world is a woman called Jean. We’ve been best friends for about eight or nine years. A lot of people don’t believe it’s platonic, but it is, the idea of each other naked makes us both very sad. But we love each other, we do, we’ve just been together through most things. Two months into my relationship with my ex-girlfriend, she was like, “Sometimes, I feel like you love Jean more than me.” And I was like, “Baby, no! … All the time! Every hour of every day I love her more than I love you. Because she’s put the ground work in. You don’t get to suck a dick and go number one, you sociopath.” End description]

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aspiringwarriorlibrarian
suprsaturatd

A photograph of a painting leaning in gravel against a garden bed. The painting has a thick, textured frame built up over the canvas itself painted in the transgender flag colors. Words are carved into the top and bottom of the frame that read "We are holy" in all caps. The word "holy" is painted in gold. The center of the canvas has a radial gradient from dark blue at the edges to light blue in the center. Glued to the center is a pink cardstock print cut into a diamond with a light blue block print depicting a naked transgender man with breasts and body hair in a position mimicking Jesus Christ. Thick block letters that read "Worship Yourself" wrap around the left side of the man. There are transgender symbols stamped in white around the canvas and frame.ALT
Detail of a painting showing the word "Holy" carved into a thick light blue canvas. The carved word is painted in gold. There are parts of white transgender symbols visible at the edges of the photo where the canvas cuts off.ALT

We are holy.

A multi-media piece I did to frame and highlight my “Worship Yourself” block print.

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The print is a blend of acrylic and Speedball water-based ink on cardstock. The frame is built up with textured paint, then carved. (I mixed some cheap acrylic paint up with glue, modge podge, baking soda, and puffy paint, then painted a ton of layers of that outside in the sun so it’d dry fast.)

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jonphaedrus

sharpteetheyesinfront asked:

As someone who has organized a gangbang, it is SO HARD to Wrangle People towards the sexy parts and away from the crafted table of snacks which just so happens to be in front of your book shelf and OMG you have THIS gaming System?? That was Kickstarter exclusive! Like, no. Stop. Please return the game book to the shelf and remove your clothes. Please?

unpretty answered:

well thank god it’s not just me

unpretty

favorite tags from the notes so far:

#throwback to that one time a platonic friend invited me to a swinger club#and his earnest reasoning was#'the buffet there is the best I have ever been to and it's so cheap we need to eat our way through the buffet together'#I didn't go but I have reliable sources that the buffet really is that good (via @notgreengardens)

#this has been the case at every single kink event i've been to#went to a fireplay demo once and it took like 45 minutes to get started because everyone was distracted by the host's pet lizard (via @glorious-spoon)

bippysaurus-rex

The best sex party I ever went to nearly stopped because someone taped a sheet to the back of sliding glass windows and were using dry erase markers to make diagrams. A bunch of math and physics PhD’s were helping a chemistry phd with a thorny problem and they cheered when they solved it. A board game night broke out and it was really hard to pry people away from the games, science and snacks for sex so someone put up a pole in the living room and four women started pole dancing while shouting instructions to the scientists and board game nerds.

Epic party, I think I shagged 8 women that night and I won a card game.

unpretty

pizzaback replied: i went to my first sex party recently and this is so true. i could not separate myself from the veggie plate for even a momentALT
#only been to one kink house party and yeah the food table was amazing.#I spent most of my time eating the bread and fancy oilsALT
#only sex party ive been to i was too busy talking to the host about her homemade jams to do the sucking and fucking i was invited forALT
#almost didn’t make it to the swinger club in time bc we were busy eating chilli and watching x-filesALT
#throwback to the time i was in a threesome and we watched the entirety of shrek 2 before taking our clothes offALT
#had to delay a 3some by 4 hours last week cause we got really into playing catanALT
#I’d take this over how many damned parties I’ve been to have broken out into orgies or kink photo shoots or impromptu bondage showcasesALT
#every orgy i have participated in was coincidental to party with no particular orgiastic intentions#and the one time i tried to plan group sex we all just stood and stared awkwardly in a circle before going to play starcraft the board game#i kicked their asses. i won that game of starcraft the board game. this remains the best story i have from my thot yearsALT
#I was at a kink event last week and the host had frogs so everyone spent a good few minutes looking at themALT
#even at the club it's a whole thing#like#would someone please fuck in the orgy pit so we can get started hereALT
ursavorpalis

#it got better#new fanfic trope: trying to host an orgy but everyone keeps getting distracted

i must write this or perish

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the-jackals
sadclowncentral

i paint. and because someone told me that another student wanted to get his portrait done i approached this man who i have barely exchanged two sentences before and said "i heard you want to get painted. i'll do it for 500"

and it took as two very confusing and exparating minutes of haggling about the price and outlining the logistics of said painting during which i said sentences like "you can be naked if you want but that would be extra" and "what do you mean why would you pay me. i do all the work?" while he got increasingly more flushed until i put my foot down and said "well if you want to be painted baroque style that's gonna cost some money" and he said "oh my god PAINTED. that makes a lot more sense."

turns out he misheard me and thought a stranger. a random person. came up to him in the middle of the lecture hall in front of god and everyone and loudly and confidently said "i heard you want get pegged." and then got mad at his refusal to pay half a grand for it. can you fucking imagine

albi-bumblebee

Screenshot of the replies. First reply, which is from user @/wingedasarath, reads “The fact that he asked why he had to pay you suggests he did in fact also want to get pegged. OP did you peg him?” The second reply, which is from the original poster, reads “now we have a platonic bsdm thing going on now. all well ends well.”ALT

[ID: Screenshot of the replies. First reply, which is from user @/wingedasarath, reads “The fact that he asked why he had to pay you suggests he did in fact also want to get pegged. OP did you peg him?”

The second reply, which is from the original poster, reads “now we have a platonic bsdm thing going on now. all well ends well.” /End ID]

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